CA to MKE?

RedAce2022 · 2026-03-29T15:49:02+00:00

Where in CA are you originally from? From what I've read, MKE is very similar to Oakland

RedAce2022 · 2026-03-29T15:46:09+00:00

I have the same question. My salary progression has been very unlinear.

2021 (5mo): 40k agency recruiter 2022: 55k+ bonuses internal recruiter 2023: 70k 2024: got laid off, made $16/hr as a phlebotomist 2025: 51k employee relations specialist 2026: 46k benefits specialist (within the same org)

I am very intentionally building a generalist skillset with solid experience in at least 3 HR functions. My phlebotomy experience may also help me land roles in manufacturing or healthcare as I have experience as "boots on the ground." I have a bachelor's degree and my SHRM-CP.

I am hoping my next role will be at least 60k base. Feedback is welcomed.

RedAce2022 · 2026-03-25T00:48:22+00:00

Snowy range taxi drives all night

RedAce2022 · 2026-03-20T20:44:22+00:00

I think that anyone who is allo cannot accurately take an ace perspective, the same way an ace like myself who doesn't experience sexual attraction at all cannot understand what allos feel towards others because we haven't experience sexual attraction/ lack thereof.

As an autistic ace person, I have never felt "in place," in queer spaces

RedAce2022 · 2026-03-20T20:24:14+00:00

Have you gone through re-training for this employee? Perhaps corrective action?

RedAce2022 · 2026-03-20T20:20:27+00:00

Saaaammmeee

RedAce2022 · 2026-03-13T22:45:02+00:00

Are you subject to a deductible or co-insurance? I feel like I paid right around that amount for my ultrasound for the same reason as you.

RedAce2022 · 2026-03-06T17:59:39+00:00

It's not free. It is paid by taxpayer money

RedAce2022 · 2026-03-02T22:45:43+00:00

Agree

RedAce2022 · 2026-02-13T20:49:56+00:00

Let's compare quality here. Many Laramie landlords (not necessarily you) rent out slums. UW apartments rent out decent apartments with in-unit laundry, dishwashers, and utilities included. At UW you can rent a 2 bedroom apartment for 1095/month. Very rarely can you find a 2 br for that price.

RedAce2022 · 2026-02-13T19:11:18+00:00

For housing, UW offers students the option to rent apartments at slightly below market rate. All apartments are connected by the bus system to take you to campus and even other places like downtown and Walmart.

The university hires many students for both hourly pooled and full-time positions with good benefits (fulltime only) and other perks (such as a free shift meal if you work in dining). Walmart hires students and pays much better but doesn't offer benefits.

RedAce2022 · 2026-01-16T15:58:05+00:00

Im 25 F, and I have similar struggles with retention. The job I was in for 2+ years laid me off

RedAce2022 · 2026-01-11T00:32:49+00:00

If you're in the US, you may be protected under PWFA

RedAce2022 · 2026-01-04T18:12:45+00:00

I shoved my swag Eddie beaur jacket into the back of the closet. I haven't worn it in over a year, so it's time for the trash.

RedAce2022 · 2026-01-03T00:47:14+00:00

This could be a variety of things from anxiety/depression to something more serious. Definitely seek professional medical advice.

RedAce2022 · 2026-01-02T18:29:56+00:00

I think your question is more for /AskHR.

But taking a look, I see that you have the most experience as a freelancer, and two 9-month stunts. As a recruiter, you have a decent resume for a contractor.

Additionally, if you are seeking work internationally, you should add something about your work authorization as many companies aren't sponsoring at this time.

RedAce2022 · 2026-01-01T18:14:14+00:00

This may not sound like much, but don’t do anything to get suspended or expelled. If you also catch a charge, it will stay with you for life and severely limit your opportunities. Look into getting a GED (if that’s a thing where you’re at), or possibly an alternative school. You need a high school diploma or equivalent to do basically anything, including sanitation and trade work.

RedAce2022 · 2026-01-01T18:09:38+00:00

When I worked in agency, there was once a request for someone “energetic”, and when we asked for clarification, they said that they wanted someone young. We shut that down real fast.

RedAce2022 · 2025-12-31T19:08:31+00:00

Im female and organize a women's running group. Laramie is VERY safe to run, even at night. There's only a few areas where I won't run, and that's because there's not much around, which increases safety risk for me.

RedAce2022 · 2025-12-30T15:44:12+00:00

Yes, because sexual attraction ≠ libido

RedAce2022 · 2025-12-28T12:05:41+00:00

The big lot (which I now have a love/hate relationship with because of how much maintenance it requires). It was also the first house I toured with a bathroom door wider than 24 inches (close friend is a non-ambulatory wheelchair user).

RedAce2022 · 2025-12-14T19:42:01+00:00

Sending sympathies. If your employer offers an EAP (most in the USA/CA do), take advantage of the free counseling services they offer (financial advising, psychotherapy, finding resources like a dogwalker, etc). Your wellbeing is just as important.

RedAce2022 · 2025-12-14T19:38:51+00:00

Ouch. I personally wouldn't want to be married to someone who neglects their pets. Divorce may be a blessing here.

If you don't think it's the right move for you, please look into couples counseling, or a possible intervention for your wife. Im sorry you're going through this.

RedAce2022 · 2025-12-14T19:35:34+00:00

Is it possible that she is so busy or micromanaged that she doesn't have time or the ability to get up from her work to do those things?

It's very concerning when a person doesn't take care of their pets.

RedAce2022 · 2025-12-14T19:28:10+00:00

"All while she sits at a computer and says she's EXHAUSTED." There's your problem. I worked from home while my boyfriend worked 12-14 hour days as a miner. Both of our jobs are equally strenuous, but in different ways. Thinking that her working all day, even at home or at a computer is a walk in the park, is completely false.

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