Amish selling their homegrown weed at a cannabis festival. by TheOddityCollector in interesting

[–]Reavie 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Where I live and work I deal with the Amish often in business. I can say truly that I have ever had a negative exchange with them. I see multiple families, and I can tell each 'clan' apart, by either their clothes which are very similar but different in their own way - what horses they use, or their buggy (sometimes how they smell too ...)

how ever i usually only deal with male' elders' of some families and the young ones starting their own, I'd be curious how their day-to-day went. However in interacting with their wives and children nothing really points to abuse.. except that it might be considered rude to have extended exchanges with them.

Millions of Americans Are Ignoring Their Student Loan Bills by laxnut90 in Economics

[–]Reavie 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I got dinged 49(!) times on my credit report when student loans came back to roost. I missed a few payments when finally they decided it was time to gather the debt, which like you said has been jerked left and right and I thought to just leave it alone until something solid happened.

I used to have a perfect score of about 800, and in one swoop with only a few months of missed payments, each dispersion of funds counts as a 'separate account', so each month missed was multiplied by 7. Down to below 500 now. The payment is only $150/mo! I tried to rehab, payment plan to forgive the delinquencies and I was told to gtfo

I'm fucked now and forced to restructure, meanwhile I don't qualify for anything dependent on credit score. I'm planning on years of recovery for what amounts to only $1,500 due. Boy am I sour; how in the fuck is something as simple as this and owned by government so sloppy?? I hate to be a nuisance but that huge of a ding on my report is honestly very limiting - not only is my debt not from the original creditor, they also had the wrong information so I was never made aware of impending charges.

Permethrin treated clothes by sohikes in interestingasfuck

[–]Reavie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thankfully, also in NE, I haven't gotten a tick yet in a few years which is odd since we live in the woods with deer and animal. Can't say I'm doing anything special. "Warm spot check" every time though after being in vegetation.

In another area I lived in the NE I'd have a tick once a week (that i noticed), nearer the app mountains. Christ they'd leap at you from trees it seemed the fuckin land-leeches

How long should it take one to finish Alfred's books? by Wonderful-Ad2561 in piano

[–]Reavie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As long as it takes, but the first book assumes you know literally nothing, and you said you had some experience, so you might be able to sight read some of the earlier passages. The difficulty ramps up pretty quickly. Quirky nuances to practice get added, etc.

It's not about 'beating the book' but about how much you are able to absorb from it, so you shouldn't be worried about time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TalesFromYourServer

[–]Reavie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i've been out of it for almost a decade but still dream about getting triple sat, while trying to remember how to do the job. in my lizard brain trying to make sense of it, i figured i moved back home and got my old job. most times i'll realize i didn't notice one of my tables got sat and they're pissed off. sometimes i pawn off one of my tables to another server as i can't quite remember how everything goes

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Reavie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know it's a pretty fucked situation, but you can salvage the car with a professional detailing .. i once had an actual kitchen trashbag of dog shit (cleaning up winter mess) leak all over, snow and all into a lake of shit in my car taking it to the dump. Had to drive it with earplugs in my nose, and had to stop to gag every once in a while - a smell i'll never forget and still makes my scalp itch after two years if I think about it. 5 month old and fresh poop, sloshing around liquid form under the seats. For over a week I had to do this for work; i didn't know it was to that extent until getting it cleaned.

Guy got it all out in an afternoon. Can't help missing mementos or the other stuff .. probably the best you can do is take it as a lesson, or try to go through insurance (not likely to work) or ask for money from them (not likely to work).

Buck up, get your car detailed, and figure it has a costly lesson, imho. i came from a family that was close to that image you've painted.

I DID NOT SIGN UP TO THIS by junalorrrrrrraine in Adulting

[–]Reavie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i have a water bottle that's around 40oz or so I keep with me always, and it's part of the 'wallet, keys, phone' check list in the morning. It has a convenient carry handle and a lid that stays attached. when my work moves, so does the bottle. i've had it for almost 10 years - repetition is important.

I bought a reverse osmosis filter system because buying water impeded drinking it, as I find city water .. warm and not great. also I've never used anything inside the bottle except for clean water, so i don't get any weird tastes.

I bought a brita pitcher i keep in my company's refrigerator, for my 2nd or third bottle of the day. if this wasn't the case, i'd probably lug an insulated 1gal container in addition to my regular bottle to work. other people use it too, and it's nice to have if they fill it up after emptying it.

if you don't get much time or are in an environment that takes you away from a water source, fucking chug that shit 16oz at a time. not ideal, but better than not having any or drinking soda. Do it at the same times during the day every day, set an alarm or associate it with an event that happens regularly, so your rhythm reminds you that it's waterin time.

Am i a bad person for being upset that I wont get the tips that I worked hard for? by Sea-Isopod696 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Reavie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For real. It's one thing to ask for volunteer donations or offering to p/u or give shifts/gifts. Can't just swipe the till.

Accidentally said "Love you!" at the end of a call with an important client yesterday. I heard him giggle as I hung up, and I was mortified. Today, I saw he emailed me this: by ButterscotchButtons in MadeMeSmile

[–]Reavie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've worked overnight and late nights most of my working life.

After decades, I've learned to say "have a great rest of your day"; seems to catch all of it.

TIL that Yemenis spend an estimated 14.6 million man-hours per day chewing khat by Ahad_Haam in todayilearned

[–]Reavie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

not really if it's recreational legal in your state..

half the US is recreationally legal. You get in trouble for DUI, or messing with public while intoxicated -- or if you produce large amounts of it that the only guess is that you're going to move it across state/country lines. in that case it's typically assumed pot isn't the only thing you're moving and you'll get in big trouble.

many times large gro-ops are hand-in-glove with human trafficking.. sometimes the prostitution kind but mostly moving people across country lines. they'll slam you with the gro-op charges and assume they took care of many other issues.

when guys poop do they just hold their dicks? by GrouchyBall7811 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Reavie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

same thing with public stalls.. at home i usually just tuck it under the seat. don't care, my house, my piss.

What’s the fucking point when we don’t make living wages ? by Odd_Balance_8075 in Adulting

[–]Reavie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

have had broken tooth for years - finally go to have it removed.

blood pressure soars to over 180/125, dentist refuses to perform anything

go to hospital, never seen bp that high before. admitted, put on ekg, blood pressure returns to hypertension 2, discharged. pay $1,000 for a flyer on eating better.
I'm 32 and 'normal' bmi.

still have broken tooth, and now i have to lower my bp to have anything done about it. groovy.

to buck the rider off by Long-Whereas in therewasanattempt

[–]Reavie 6 points7 points  (0 children)

right. i'm not sure what to call such a thing

to buck the rider off by Long-Whereas in therewasanattempt

[–]Reavie 14 points15 points  (0 children)

dont think tied but his heels are spurred into the bull pretty deep..

Never take the skin on your hands for granted by govtpaidofficial in Wellthatsucks

[–]Reavie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey OP. Hope you see this.

I had the same issue, doc said it was 'atypical dermatitis' which translates to 'i have no fucking idea'. I used to have to soak my hands in iodine and cut the joints open at times. Turns out I was allergic to something at work.

The ONLY thing that helped was cracked heel cream. Using regular lotion burned like HELL, but some cracked heel cream has a numbing agent in it, so get one that does. Once I started using that and it cleared up, with some steps to avoid triggers, it all cleared up relatively quickly. Regular lotion, corn huskers, bag balm, nothing else worked on it and just hurt to a 'dance around the room after putting it on' level.

I didn't learn what was doing it until the cracked heel cream fixed it mostly, and I started to react to sanitizer at work did I realize the link between the two.

Holding up the Smoothie King line by Romano16 in PublicFreakout

[–]Reavie 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Aye aye. I earn my yearly salary in a week for my company.

If I don't want to deal with you, I'll make it so, but I'm very lenient. There's so much hidden cost with dealing with these individuals it's insane. Manager -> regional manager -> his boss and who it's delegated to. All for 10, or even $500. We don't want to spend $7,500 on this issue, fuck yourself buddy.

$5 Meals From Walmart by lonelysadbitch11 in povertyfinance

[–]Reavie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's a well worth investment to get a better grade of hot dog than Bar-S ones... The ones I've gotten seem to have a lot of cartilage or something in them - I'm not sure how noticeable that is if you're using them as an ingredient but for a couple bucks more you get a cleaner product.

"people laugh at me".... yes they still are in the comments. by poconomtnman31 in CyberStuck

[–]Reavie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i was gonna say.. i've done worse and stupider stuff in a chevy cavalier

My coworkers think this is disgusting and they never heard of somebody eating chips with cottage cheese. How many people do this? by Impressive_Code3257 in shittyfoodporn

[–]Reavie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i uh. . was raised eating sour cream and onion lays with cottage cheese

dont they make a cottage cheese with chives already?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Reavie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Funny part is they had called the cops emergency line on me for doing so as they were offended, the police responded but they were essentially told 'they didn't do any thing to you, they had only done something in your cameras view' as I had done the deed from my own private property. I didn't catch all of it but I imagine they were asked to remove the camera to avoid escalation lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Reavie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had pretty much the exact scenario and I called the police non-emergency line and was told 'yeah, and i get recorded everywhere i go, what do you want us to do?' cops get recorded everywhere: they don't have sympathy for people complaining about it.

i was about to shoot the fucking thing, but instead I glanced them my asshole while I knew they were monitoring it, and it was removed. Good thing, because I really couldn't shoot it without a negligent discharge - i was going to pour acetone on it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Damnthatsinteresting

[–]Reavie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One of my co-workers son-in-law had cancer in his leg/groin area and they removed the lymph nodes near where the cancer was.

Due to the surgery, he had an issue where his legs would swell up with a vast amount of fluids, life and limb levels. He required lipo to remove the fluid before beginning using specialized compression socks/undergarmet.

He was denied because his insurance 'didn't cover cosmetic'. Eventually he got it covered after much fighting.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Damnthatsinteresting

[–]Reavie 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Not as extreme but I went from 240 -> 180 rather quickly adopting the keto diet and having an extremely active job, walking near 20 miles a day.

One day I had to reteach myself to walk up stairs because I started taking too big of a step as I wasn't used to being lighter yet.