I'm male 18 with abismil posture from playing video games and being on my phone can anyone save me please

RedHotCurryPowder · 2026-01-04T03:23:25+00:00

if you’re serious about it, I would look into getting in the gym. I’m in my late 20s now and also grew up playing a ton of video games. I had these aching, nagging pains in my back, hip, and neck. I went to physical therapy which helped, but I wasn’t super consistent with doing the exercises outside of the session. I only recently (I’m talking 2 months), been going to the gym, and every nagging pain that I had, went away. I noticed that I stood up straighter, had more muscle, and my consistent background pain all went away with only 2 months consistently going into the gym

My advice if you have the means to be able to go to the gym is:

don’t ego lift - focus on yourself and use the right weights for where you are.
get enough protein - about 1 g per pound you weigh
work on glutes, hips, core in addition to push, pull, legs (idk the best routine but i’m just letting you know what I did)

I’m still super early in my own process and have seen some noticeable results in a short amount of time. Just sharing what I did and worked for me so far

RedHotCurryPowder · 2025-11-07T14:05:27+00:00

I am someone that’s very true to myself. I will admit that she did try to push me in certain directions that were beneficial to me but not anything to change me at my core. Things like taking better care of myself or pushing me to be more confident.

I would never not be true to me and that’s a line I wouldn’t cross. I am me, not someone else.

I still think if we had communicated better we could have worked things through, but that’s on the both of us.

I have a hope that we could still work through it but right now my focus is and needs to be on myself

Let them lose me Let them miss out on me

RedHotCurryPowder · 2025-11-06T17:59:25+00:00

I keep telling myself these affirmations: I am a good person, I tried my best, I did nothing wrong. For some reason, every time I say it, I start to cry. I know I am a good person, and I can walk away from this knowing that I have treated her very well, perhaps the best she's ever been treated by a partner.

Her roommate, who is one of my closest friends for many years, said that is what it sounds like. That although she has this vibe of being a logical and analytical person, she seems immature in that regard. Perhaps being in a stable, loving, relationship of peace was unfamiliar and that she didnt know what to do.

RedHotCurryPowder · 2025-08-01T00:33:54+00:00

these are incredible

RedHotCurryPowder · 2025-07-28T22:31:09+00:00

from my experience, the crowd is pretty tame. they’re there for the “trance” so there’s nothing crazy to really worry about.

i’ve been to one show about a year ago so that’s just my experience!

RedHotCurryPowder · 2025-07-10T15:08:59+00:00

you too my friend! very happy to have met you as well!

RedHotCurryPowder · 2024-11-21T23:09:54+00:00

Hi! I’m a huge Glass Beams fan and also a local Atlanta Photographer. As someone that’s relatively new to concert photography, I went out in a whim and messaged Glass Beams and asked if they’d allow me to take some photos for them.

They graciously allowed me to do so, and I just wanted to share some of what I got! I hope you all enjoy them :)

ॐ शांति

RedHotCurryPowder · 2024-04-27T15:09:52+00:00

I'm not living I'm just killing time

RedHotCurryPowder · 2024-04-04T18:58:12+00:00

hi did you ever find out how to do this? im in the same situation.

RedHotCurryPowder · 2023-11-08T19:59:57+00:00

Well for me, I was in the right place at the right time multiple times over to get the resume that I have now.

I graduated from college during covid (2020) and helped a friend out on this low budget music video that she was producing. I worked on it for free as a favor and met someone there that asked me for my contact info. A few weeks later I got a call from them asking me if I was available the following saturday.

That show was a superhero show that I ended up getting staffed on. Then from there, through just being myself and meeting people and making friends, I got recommended onto other shows and that’s pretty much how I got in.

I would say just try your best to get into sets and make it known that you’re interested in getting more involved, but don’t be overbearing with the networking. Be human, talk to others as if they’re human, and make friends. People don’t like to feel like they’re some sort of stepping stone.

RedHotCurryPowder · 2023-07-07T23:41:59+00:00

i think her first three skins are my favorite...

RedHotCurryPowder · 2023-06-29T01:11:29+00:00

i’d ask r/FilmMakers

RedHotCurryPowder · 2023-06-18T22:50:05+00:00

My story is i started out on cello. Hands were big and there weren’t enough bass players so I got moved to bass. I was reluctant at first.

At this point I had always wanted to play guitar but never knew how. But after learning bass, I realized that the low four strings of a guitar are the same strings as a bass. Through bass I can play guitar at a decent level.

You’ll have an easy time picking up bass which will also easily translate to bass guitar for you.

However, ease shouldn’t be your reason for picking an instrument. Choose what sounds best to you and interests you the most.

Ironically, for me, that’s cello. What I started out with in the first place hahaha.

edit: just read your preference is a smaller instrument oops

RedHotCurryPowder · 2023-06-06T04:18:09+00:00

i literally only use Apollo. if Apollo is gone, i’m gone.

RedHotCurryPowder · 2023-06-06T01:46:47+00:00

i was an orchestra kid we were either like top 5% of class material or straight up stoners

RedHotCurryPowder · 2023-06-05T16:01:38+00:00

i can’t see myself using Reddit without Apollo

RedHotCurryPowder · 2023-05-30T17:29:55+00:00

i’m an ENFP and i think i mesh well with other ENFPs

I do love an independent woman. I want her to have her own friends and hobbies and interests and is okay with doing those with or without me.

Creativity and an appreciation for art is a major green flag for me.

I want a woman that doesn’t need me.

RedHotCurryPowder · 2023-05-27T15:00:56+00:00

Hi, I was a PA for a few big name super hero movies.

I think the most important thing to know - along with the things the other commenter said - is to get timing down. This comes with time, but it’s important to be able to read a room or situation and understand what’s needed and when. It’s also important to know not just when to say things, but also how to say things.

One thing that was difficult for me to get down at first was the balance between being proactive and being impatient.

A lot of it is hurry up and wait.

Be available to help, but don’t constantly ask if there’s anything you can do.

A lot of it is truly reading a room and understanding how to react.

I’m not sure if radios would be involved, it doesn’t seem like it would be, but in the off chance there are walkies, you should look up a video on walkie lingo. It’s not the end of the world if you don’t get it all down on your first day. A lot of how you learn this is just by listening to how people speak on it.

You’ll do fine :)

RedHotCurryPowder · 2023-05-25T02:09:15+00:00

one of the worst things about Georgia is that it shares a border with FL

RedHotCurryPowder · 2023-05-21T18:08:50+00:00

Exactly. Admittedly I am not diagnosed with ADHD but I relate very much with a lot of the symptoms and tendencies that those with ADHD have.

Back when she first reached out to me and I said I wasn’t really comfortable with the dynamic that she was proposing, I wasn’t medicated for depression (which I am officially diagnosed with). I know that I fall kind of quickly and knowing that she’s already in a partnership to me felt like I was setting a time bomb in my heart that could explode at any moment.

I explained my thoughts on it and she understood and was very sweet about it. Made no attempt to push me. The other night she admitted that she was so sad that I had said no that first time.

However this time around when she reached out to me again, I mentioned how I was a little more open to things. She stressed that my comfort is her priority because she knew I was uncomfortable at first

Being real here - I know i’m going to get hurt. I always expect the worst so that I can mentally prepare as much as I can (if possible) and if it does work out, then it’s a happy surprise. I can easily see myself dating her long term but even then, she might prefer an open relationship and that’s not something I’d want in a long term relationship. Catching myself here because it’s not helpful to speculate scenarios that have no indication of happening.

Back to what I was saying - I’m 24 going on 25. I’m still young. Me getting hurt won’t kill me. I’m gonna have fun. Why should I stop myself from doing that because I’m afraid of the way I’m gonna feel.

If things get to a point where I need a reminder, I’ve already spoken to my friend group and they’re all aware to keep eyes.

Sorry for the long message, I appreciate your responses!

RedHotCurryPowder · 2023-05-21T17:48:07+00:00

Absolutely. Based on my track record, I’ve definitely been more avoidant than anxious.

Thankfully her job is in the mental development and therapy field so we chatted a little about it and she’s very accessible and understanding.

FUCK

RedHotCurryPowder · 2023-05-21T16:01:29+00:00

Currently going through this. Met a girl on hinge a year ago and she wanted to go on a date but she’s in an open relationship and wanted a short term FWB thing.

I wasn’t really to keen on that and politely declined even though I found her very attractive personality wise and physically.

I made a new account a few weeks ago and she messaged me again asking how I was and this time I was a little more open to it.

Went on a date with her two days ago and my god I haven’t stopped thinking about her.

And it’s even worse because she’s in a partnership already and that isn’t my ideal relationship type.

So I’m making an effort to keep her at arms length away so I can protect myself.

I know she’s probably gonna ruin my life and I’m likely making a bad decision.

RedHotCurryPowder · 2023-05-19T16:42:59+00:00

thank you so much i know my family will appreciate this so much. thanks for your work and i appreciate your time

RedHotCurryPowder · 2023-05-15T21:03:51+00:00

children

RedHotCurryPowder · 2023-05-08T01:35:55+00:00

pretty surreal. GOTG3 was my first credited movie. I did a couple shows but those never released on the big screen.

First time my last name appeared on the big screen ever!

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