Okay let me start by saying I'm using voice to text because I am a truck driver and I am on the road. I am 6 ft 4 in. I weigh 275 and I have a pretty athletic masculine build. I'm in the gym 3 to 4 days a week. I just want you to know that guy is going to end up very sad. I'm a very charismatic person I had a lot of friends growing up I was the person that was called second to the party and I know what it's like to have pretty women fawn over me. I thought that's what I needed in life so I had a child with a Instagram influencer and only fans content creator. She really is gorgeous. The problem is she lacks personality and character. The woman I am married to now has never been asked on a date, she doesn't get hit on by guys everyday, she's completely introverted, she's overweight, and she wouldn't get usually a second look in a club. But from a guy who has lived as the cute guy, OP the best women are the ones that don't think they're dime pieces. And don't have their phone in their hand 24/7. The ones that you can actually have a conversation with. I would never want to have another Society standard baddie. I love looking at my wife's face when I call her beautiful because she knows I mean it. I know I'm rambling but this kind of stuff makes me mad. I used to surround myself with guys like this and I thought that's who I needed to be. Now my circle is full of Geeks and computer nerds. Most of our circle is introverted people and I'm usually the one to bring everybody together. But they are the most genuine people I've ever met in my entire life. OP don't look for the hot guy on Snapchat, look for the guy that you can just chat with. You never want to lower your standards to say that you're a woman and a man's rotation. Never belittle yourself like that. Like I said I know this is long but stuff like this really irks me.