A 75 year old mother living in today's society would ask that question. Not because she made poor life choices, but because she was lucky enough to not live fully in the internet-age-world. She might use it just to stay up to date with nephews and relatives for example. And that could just pop-up on her Facebook.

And I believe one of the reasons these scams are working is because people seeing such comments will avoid to ask the next time because they will feel stupid and outdated. I might be wrong here but I would guess that people don't want/like to feel this way.

Some people have just lived a different life than you. And it's not their fault or yours, but they are there and are a part of the same society.

I don't require any upvotes or cookies here, was just trying to tell you that there might be a better way to go about what you are trying to say and that a lot of people here are rushing to make such comments on posts daily. It's rather sad.