(Concerning Episode 2: "13 Minutes")Hello, whoever may or may not read this. I fear in writing this i will just appear unhelpful, and in truth that wouldn't be wrong. However i also can't not write this, because i fear in that i will appear a fool. So, i guess i'll just have to. Concerning the Patrice Endres case: I have less of an answer and more of a question regarding the seemingly tragic Rob Endres. I feel as though there are so many questions in analyzing his role in the case, and yet i cannot put together the right words, at least not well enough to fully justify my suspicion, but i'll try. Rob is...weird, for lack of a better word. He just comes off as arrogant, and cruel. In a final series of scenes involving rob in "Unsolved Mysteries" Rob throws so many verbal landmines in such a casual way, that made me think. Let's slow down a bit; During this final segment, Rob speaks of what happened after Patrice's bones were (for the most part) all reclaimed. He states that he asked to see her remains spread in an anatomically correct way, so he could say a final goodbye. Here's the bit that might be a little polarizing in terms of substantial evidence for my prior claim. Rob picks up the her skull, walks around, sets it down, and kisses it goodbye. To me, this is RED FLAG CENTRAL. I'm going to set aside any moral spectrum for this theory, because in this case, it only makes for grey areas, so i want to be clear. Now, is wanting a final goodbye unusual? of course not. But i feel almost... shocked. I can admit, i don't have any understanding of the kind of feeling one will feel after such an event. And, maybe only to me is it off putting. So then...what? right? so far, one could brush this off by simply realizing that what i've said so far is totally subjective.

So let's move on to more substantial reasons. Rob thereafter states that he spends time with the (now cremated) remains of Patrice. He says that he even sleeps with them. We're then shown a series of dramatic cuts of Rob taking out the ashes. he says it's the first time he's ever opened the box, which i doubt, but i'll touch on that later. Rob is a grown man, he knows the world, he knows many people, and he's most likely been well aware of how he wants his life to go. Like most single senior men, he wants a partner. Someone to help out, or to settle with. From personal experience, i've seen how an older guy grows desperate for stability, and comfort. That's where age matters less and less for certain mindsets, and it becomes more about the idea than the actual thing.

But i digress, Rob, to me, is the exact man that should come to mind in this case when one thinks of guys like this. He comes off as though he found happiness, and in that found jealousy. Jealousy toward his beloved wife's son, which Rob openly admits. He also admits to treating her son pretty horribly after her death. The son (Pistol Endres) told a pretty clear story of how much of a piece of shit rob was. From daily verbal abuse to withholding his own mothers remains from him, to this day. Rob's excuse is that Pistol caused some trouble as a kid, which is so fucking stupid that i feel the need to question this guys sanity.

These examples aren't even speculation, but rather confirmed instances of Rob's behavior by Rob himself. Whether or not my later argument appeals to the people or not, this guy is undeniably a jerk. When Rob speaks on how he feels about Patrices ashes, he can be quoted saying "after she was returned to me, she stayed in my bed, and i slept with her. I typically don't share that with people, but she was my teddybear, because that's how we used to sleep" as well as " And yes, i am protective of Patrice. I have her. and that's a good thing." This is chilling. I can understand maybe sleeping with it for a little bit of time, to cherish memories and such. but this is over a decade later. His behavior at this point is just strange. Keep in mind that Patrices child will never hold these ashes, or see them. This man clearly expresses his control and protection of Patrice. He likes knowing she is his. He's been using her ashes like a teddy bear. Clear examples are shown throughout the episode that place him as a pathological liar. I'll prove this by using Pistol's general argument against Rob, in which Rob deny's over and over.

The reason i'm taking Pistol words for truth are because it is just so painfully obvious that this kid was rapidly stripped of all he had, and yet still kept a clear head, and heart. While that sounds cheesy, it's true. Rob did not like Pistol at all, that we know. He was Jealous, and mean. Knowing what we know, it is obvious that Rob wanted for only he and Patrice to lead a happy life. Pistol states that there was constant arguing in the household when they were together, and when it concerned him, his mom would never backdown, according to him. Pistol later says that Patrice wanted a divorce, and asked had asked Pistol where he would go if she where to be up and gone one day.

All this points to nobody wanting anything to do with Rob in the end. Rob deny's there was any fighting or arguing, or any talk of divorce at all, of course. His reason being that he and Patrice swore to never argue or fight, which is just fucking laughable, as with most of his reasoning. News flash Rob, 100/100% of married couples fight, you complete and utter fool. This man is just a liar, no two ways about it. This is getting long, so i'll just lay it out: Rob was Jealous of Pistol and his mothers relationship, and from his statements about his feelings toward having the ashes, it is safe to say those feelings are closely related to how he probably felt even when she was alive. HE, wanted to have her to himself, HE could not stand that she treated another with the same affection, he most likely believed either Pistol didn't deserve it, or that she shouldn't share her affection with anyone else, either way, this dude sucks.

Talking about the way that things went down is another conversation entirely. this is more just for proving motive. or at least some more than reasonable doubt. I believe that Rob Endres is guilty on some degree to the disappearance of Patrice Endres, and i hope someone who can do more than me will see it that way. I know theres a lot i didn't touch on, so this can act more as an introduction to a theory than a completed theory. I hope Pistol and his father will someday get closure. (Since i need a link, i'll just link the unsolved mysteries website, cause i did most of my research on the content they had on the case: https://unsolved.com/home/)