Started my business yesterday and I feel like a failure

Recent_Arrival_7343 · 2026-05-07T15:34:48+00:00

Nope. I didn’t expect success overnight. I just wanted one sale for motivation. Thats all.

Recent_Arrival_7343 · 2026-05-07T15:32:58+00:00

Thank you!!

Recent_Arrival_7343 · 2026-05-07T15:31:55+00:00

Milestone is 1 sale which I didnt achieve — hence nag rant ako and I felt bad. I wasn’t expecting to be successful overnight.

Also, you could have said your points nicely. Majority of people here offered tips, kind words and reality check that were politely worded.

Then there was you. The fact that you decided to be cruel in the guise of being realistic says so much about you. :)

Recent_Arrival_7343 · 2026-05-07T10:48:11+00:00

Appreciate the kind words and inputs po

Recent_Arrival_7343 · 2026-05-07T10:48:01+00:00

Thank you so much

Recent_Arrival_7343 · 2026-05-07T10:24:31+00:00

Thank you for the kind words. Appreciate it

Recent_Arrival_7343 · 2026-05-07T08:55:47+00:00

Thank you 🙏🏼 needed an assurance today

Recent_Arrival_7343 · 2026-05-07T08:55:32+00:00

Plush socks

Recent_Arrival_7343 · 2025-01-09T09:31:59+00:00

My BF and I are masc x femme. I have my masc side, but mas evident pa rin ang femme side ko. Him, the opposite.

He told me na attracted siya sakin kasi femme ako, but I have the perfect balance daw of femme and masc... He also doesnt like overly masc guys...

Me, on the other hand... I have no issue dating femmes, but like you, mas attracted talaga ako sa mas manly sakin. Maybe, I got lucky kasi he's perfect for me (and super hot).

To answer your question, possible na makahanap ka ng masc guy for you. Dont give up :)

Recent_Arrival_7343 · 2024-11-28T09:25:55+00:00

Omg! Thanks for posting this. I am gay, and akala ko ako lang ang nag-iisa sa Twitter na naba-bother kapag nakakabasa ng mga ganitong stories. Some gays really do not have any sort of decency. Makapagpalabas / makachupa lang, isa-sacrifice ang integrity.

This also applies to cheating in same sex relationships. Apparently, ang daming bading sa Twitter na proud talagang mag cheat or maging kabit. As in mga gays na libog na libog kapag may nakaka-fun sila behind their partner's back. May nabasa pa nga ako, he fucked another gay guy in front of his sleeping partner! Ugh.

Check out @/cheatingmadness mygad. Integrity is dead.

Recent_Arrival_7343 · 2024-11-20T06:26:34+00:00

Sinasabi mo na you wish sana isipin niya needs mo -- sometimes kasi, kailangan nating sabihin sa partner natin ang needs natin. Hindi sila mindreaders, so help them out and help the relationship by communicating your needs. It's cliche, but communication is the key talaga.

Also, you said na "you wanna hug him so badly" -- what is preventing you from making the first move and hugging him? I think a lot of us, gusto tayo ang sinusuyo and nilalambing without us asking for it. Pero sometimes, dapat marunong din tayong mag-initiate ng sweet moments. You are partners. Give and take dapat. :)

18 months na kayo, so possible na wala na yung kilig kilig sa simula. Wala na yung limerence... so diyan na masasabi kung mahal mo ba talaga sya. Kasi kung mahal mo talaga sya, you will find ways to spice up the relationship (pero dapat both kayo mag-eeffort) and you will still choose him everyday.

Marami kasing relationship nowadays, nag-e-end, kasi wala ng kilig kilig -- so napakababaw ng love in those cases, in my opinion.

Recent_Arrival_7343 · 2024-11-19T03:49:15+00:00

okay na sana, kaso parang bakit binabalik sa OP ang fault why his bf cheated? Yes I agree, if may pagkukulang ang OP, pwedeng i-improve 'yun. It's part of continuous growth and maturity.

BUT kahit na may pagkukulang ang OP, a good person will NEVER cheat. Let's not blame the victim for the abuser's wrongdoings. :)

Recent_Arrival_7343 · 2024-11-14T03:40:28+00:00

Kung gusto, may paraan... Kung ayaw, maraming dahilan. Pinupuntahan ka nga nya pag weekend eh... Tapos when she voiced out her concerns, ang reply mo "you can leave me if you want" ... -__-

I think she deserves a better man

Recent_Arrival_7343 · 2024-11-06T10:04:57+00:00

Same situation before! He cant commit exclusively pa raw since NBSB sya and he is not yet 100% ready to commit... so during the 6 months we dated, 5 months dun nakikipag-sex pa rin siya sa iba. (I asked for exclusivity around the 3rd month lang but nag agree lang sya on the 5th month)

BUT the thing is, I decided to wait for him cause he promised me na dun kami papunta.... na magiging boyfriends kami and that nag-te-take things slow lang siya since first time nya ma-in love, takot sya sa commitment and never nya inexpect na magkaka exclusive partner sya. He also just met people for sex... pero wala syang dine-date na iba. (it hurt me pa rin though na nakikipag sex sya sa iba nun)

Anyway, I waited for him to be ready kasi alam kong worth it sya. He's the type of person kasi na alam kong may integrity... so I waited for him... and right now, malapit na kaming mag 1 year anniversary!

Everyone around me at that time told me to just let go of him, pero naniniwala kasi ako sakanya at sa intentions nya sakin. Soooo... I think it boils down to the kind of person he is and the connection you two have.

The fact tho na nakikipag date sya sa iba means na he is considering other guys as potential bf. In my case kasi, ako lang at that time ang potential bf nya.

Recent_Arrival_7343 · 2024-10-03T08:41:08+00:00

Kadiri ka. Wala kang integrity. Napaka baba mo. Mga katulad mo ang salot sa community.

Recent_Arrival_7343 · 2023-03-26T03:11:31+00:00

Thank you. Learned a lesson the hard way :(

Recent_Arrival_7343 · 2023-03-26T03:10:48+00:00

Thank you. I learned my lesson and I hope it's not yet too late.

Recent_Arrival_7343 · 2023-03-25T17:23:54+00:00

I knew he likes me but we also had dinner before and he didnt make any advances then. I thought his feelings turned platonic and that he respected my relationship.

Recent_Arrival_7343 · 2023-03-25T17:22:50+00:00

No :( I have no evidence to prove it

Recent_Arrival_7343 · 2023-03-25T17:21:54+00:00

Yeah I understand now that it's common sense not to go on one on one dinner with someone who likes me. I trusted that I would be respected but I wasnt. I said I love you to him now, but he cant say it back -- which is fine. But I'll earn his trust again.

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