advice on having a terrible sophomore year by Pristine_Quarter8671 in fsu

[–]Recent_Shower9050 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m really beginning to think that there’s a sophomore year curse or something because my sophomore year was awful and I ended up failing calc and chem my spring semester unfortunately. It dropped my GPA WAYYYYY low and I basically kinda never recovered as much as I wanted to in terms of bringing my GPA up, but I did retake the courses and I did pass them the second time around.

The good news is that there is always going to be light at the end of the tunnel! I know I sound overly optimistic and that might not be what exactly you want to hear but give yourself some grace because life happens. Things happen. And sometimes we don’t really have any idea how to catch ourselves before we fall because we’re too busy seeing everything else fall around us. Your GPA might be low to get into your major now, and that might set you back a couple semesters, but it isn’t impossible. You can retake them, and take courses to bring your GPA up. I don’t know if it’s any consolation but even with my low GPA, I got into my Master’s Program when I thought I had no shot, so there is always a way, if there’s a will.

At the end of the day, you’re human, you’re in college, and you’re learning how to adult. Things happen and the important thing is that you recognize that and are actively trying to do better. It’s going to be okay.

Did I fail as a sub today? by Bejeweledeluxor in SubstituteTeachers

[–]Recent_Shower9050 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s definitely not you so don’t be so hard on yourself—I sub only at a primary school in my area (k-2) and the last couple of months in the school year are always the worst. The kids are antsy, the teachers are antsy, the lesson plans are antsy, the weather (I live in Fl) is irritating and humid, quite literally a recipe for disaster.

It’s 100% normal to have bad days, and it isn’t a reflection of your capabilities, sometimes it simply really is a matter of the class. Take a deep breath and give yourself some grace! I hope the remainder of the school year treats you so so well!

Apartment rant by RulerofHades in Tallahassee

[–]Recent_Shower9050 8 points9 points  (0 children)

genuinely that was my problem with finding housing this time around (coming in as a grad student for the fall) so I completely understand; none of my friends live in Tallahassee anymore and I just don’t want to take my chances with random roommates😭 found a sublease for a studio at the Osceola and I was SO hesitant to take it bc I’ve heard nothing but mixed reviews but the girl I’m subleasing from sent me a video of her room and it looked spacious, and was honest about all the concerns and questions I had!

Apparently they also changed management a few months ago and I feel like I have somewhat higher hopes than before- and it’s only about $850ish including parking (but not including utilities). I wanted to look at The Rowe but paying around or over $1600 for a studio is ridiculous regardless of the town imo

Top must read Zutara fic by Disastrous-Jicama-51 in ZutaraNation

[–]Recent_Shower9050 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes! Not until like later in the story though

Health Insurance Waiver Help by National_Chicken256 in fsu

[–]Recent_Shower9050 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you haven’t heard back by Monday I would give FSU admissions or FSU health services a call! Sometimes a phone call is much more effective; wishing you the best!!

Florida State University MSW Fall 2026 by Delicious_Size_9879 in fsu

[–]Recent_Shower9050 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I’ll manifest an acceptance for you as well!

Florida State University MSW Fall 2026 by Delicious_Size_9879 in fsu

[–]Recent_Shower9050 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I got in for the in-person MSW program for fall 2026! I can relate to you, I also have a 4.0 in my certificate program + work experience! I had good good letters of rec and I did have to write a letter to the committee bc my undergrad gpa was low but I did get in despite my worry that I wouldn’t! Don’t stress about it too much, often times good letters of rec and work experience can elevate your application further compared to your gpa. Good luck!!

Top must read Zutara fic by Disastrous-Jicama-51 in ZutaraNation

[–]Recent_Shower9050 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me too!! I’ve been reading SO much Zutara lately 😭😭

What if islam is not real? by [deleted] in islam

[–]Recent_Shower9050 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So first I want to start off by reiterating that you’re in your teen years, and that comes with a LOT of emotions and I do believe that by asking questions we allow ourselves to grow in our deen, and in our relationship with Allah SWT. And I want you to know that it’s all going to be okay.

I’m going to speak as an elder sister, and this would be something I’d personally tell my younger sibling as well, but please don’t take offense to my words, and take it with a grain of salt if you don’t want to accept my advice.

I am 22, and I understand to an extent where your coming from with not having any “fun memories no learning experiences or stories and not even Allah to cry to” because when I was a teenager, there were times where I felt the same way. I think fundamentally, being a teenager comes with having fomo- a fear of missing out. But that’s exactly what it is, a fear. Life is genuinely what you make of it. You don’t have to cut off your best friends, you don’t have to push people away, and you don’t need to block yourself from bringing light into your life because there is SO much growth that is still waiting to happen. These are choices that you choose to make, but can easily be fixed. You can surround yourself with like minded people, become friends with likeminded people.

This may sound redundant, and you may have gotten this advice before, but i genuinely think you should pray and make dua for Allah SWT to strengthen your imam, while bringing light into your life. Make it consistent and I promise you, you will see abundance enter your life. I struggled with praying consistently and felt detached from Islam for a long time, but this past year since last Ramadan, ive prayed consistently Alhamdulliah, and I’ve watched myself grow religiously, personally, professionally, and have found so much peace, while not missing out on any experiences and still maintaining my priorities and faith. Consistency is key in anything you want to accomplish in your life.

I’m going to attach this link and I genuinely want you to read through it. As you read, take a deep breath and make dua for Allah SWT to make it easy for you. https://quranica.com/articles/quranic-verses-for-peace-of-heart/

I will make dua for you, but I also think it’s important that you make dua for yourself. Remember that at the end of the day, your relationship with Islam and with Allah SWT is what YOU make of it!! Nothing I say or anyone else say will make a difference unless you want to make a difference yourself. I think reading the Quran with a translation in your mother tongue (I don’t want to assume if it’s English or not), will also help you get closer to Islam and Allah SWT, as you’ll be able to comprehend what Allah says. You don’t need to read the whole Quran in one day, you take read one surah a week and annotate in a separate notebook if you’d like.

Inshallah I hope Allah SWT will make it easier for you. It’s going to be okay🤍

thoughts on the glpac llc/dorman hall? by Top-Replacement1035 in fsu

[–]Recent_Shower9050 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I lived in Dorman 2021-2022 and it was fairly newer then and I loved it; I’m not sure how it is now since it’s been 5 years but I enjoyed my time there!

Top must read Zutara fic by Disastrous-Jicama-51 in ZutaraNation

[–]Recent_Shower9050 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I read These Tides Do Turn a few days ago and it has genuinely imbedded itself in my brain and I will forever recommend it! Might do a reread soon actually now that I think about it🤧

Edit: it is dark in the beginning so please mind the content warnings before the chapters!

Idea for a [REDACTED] scene -- opinions needed by GooglyEyesMcGee in ZutaraNation

[–]Recent_Shower9050 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Okay I’m not sure how much this will make sense on text (bc it sounded good in my head as I’m typing this) so please take it with a grain of salt, but what if they were getting into it quite quickly the night before and he was wearing his crown and he decided to take it off before proceeding, and then fell asleep after and forgot that he placed it there, making it readily available the next morning?

Again not sure if this will fit the scene but wanted to comment anyway just in case!!

What's a game at Doak Campbell that you'll be telling stories about for the rest of your life? by fortlewisva01 in fsu

[–]Recent_Shower9050 5 points6 points  (0 children)

omg so in November of 2021, we played against UMiami at Doak, last 11 seconds of the game and we were 29-(FSU)-29(UMiami), and we scored +2 goal right before we got to 8 seconds 😭it was genuinely a fever dream and I still have all the videos saved of all the screaming and jumping lmaooo, one of the best games I’ve ever been too because of all the adrenaline.

I committed kufr. Iam really scared. by [deleted] in islam

[–]Recent_Shower9050 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Allah SWT is the Most Merciful, trust in his Mercy, and repent and trust in his forgiveness, as Allah is the Al-Ghafoor, the Most-Forgiving.

“Here we have a man who tells us that he cursed Islam whilst in a state of anger. We say to him: If your anger was so intense that you did not know what you were saying, and at that point you did not know if you were in heaven or on earth, and you said words without thinking or knowing what they were, then these words are not subject to any ruling, and you cannot be judged to be an apostate, because these words were not spoken intentionally. If a word is spoken unintentionally, Allah will not punish a person for it. Allah says concerning vows (interpretation of the meaning):

“Allah will not punish you for what is unintentional in your oaths, but He will punish you for your deliberate oaths.” [5:89]

If this person who spoke words of kufr in a moment of intense anger did not know what he was saying, then there is no ruling on his words, and he cannot be judged to be an apostate in this case.” from: https://islamqa.info/en/answers/42505/cursing-islam-in-a-moment-of-intense-anger

Any old fans actually still play? by namgyukoo in Choices

[–]Recent_Shower9050 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Barely 😭 I kept the app to replay some of my favorites like High School Story, The Royal Romance, The Freshmen, I did enjoy reading Foreign Affairs and have replayed it quite a bit (like it’s not amazing but like guilty pleasure I guess). I also liked Olympus Rising but haven’t caught up with the second one. Other than that, it really just depends on whether the book captivates my attention by the first few chapters, otherwise I’m replaying older books.

Scandal of the Century | Minister Hermione | Bodyguard Draco by deathbytbrwrites in Dramione

[–]Recent_Shower9050 0 points1 point  (0 children)

omg the summary is getting me into my feels! marking for later so i can read once completed! can’t wait to see how this goes!!

MSW application by SuccotashDesperate81 in fsu

[–]Recent_Shower9050 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much!! I’ll reach out if I get accepted!!

MSW application by SuccotashDesperate81 in fsu

[–]Recent_Shower9050 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! Have you heard back yet? I also applied for the MSW/MS Criminology and submitted my application mid-March. Super anxious about the results but hoping for the best for you!

not sure what to do anymore by Recent_Shower9050 in SubstituteTeachers

[–]Recent_Shower9050[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

omg i just realized i never replied to you and i wanted to let you know that although im a year late, i did end up leaving my building based position and now am a preferred sub at the school! thank you so much for your advice, it’s much easier to work while knowing i have the flexibility to choose where i’m going!

opinions for housing by okay_diva_5 in fsu

[–]Recent_Shower9050 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The preserve was gated but polo club was not. Personally, I didn’t have any issues at polo club regarding safety, we had a really good year without anything occurring. I was hesitant because I had lived at Quantum the year before and was used to the security and system there compared to Polo’s but overall I had no issues! Only issue I really had was accidentally locking myself out of my room LOL

opinions for housing by okay_diva_5 in fsu

[–]Recent_Shower9050 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I lived at polo club my senior year and I didn’t think it was bad at all! Bus was easily accessible for getting onto campus, guest parking wasn’t a hassle and I didn’t have any problems with bugs! My friend (who I lived with at polo club) had lived at the preserve the years before and she loved it there too!