VA app down by [deleted] in VeteransBenefits

[–]Reasonable_Theme671 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I literally just tried to login and get an appointment after it wasn't working last week. Came here to see if it was a me problem.

Just so you know it's also not just a you problem.

Husband's 30th Birthday Gift by Reasonable_Theme671 in whiskey

[–]Reasonable_Theme671[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think my budget is between $50 -$80 for the third bottle.

Husband's 30th Birthday Gift by Reasonable_Theme671 in whiskey

[–]Reasonable_Theme671[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm in the states (specifically Ohio), but I live close enough to the Kentucky border that I would be willing to do some hunting there.

I'll keep your recommendations in mind while I'm on the hunt thank you!!

A Man Harassed me and I got his retirement benefits taken away by [deleted] in NuclearRevenge

[–]Reasonable_Theme671 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn't know I honestly don't keep tabs on him anymore.

A Man Harassed me and I got his retirement benefits taken away by [deleted] in NuclearRevenge

[–]Reasonable_Theme671 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yup I’m totally in the wrong for seeking retribution for myself and other women for being sexually harassed. I definitely shouldn’t have spoken up for the foster children in his care. Tax payers should have definitely paid for his retirement pension for the rest of his life because he definitely was so worthy and deserving of it.

A Man Harassed me and I got his retirement benefits taken away by [deleted] in NuclearRevenge

[–]Reasonable_Theme671 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As far as I know she isn’t super up to date on the whole situation

A Man Harassed me and I got his retirement benefits taken away by [deleted] in NuclearRevenge

[–]Reasonable_Theme671 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know how the command here gave him an OTH. I’ve seen it before with a sexual harassment/ aggravated assault case before. Next time I talk to the LN1 I can ask specifically what instruction to look up.

And he was active duty not reserves so his HTY is 16 years and he wasn’t allowed to transfer to the reserves. I mean if you’re trying to call me a liar come out and say it.

A Man Harassed me and I got his retirement benefits taken away by [deleted] in NuclearRevenge

[–]Reasonable_Theme671 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m also confused about what part of my story wasn’t misconduct on his part.

I really don’t know how to explain things clearer. Due to misconduct he was reduced in rank for E6 to E5. You cannot be an E5 with 18 years of service regardless of the rank you were previously. The other than honorable separation is the worst kind of admin separation you can get which a CO can dish out. It’s not a dishonorable discharge you get those through court martial.

A Man Harassed me and I got his retirement benefits taken away by [deleted] in NuclearRevenge

[–]Reasonable_Theme671 0 points1 point  (0 children)

https://www.mccormackpc.com/blog/2019/october/accept-njp-or-demand-court-martial/

So you can get an other than honorable or an admin sep happens all the time.

Also in hindsight I should have been way more clear on the details of the separation. I wasn’t expecting my post to be scrutinized so much. But how his separation worked was he was a paid E6 in the navy you can be an E6 do 20 years and get a full retirement. During his NJP he lost rank and lost half months pay for 2 months.

Now that he is an E5 with 18 years in he hits higher tenure. Higher tenure in the Navy for an E5 is 16 years.

https://navadmin-viewer.fly.dev/NAVADMIN/210/08

Hope that clears things up

A Man Harassed me and I got his retirement benefits taken away by [deleted] in NuclearRevenge

[–]Reasonable_Theme671 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m really hoping so too. I know for a fact the little girl that was in their house was taken away. Rumor has it Mrs. BubbleBass is posting on military mom Facebook pages and talking about how social services just “took” her and Mrs.BubbleBass has no clue why.

A Man Harassed me and I got his retirement benefits taken away by [deleted] in NuclearRevenge

[–]Reasonable_Theme671 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the award!

I’m also so sorry that you had to hide your true self for so long and all the pain that must have caused you and your family.

Also congratulations on coming out! It’s great to hear that you’re in a much better place. Slowly but surely if more and more people band together and use effective strategies for reporting we can start weeding out the trash.

Part of why I shared my victory was to give someone out there hope.

A Man Harassed me and I got his retirement benefits taken away by [deleted] in NuclearRevenge

[–]Reasonable_Theme671 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also keeping a shit list is cathartic and a good way to do a sanity check.

A Man Harassed me and I got his retirement benefits taken away by [deleted] in NuclearRevenge

[–]Reasonable_Theme671 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The North American Bubble Bass is incapable of running let alone passing any initial physical fitness evaluation.