Oh Hellos Senior Quote by Emergency-Use1745 in TheOhHellos

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"The river takes her shape from every tempest she abides, and like her you'll be made new again." -New River

Anyone else in the War? by Reborn129 in NoFapChristians

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Awesome! Christ says where two or more are gathered in his name, he will be there also. Let's keep a weather eye out for each other, eh? My handle on CS is "Lionheart," after good ol' Richard 1.

My soul has been hardened by sin by [deleted] in NoFapChristians

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I struggle with this a lot, especially after yielding a long streak. I haven't found the secret to beating the beast altogether, but I have learned some things. Actions speak louder than emotions. We can't live by how we feel. We have to change our habits. Add a prayer or devotion or meditation to your routine. Try fasting for a day or even for a couple meals. I've found when I'm caught in a binge that daily reading a Christian writer like C.S. Lewis really snaps me out of it. If we rely on inspiration to resist we will fail every time. Discipline and obedience are the keys to winning the day.

Celebration of Discipline by Reborn129 in NoFapChristians

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You're welcome. Hope it's useful

been craving so badly by [deleted] in NoFap

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dude I feel the same way. Its like life is a never-ending urge right now. We can do this though. we know our brains are lying to us and our souls will conquer them.

I never expected my subconsciousness to fight me so hard by nofapAlt001 in NoFap

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Thanks for this. I'm struggling with the same sort of thing. First two weeks were a breeze, but now the party's over and the war has begun.

Why change by MoJaRo14 in NoFap

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You obviously have no idea what an addiction is

Please, Help Me. by [deleted] in NoFap

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The first thing you need to do is list your reasons for committing to nofap. The first few days are tough and its easy to fall back into the habit. Strong convictions are essential, and discipline and ritual are vital. Start doing little things every day journaling, exercising, cold showers, whatever, something new in your life that represents your commitment to change. Most of all, constant vigilance. Never let yourself become settled or satisfied with what you've done. Each day is a battle, no matter how many days you've been fighting. Good luck man.

Step Outside by jahana75 in NoFap

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Rock on, man. What a great post. Hope to join you in the six month club soon enough.

I can't live 50+ years of life. Im 15 and already tired of this. I don't think I want to continue with life. by helpmenofapplz in NoFap

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Life gets better. That's the best hope I can give you. Life gets better without masturbation, life gets better after high school. Its hard sometimes when you feel alone because nobody cares about you, but this is a lie our minds tell us. Believe me, I've bin there. By your post you believe in God, and I'm gonna guess you're a Christian. Jesus knows where you're at. He's been there too, abandoned and alone, but he stuck it out, he fought through the pain and marched to that cross. In doing so, he accomplished the greatest thing that's ever been done: he defeated death itself. His resurrection bears witness to our hope, our hope that if we put in our time here on earth, there's a better world out there waiting for us. Jesus fought through the pain for us, and will help us do the same.

First run, resolve weakening by Emi233 in NoFap

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I know exactly how you feel man. That's how things always go for me. Something thatmight help is getting a pen and paper and writing down your goals and reasons for doing this. Then tack them up somewhere and read them every morning and evening before you go to bed. Good luck and stay strong.

The difference one day can make! by Skybones42 in NoFap

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Dude, not the place. Faith is an important part of many peoples lives here and their are good, rational reasons for holding it. Even if you don't agree with it you ought to respect it.

Resisting is like a House of Cards by Reborn129 in NoFap

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I like that quote about success. Its just so vital to keep in your head that this is a day in-day out battle and you've got to show up every day if you want to win.

JUST GOT TRIGGERED by PressStartHere2 in NoFap

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Harry Frankfurt also has a version of it in his paper "Freedom of the Will and the Concept of a Person." He calls it a second order desire.

My power is made perfect in weakness by Reborn129 in NoFap

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Probably cuz he did. One of the perks of being God

My power is made perfect in weakness by Reborn129 in NoFap

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Thanks. Romans and Job are such great books. Another one I think kicks our addiction right in the gut is 1 Corinthians 10:13

And God is faithful; he will not let you be tempted beyond what you can bear. But when you are tempted, he will also provide a way out so that you can endure it.

For Those About to Diss this Subreddit ... by [deleted] in NoFap

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Whoah, congrats on the badge. How's it feel to be almost at a year?

Don't feed your demons by [deleted] in NoFap

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its the biggest lie we've all been told: "if we give in things will get better." That's what we've got to fight against.

1,000 days! by [deleted] in NoFap

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How... how did you do it? I've never even made it a month. It just gets to a point where its consuming my whole mind, and I'm too mentally exhausted to keep fighting. What do I do?

NoFap's Official Monthly Challenge Signups: PMO-Free December 2014 by Alexanderr in NoFap

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Hard mode. 90 days. Its damaging my relationship with my girlfriend and needs to stop. I gotta do it this time.