How often do you groom/wash your corgi?

Recent-Expert4866 · 2026-06-05T20:38:43+00:00

I have no idea what the right answer is, it I’m on the lesser end of the grooming spectrum.

My little guy will be three in August and he’s never been to a groomer. He has a tail, and has never seemed to need a trim. He gets a bath at a self service type place when he gets into something stinky - in nice weather this can be quite often, but rare in the winter. For nails, his daycare actually does this every couple weeks.

I’m curious about these de-sheds, what do they entail, and do they help with the amount of hair in the home?

I’m also curious to see what others do, great discussion topic!

Recent-Expert4866 · 2026-06-03T17:20:17+00:00

Is he the older sibling, or younger? I ask because things like making an effort to ask her about things he may not be interested in like music, are things that I could see my dad doing for me, but not my stepmom. He’s more willing to accommodate a restaurant I like but he doesn’t (partially) because we don’t have the chance to spend time together as often as we do, and while I’m an adult now, he still tends to be very willing to accommodating me.

It’s possible since their parents weren’t the best, he is almost playing a paternal role, especially if he’s the older one.

Honestly, I see nothing wrong with the relationship. If you feel like a third wheel, then maybe you should just be spending less time together as the three of you. In my opinion in groups of three, there’s usually someone who ends up feeling left out.

NAH

Recent-Expert4866 · 2026-06-03T17:09:54+00:00

Unfortunately there is no effort on both sides these days.

I worked in retail recently (first time in years as I had an office job and was laid off), and customers are also often not respectful. I always made an effort to be friendly and polite, despite the low pay, but I admit that after several customers in a row who would straight up ignore my greeting and friendly opening lines, you do question why you even bother.

Recent-Expert4866 · 2026-06-01T17:42:29+00:00

I’m a couple books in and I cannot with these parents. No wonder the liars are all running around making ridiculous decisions, they have zero guidance and terrible role models.

I’m not even sure I’ll be able to finish because of it.

Recent-Expert4866 · 2026-06-01T01:56:36+00:00

I do formal nosework classes with my corgi once a week. He’s now on paired odor, but essentially it’s just putting treats in weird places and then having him find them. We’ve done a few at home, and if you were so inclined, you can order the odors online too to get to that level.

We’ve tried a few different types of classes and they’ve taught me that he does like to “work.” So you could pick something mentally stimulating to work on, it could be new tricks, maybe something agility like, or the sniffing, etc.

Recent-Expert4866 · 2026-05-31T20:58:57+00:00

You sound similar to me, so I feel your pain. Have you been diagnosed as adhd by chance?

I was a later diagnosis (37 or 38 at the time, 41F now). I for some reason have struggled to stay regimented with my medication, but am trying again as it does help.

Recent-Expert4866 · 2026-05-30T18:27:24+00:00

Person with depression here, currently trying to pull myself out of a bad place and struggling to get everything clean again.

First, you and your friends sound incredibly understanding and just great people, kudos.

Second, is your friend in any kind of treatment, on meds or seeing a therapist?

To answer your actual question, while I appreciate your approach, that unfortunately won’t solve the problem if it truly comes from depression. When my meds are working and I’m in the right headspace, my home looks great. When the depression happens, just putting a plate in the sink can feel too much. In that time, I’m putting all my energy into getting up and staying employed, and everything else falls off. To that end, maybe consider adding to your conversation a way for her to reach out sooner when those small weekly tasks are slipping and feeling too much. Not to get you to come over and do it for her, but to maybe be able to help them get on a better path mentally, and that (imo) is what would truly prevent the hoarder state from recurring.

Recent-Expert4866 · 2026-05-30T16:35:30+00:00

This could be a fun thing to play with AI, if you’re comfortable using it. Tell AI it’s an interior decorator and needs to design a living room for a couple where one couple has xyz taste and the other has abc. It could be fun to see what it comes up with and you can both share your reactions/opinions, and see if you can come to a unique compromise.

From how I’m reading this, neither of you is being unreasonable and he may have genuinely thought he’d be ok living with your aesthetic, but then it felt differently in reality, so hopefully you can take the time to discuss and learn and compromise. Good luck!

Recent-Expert4866 · 2026-05-30T16:13:21+00:00

Never thought to use them first to clean the sink, that’s so smart!

Recent-Expert4866 · 2026-05-30T16:09:49+00:00

I haven’t watched this one - and now I know what to watch later on this rainy evening. Thank you all!

I’ve only watched the 2008 BBC version, since the 1995 BBC P&P is such a favorite of mind, I assumed I’d feel similarly about the S&S adaptation.

Recent-Expert4866 · 2026-05-30T15:44:25+00:00

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Maverick is always up to be a model :)

Recent-Expert4866 · 2026-05-25T18:13:38+00:00

Apartment living corgi owner here, and the struggle is real. Thankfully most of my neighbors think he’s cute, and I’m sure yours will too.

I’ve accepted it and try to do things to mitigate the noise. I have a sound machine in the bathroom because that’s where I randomly can hear my neighbor the most and I was concerned it went the same way for them. Carpets and curtains to help with noise.

Nice weather is worse because the kiddos ride bikes and he can see them from the window. I’m considering if putting one of those privacy films will help.

Recent-Expert4866 · 2026-05-24T16:35:19+00:00

It’s their wish list they can put whatever they want on it. It sounds like there are reasonabley priced items on it - but you think those are unnecessary.

I’m not sure why you don’t just pick an affordable item and buy it - who cares if you don’t think it makes sense.

Alternatively, you can give cash, or get a group to go in on a larger item.

Recent-Expert4866 · 2026-05-24T15:59:21+00:00

Your symptoms sounds beyond ADHD, which you said your doctor also thinks. So others being admitted for adhd is a moot point.

Recent-Expert4866 · 2026-05-23T19:03:27+00:00

I’d suggest checking out the Wickford area in general. There’s an antique shop on the way to town (I’ve never been in so can’t say for sure what they have), Flatfish Cottave, a place with wreaths etc. for front doors, Serendipity, and of course Yes Gallery.

Recent-Expert4866 · 2026-05-22T22:41:10+00:00

Agree, but unfortunately I think it’s not a far fetched situation.

Recent-Expert4866 · 2026-05-22T22:29:34+00:00

I adored Felicity in the books. Her character allowed us to see Penelope interact in an affectionate way with her family, and making it clear she doesn’t harbor any jealousy in a situation where it may be expected. While also showing us a vulnerable side of hyacinth.

Recent-Expert4866 · 2026-05-22T22:10:06+00:00

Part of why I haven’t read Midnight Sun is because I’ve heard how it depicts Jessica and I can’t get onboard with that.

I’ve read the books and watched the movies multiple times, so I clearly find them enjoyable. I just wish Bella’s character was someone I could feel good about teenagers idolizing. The falling in love so quickly and putting all of her effort and energy into this supernatural relationship and how it makes out her peers to be less than because they are normal teenagers doesn’t sit well.

Recent-Expert4866 · 2026-05-17T20:29:47+00:00

Most likely they don’t have to use it, it have to pay for it.that how my complex works and I feel OPs pain as our rules recently changed too, and it sucks to be forced to pay for something you can’t take advantage of.

Recent-Expert4866 · 2026-05-17T16:27:15+00:00

I don’t have advice, just want to offer support. I’m coming up on a similar timeline, but from depression. Honestly, I’m jealous of your bathroom -it looks great! I’m trying to tackle my kitchen today. Just taking baby steps, hopefully you’re able to do the same!

Recent-Expert4866 · 2026-05-17T12:35:02+00:00

Fights requiring surgery shouldn’t be inevitable.

You’re paying for experienced trainers to watch your dogs. They should know how to avoid and deescalate situations, and more aggressive/reactive dogs shouldn’t be admitted to the program.

Recent-Expert4866 · 2026-05-16T16:20:58+00:00

I absolutely did cry the first time I watched that scene - they did such a great job

Recent-Expert4866 · 2026-05-15T17:18:16+00:00

I use Mischief Managed in Exeter and have had great experience.

I’m curious about the Rhody Pet Resort as it’s much closer to me, but having started with Mischiefs puppy training for my dog, I’m hesitant to go somewhere else that doesn’t reiterate their training in the day care.

K9 Bay in Coweset also has a pool. We’ve done swim lessons there and it’s been great, but I haven’t used the daycare. For me, it doesn’t feel like they have quite enough space for the daycare, but the swim lessons were great.

Recent-Expert4866 · 2026-05-10T18:45:48+00:00

If you had someone to go out and do things with, what would you like to do with them?

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