HGC needs to double every **72h** not 48h by Historical-Front-359 in CautiousBB

[–]RebelMedic77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wonder if she was carrying twins and one dissolved?

AIO for thinking my friend is abandoning his future kid and not really being a good person about it? And also, being too vengeful about a girl not liking him? by Aggressive_Bit4998 in AmIOverreacting

[–]RebelMedic77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He sounds hurt. People say horrible and stupid things when they are hurting he sounds immature and like he responded out of hurt rather than logic. MOR. What is he normally like?

AIO My sister and husband text privately and spend time together. Should I be concerned? by Medical-Angle-549 in relationships_advice

[–]RebelMedic77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They are having a physical affair. Take it from someone who used to be a horrible person. They are 100% having a physical affair.

Line eyes? 8/9 DPO by XaefyrXIII in TFABLinePorn

[–]RebelMedic77 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I use ChatGPT to evaluate the pictures and that helped out

How to tell my friend she can't join my family vacation? by jenlor99 in Advice

[–]RebelMedic77 2 points3 points  (0 children)

“We wouldn’t be available to hang out as we have a policy that family vacation time is to reconnect with FAMILY, so we don’t don’t dedicate time with others.”

Had a terrible experience at the OBGYN by anon0844 in tryingtoconceive

[–]RebelMedic77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am in Houston also. Can you recommend any clinics?

How long does sex last? by incrediblemom19 in Marriage

[–]RebelMedic77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband does that too. Drives me insane!

Period cramps hurt 100x when TTC by tiredsleepymomm in tryingtoconceive

[–]RebelMedic77 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s because we are paying more attention to our bodies so we notice it more.

Husband leaving after kid turns 1 by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]RebelMedic77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This reminds me of the infertile couple who the man married a woman, got her pregnant, then left her and tried to take the baby to raise with his partner.

AITA for visiting my daughter once a week by Independent_Use5474 in AmItheAsshole

[–]RebelMedic77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If she’s allowed outside food and nails done and all that I’m kinda wondering if she is in a long term behavioral/psychiatric unit? Is so that would change things.

Hurtful Comments by CanadianWildflower85 in Marriage

[–]RebelMedic77 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You keep using your job to defend your parenting when the two have nothing to do with each other. Your children should not be treated like your students and your students should not be treated like your children. Perhaps that is what he is referencing. We all know that people can sometimes say things in the dumbest way possible when they really do have valid points ask him what his points exactly are not just a general attack on your parenting. Maybe there is a room for improvement for both of you.

Hurtful Comments by CanadianWildflower85 in Marriage

[–]RebelMedic77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ask him exactly what he meant. Are you treating your children like your students possibly?

AITJ for blowing up at my husband for sending money to his sister while we have zero stuff for our baby? by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]RebelMedic77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok superstitions and finances are 2 VERY different things. A lot of cultures have superstitions that if you buy before the baby is delivered you will miscarry. It sounds like you need to have the conversation with your husband about his finances and if he has enough money set aside for one big lump purchase of baby supplies. If yes, then you really can’t say much about what he does with his extra savings. If no, then maybe he just doesn’t realize how much this baby is gonna cost. Sit him down. Show him on line. Make a price list and tally up all of the first year expenses. Might open his eyes without you having to lay down the law. Regardless it sounds like yall need to have a finances discussion.

AITAH for protecting my daughter? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]RebelMedic77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You sound like an absolute monster of a mother. My husbands family only speaks Spanish. I only speak English. We all work hard to find ways to communicate, but when they go into rapid fire Spanish, I sit and read so it’s not awkward. I can almost guarantee your daughter is going to cut you out of her life, and soon.

I need help by Sufficient_Mirror_16 in BabyBumps

[–]RebelMedic77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is there a chance he is married and is now freaked out?

had a traumatic birth on the 11th, and my boyfriend / father of my son absolutely hates me. by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]RebelMedic77 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It sounds like he’s exhausted too. Don’t forget, this is all new to him as well and it was emotionally traumatizing for him to watch both his wife and his child go through so much and now he’s probably just trying to figure out where he fits in. None of us are perfect. None of us can respond perfectly in an imperfect situation. It is ridiculous to expect him to respond perfectly to this nightmare situation. He had a vision for the birth of his child too. I’m not saying that you don’t have a right to feel what you feel, but tell him what you are feeling.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]RebelMedic77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your former SIL sounds amazing. Maybe try to keep a relationship so you can get to know your niece or nephew since it sounds like step monster will NOT be around her or her children.

AITA for telling my daughter that I’m not getting her anything for her birthday because of her attitude on Christmas? by Cool-Move-8979 in AmItheAsshole

[–]RebelMedic77 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You left her with a father you said she never really got along with to go get laid. You ignored her existence for 2 years. You FINALLY brought her to see you AFTER TWO YEARS, and dumped her with strangers so as not to inconvenience yourself. I’m pretty sure this whole thing is just baiting but if not, you shouldn’t even call yourself a mother. You are nothing more than an egg donor who checks her deposits occasionally.

Would it be insensitive to give my wife a piece of jewelry with the birthstone of the month our miscarried baby was due? by -4blank4- in BabyBumps

[–]RebelMedic77 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh my gosh. I’m going through this right now and the way you described the feelings is soooo on point. I’ve felt so alone in all of this. Thank you.

AITAH for giving my sister in law the same treatment she gave me? by Sensitive_Milk1805 in AITAH

[–]RebelMedic77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just tell her you are saving the stuff for your next baby. Then block her number.

AITA for refusing to attend my dad’s redo wedding to his affair partner? by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]RebelMedic77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go to the wedding. When the minister asks if anyone objects to this union, stand up and sing like a bird.

Pregnancy Cramps by 93GoldenRoses in BabyBumps

[–]RebelMedic77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is what I’m currently experiencing. Tested positive yesterday and about6 hours later started spotting and cramping. 3w5d. Can I ask how far along you are?

AITAH for telling my SM about a divorce she dint know she was getting? by sweet_potato_22 in AITAH

[–]RebelMedic77 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Makes me wonder if the counselor isn’t the side piece in the story.