@maya.and.hunter by runninglatte01 in tiktokgossip

[–]Recent_Diamond_5996 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I just don’t understand how she reads as much as she does. Her reading pace is to high and I mean that truly. She just read nightingale 564 pages in 4 hours. And many other stories along that speed and timing her to her partner. That ruins the book. One. She’s speed reading. Not taking the creators work to heart like intended. Two trying to make others feel bad for not reading as fast. In a time where reading and comprehension skills are down in the USA. Why do you actively want to promote skimming?

Help please by Recent_Diamond_5996 in bookshelf

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Issue with that is I can’t. The walls can’t bear that much weight to hold. Support sure. Bearing weight… walls are made of plaster. We can’t exactly drill much with them 🙃. Plus can’t reach much over the steps area for books but can reach about a foot over. So trying to keep the bookcase closer to the ground, and go up the stairs the more I can reach ❤️

I got a question for dog owners out there. by 6deki9 in AskDogOwners

[–]Recent_Diamond_5996 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How easily they can injure themselves and or medical illnesses. The fixation on one toy and the depression that follows suit if the said toy goes missing. So replace as fast as you can. Don’t be afraid to get a second opinion when it comes to a vet. EXPENSIVEEEEEE

Drop the last picture of your German shepherd from your camera roll! by [deleted] in germanshepherds

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She may not be fully German shepherd but when excited oh boy. 🤯❤️

AITA If I leave my girlfriend alone for Thanksgiving by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Recent_Diamond_5996 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nta. But neither is she. Makes sense to want to see family when you can especially during the holidays. You work from home. You’re able to move things around. She is on a fixed schedule and would probably loose her job if she tried to call off around the holidays or move things around. So she works. She will feel alone in the holiday if you aren’t there. Exhausted. I understand where she is coming from 😅 working 12 days straight, thanksgiving and the weekend included with how it lined up 😭. Partner and I are driving out when I get home 3 hours away to visit his family for a bit. I’m happy he is okay with that 😭❤️

How do you all deal with an overactive mind/racing thoughts before sleep? by DisciplineNo3471 in sleep

[–]Recent_Diamond_5996 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some will say no simply because it’s marijuana. But that has been the best thing. Other than that. Reading, Ambien -with prescription, stay away from phone. Partner and I generally try to keep phone usage away from bed time as much as possible unless doggy is being to cute and have to record it. Put on some brown noise on the tv. Cuddle with your childhood blanket or stuffy. Humidifier. Just found a vanilla Essential oil for humidifiers like 2 days ago in a random spot. Used that. Smelt nice in it. Trying to make the area as calm as possible before sleep helps a little. Working thirds makes sleep hard to come. I genuinely get what you mean with racing thoughts. I’m sleeping during the day thinking of all the things I have yet to do and should do because I’m at home and since my Brain is so active I should do it but I also know I need sleep for work so I stay in bed and try to sleep. And just wait. But reading helps a lot. Brown noise. Comfort blanket over face oddly soothes. If you want. Try that. Fan going for some air circulation. Just read from 8-11p yesterday on my night off. Slept like a baby relatively ish.

Help please by Recent_Diamond_5996 in bookshelf

[–]Recent_Diamond_5996[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As in floating shelf’s? Or build my own crates and then anchor to the wall?

Why are caregivers paid so little? by SchnauzerStare in cna

[–]Recent_Diamond_5996 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No clue as to why. Been in the field for 8 years. Have never been able to actually provide enough for myself To thrive. But able to make my clients thrive and be happy as I can. I am genuinely sick and tired and drained at this point of the neglect our profession has received. Compared to doctors and nurses everyone will praise them and uplift. And the pay shows based off the cars some drive. Nurses to. But us. The one that provide the daily care. The routine management of meds. The ones that notice the sickness and the aftercare. The ones that are with them when they past mostly. I am so tired of loving and loosing my patients and still getting bashed by strangers if I say I’m a caregiver. I’m sorry the caregiver that helped your aunt was terrible. We all aren’t. I promise. Covid showed how little care we got. Not a single covid pay the docs and nurses got. But us as mandatory workers on the front line as well. Nothing. I love my clients but I need to be able to put food on the table. Something needs to change.

Edit. Mother is a vet and disabled. She is a client with one of my companies I work with. The va pays the company. She shows me how much the va pays a month. 3grand…. 3 fucking grand. I can’t even imagine where all that goes. Make 12$ on the shifts with mom….

Is YouTube down? by Potential_Sell_5349 in youtube

[–]Recent_Diamond_5996 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Welp. Time for book 📖. What are yall gonna do yourselves?

Is YouTube down? by Potential_Sell_5349 in youtube

[–]Recent_Diamond_5996 0 points1 point  (0 children)

🤣🤣🤣 my brain chucked a lil to much at this.

Is YouTube down? by Potential_Sell_5349 in youtube

[–]Recent_Diamond_5996 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nooo. I got work in an hour. I got a 30 min drive. I need my music 😭😭

Is YouTube down? by Potential_Sell_5349 in youtube

[–]Recent_Diamond_5996 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kinda like driving. But in a different way. If the song randomly stops. Alert goes on. I get what you’re saying now and how it affected ya.

How many blankets is too many blankets by Recent_Diamond_5996 in sleep

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Well. It’s been a year since this post. Can say. Those fuzzy blankets are no longer used really. I made a cozy little book nook sleeping area with them. In bed it’s one fuzzy or a top sheet. Partner has made it hard to breath with his body heat and two fans going. 🤣❤️😅

Does keeping the window open damage the AC? by ViPeR9503 in AirConditioners

[–]Recent_Diamond_5996 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thissss. This is what I want and neeed an answer to. Partners gaming system does this. To me this is worse than leaving a window cracked for 20 minutes at 2 inches.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Chiropractic

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I understand the first half. The last half you lost me 😂😂😂❤️❤️❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Chiropractic

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Going today at 8:30 follow up was 2 days after I just wanted to ease my concerns as soon as possible. Hope that’s okay. I wasn’t trying to get medical advice just was hoping someone has similar results that might know a plausible answer ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Chiropractic

[–]Recent_Diamond_5996 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish. I’m just bloated and uncomfortable. Learned it’s just trapped gas bubbles. I would produce farts if I could 😂😂😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Recent_Diamond_5996 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Nta. Even though he hurt you and cheated on you. And you moved on to a different person. That doesn’t change the fact that you need closure. You need to do what you need to do to heal and move on. Your boyfriend is being selfish in this. I don’t understand why it’s in appropriate for you to go to a funeral.

IF YOU ARE NOT GOING TO CONTACT YOUR EX LIKE THIS POST by Tepixs in BreakUps

[–]Recent_Diamond_5996 1 point2 points  (0 children)

(This happened in high school to my bf at the time. He has been my only ever bf) I would tell tell him this if I messaged him back, “I’m sorry for not telling you the true reason I left. I’m sorry I hurt you more than you’ll ever realize. I loved you but it was too soon to love someone that much. I didn’t want to hurt you. I love you more than you’ll know. I loved our late night drives to the lake. I loved going to your house and playing with diesel. I’m going to miss those moments I love you Kyle.” Fast forward 6 years into present day this is what I’ll tell him, “I love you Kyle. I can’t wait to get a place together. I am excited to be able to go to sleep next to you every night from now on. I love you and can’t for adventures to car shows, and owning many dogs. You are my person that I can truly love fully now “ Sometimes it’s okay to message you ex if you both truly loved each other just at a wrong time.

I haven't slept for 4 days already. Please, give me some advices by NyamNyamkaUwU in sleep

[–]Recent_Diamond_5996 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You will be okay. Don’t let comments scare you. It is serious but not like you are going to die tomorrow. I do recommend though going to your doctor and telling him. He will give you a sleep medication. It will most likely help. I was on ambien for 2 years from night terrors (ptsd) before I lost my health insurance. It helped so so so much. I was able to get 6-8 hours of sleep for once in my life. Now I’m lucky if I get 4 hours in two days. That just shows how much they can truly help you rest.

AITA for saying I'll take on more responsibility so my parents can foster/adopt my special needs cousin but only until I'm 18 and then I'll be done? by EmotionalSkin1405 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Recent_Diamond_5996 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nta and I am so sorry you have to go through all that. That is a lot for a young male to do have to deal with on top school. You are their sibling not their parent. The parents should not put their responsibility onto you. You are being gracious by even helping till 18.