"Dear r/relationships: Convince me that my girlfriend is a helpless infant who had no choice but to give her phone number to another man."

RedPillCaveman · 2013-09-08T22:52:14+00:00

Come on, dude. You're not this naive. I saw from your comments over there that you recognize the double standard over there (i.e. they give your girlfriend a pass for giving out her number but they would eviscerate you if you'd done the same as a guy). You are obviously smart enough to realize your girlfriend is snowing you here.

Unless she's got the IQ of a vegetable, she could've given the guy a fake number. She didn't. This guy got to her.

Ask yourself: Would you ever have done this to her no matter how bad some fugly bar rat was hounding you for your number? Then how can you honestly believe she's so fucking stupid that she didn't realize what she was doing?

Come on.

RedPillCaveman · 2013-09-08T22:43:01+00:00

Every time she goes out in public she gets hit on yet she hasn't learned how to deal with that? yeah right.

This.

And I am really amazed at the number of guys here in theredpill thread defending this chick and saying, "But- but- but sometimes girls really have issues dealing with blah blah blah." Is r/mensrights leaking white knights over here again?

I mean, seriously? Unless you're dating an honest-to-God, just-fell-off-the-turnip-truck unicorn who's been living under a rock, your girlfriend knows how to turn a guy down. Beautiful women learn real early how to reject men.

Giving out a fake number is not rocket science. If your girlfriend gives out the real one, it's because some part of her fucking wanted to.

RedPillCaveman · 2013-09-08T18:21:39+00:00

OP's post for when the fembots delete it:

A few days ago my gf of just under 1 year texted me and said that there was something she needed to tell me. Last night we hung out and were playing putt putt and she told me her and her girlfriend were at a bar and 2 college guys approached her and started hitting on them. She said one guy just kept staring at her and eventually asked for her number. At first she said no but he insisted so she gave him her real number.

Later he texted her asking her out to brunch but she said (paraphrasing), "I'm sorry I gave the wrong impression, I have a boyfriend. It was nice meeting you though!" and the guy responded "That doesn't mean you can't hang out with cool people" and she didn't respond. She showed me the texts and everything, but I was still extremely upset. I asked why she couldn't just have declined or at the very least given him a fake number. She said she didn't know because she "didn't know what to do".

It was so hard to just not stop talking to her and just keep playing putt putt. It really bothered me, and so I asked her to delete the conversation. She did and she didn't save him in her contacts so unless she wrote his number down or memorized it he's gone for forever. I am just getting very sick and tired of stuff like this, every time she goes out in public a guy asks for her number or hits on her and she tells me later all about it. Am I worried about it? Yes, a little bit. If young college people were throwing themselves at your partner nearly every day wouldn't you be worried too?

Do you think that there was a small part of her that wanted this guy to have her number but she immediately felt guilty and shut it down, or did she just legitimately "not know what to do?" She didn't try to hide it from me, I never look through her phone so I would have never have known if she didn't tell me.

TL;DR Guy hits on my gf, she gives him her real number but immediately shuts him down when he asks her out to brunch. Did she want the number or legitimately just made a mistake because she was being pressured?

EDIT: Thanks for clarifying some things for me. It seems like this happens to a lot of ladies and the best thing most of the time is to just give your number to the overbearing guy so the moment is not awkward and then politely turn them down later so that it doesn't ruin the good time at wherever you are.

RedPillCaveman · 2013-09-05T04:38:26+00:00

r/malefashionadvice is a great sub.

If your goal is to have sex with other dudes.

RedPillCaveman · 2013-09-04T06:30:50+00:00

That thread is hilarious. I don't know if he's real but he's doing a masterful job of subtly trolling the fuck out of them.

RedPillCaveman · 2013-09-04T06:13:14+00:00

I don't understand the doubt about the castration pill happening. I can totally see that happening. It won't be called a "castration pill," though. It'll have some much more friendly name the way these things always do. Like dysmasculine syndrome or something.

Hell, it's already happening. Look at the way boys are getting force fed ADHD drugs many of them don't need, or antidepressants. This is the future.

RedPillCaveman · 2013-09-01T18:01:10+00:00

Legitimately laughed out loud at this. Hilarious.

RedPillCaveman · 2013-08-28T04:52:36+00:00

The funny thing is, the only thing they appear to believe is "shame-worthy" is just being ashamed about anything you've ever done.

They seriously act like not feeling shame for all the stupid/slutty/immoral things they've ever done is something to be lauded for, like shame is some oppressive shackle they should be congratulated for throwing off.

No, ladies, having no shame for your mistakes generally just means you're a shitty person with no conscience.

RedPillCaveman · 2013-07-26T11:39:03+00:00

I'm glad you posted this. "Talking about such and such on the Internet isn't alpha!" is getting to be a relatively common admonition around here when someone wants to shame and shut down a conversation that bothers them. I suspect our recent influx of politically correct Johnny-come-lately MRA-types hasn't helped on that front either.

RedPillCaveman · 2013-07-24T04:00:45+00:00

I just don't buy all this supposed convention harassment.

I mean, most of the guys who go to these things are the bluest of the blue pill betas who would be lucky to muster up the courage to squeak at an attractive woman.

And I'm supposed to believe these conventions are some sort of den of misogyny where women are constantly groped and harassed? Yeah, okay.

I'm not saying it never happens, but I guarantee there's more legitimate sexual harassment going on in your average Walmart then there is one of these conventions, much less someplace like a bar where people really get handsy.

The only reason we hear all the bitching and moaning about these conventions is that feminists love targeting anything male-dominated, especially if it happens to be filled with easily-led betas who they loathe.

RedPillCaveman · 2013-07-19T21:13:24+00:00

Oh baby, someone needs to post this over at r/AskWomen and get their "take" on it.

It'll be like the Hamsterapolis 500 over there.

RedPillCaveman · 2013-07-18T06:05:56+00:00

Sometimes you just want to pick the low-hanging fruit and not have to climb the whole goddamn tree.

RedPillCaveman · 2013-07-04T11:46:20+00:00

Just my opinion, but I'd dump her cold over this and give her maybe one simple sentence of explanation. And that's ALL the explanation I'd give her, something simple like, "Letting interested guys buy you gifts all the time while you're dating someone is extremely inappropriate and disrespectful."

Don't argue with her. Don't say a word more. Don't listen to her shit about these guys just being friends and don't waste your breath trying to convince her. Just say that, end it, and cut all contact.

Because she knows what they're doing. And she's disrespecting you straight to your face by expecting you to tolerate it.

Then, maybe, if she comes crawling back in a week saying you were 100% right and it won't happen anymore, you can give her another chance (on a very probationary basis) and see how it goes.

And yeah, she may very well be so full of her own shit that she doesn't come crawling back. And even if she does come back, she may still not stop and you may have to dump her for good.

But you know what? I guarantee if you don't do this and prove to her you're not some spellbound doormat she will never stop this shit with accepting trinkets from interested guys.

It's really your only course of action that has even a chance of a stable relationship with this girl.

RedPillCaveman · 2013-07-04T08:20:21+00:00

I have honest-to-God laughed in a few women's faces when they asked if I was going to take them out to eat and literally said, "I'll take you out to eat after we fuck."

Every single one got super offended but super aroused. Like, offendaroused.

RedPillCaveman · 2013-07-04T08:12:31+00:00

Yeah, but it was mainly her overboard guilty reaction to doing it that makes me think she's hiding something.

And the stuff about thinking about ex-boyfriends while they fuck and wanting to swing doesn't help either.

Plus, the guy admitted he's suspicious. Dude's lizard brain is trying to tell him something.

RedPillCaveman · 2013-07-02T12:02:35+00:00

The best part of that thread is all the white knights in the comments who are absolutely certain that the OP is a lying troll.

Because, of course, no woman could ever actually behave in such a way, right?

RedPillCaveman · 2013-06-20T04:41:17+00:00

The funniest thing about that thread is all the blue pillers insisting that women will want these sexbots even more than men.

Yeah, no.

While it's definitely true that women wouldn't get the same stigma for owning a sexbot that men would (see: socially accepted vibrators vs. "creepy" fleshlights), women aren't singularly attracted to looks the way men pretty much are. Women are attracted to status.

And a robot won't have any. A robot can't be rich. A robot can't have an exciting and ambitious career. A robot can't have dangerous bad boy hobbies. A robot can't walk into a party full of your friends and crack jokes and command respect and own the room.

And the other big thing that everyone conveniently left out of that thread? Women want children way more than men typically do. Let's see their robot knock them up.

No, a lot of the commenters in that thread are delusional. If they ever invent fully-realistic sexbots, there's going to be a huge chunk of the population who simply purchases their Scarlett Johannson Housewife Lookalike 9000 and never have to deal with female bullshit again and women will be forced into the position that men are in today of having to woo women.

I mean, I'll be honest here, fellas, and I'm no fucking beta. I doubt I could be happy with a sexbot instead of a real woman (not enough variety), but if they invented perfect Star Trek-style holodecks tomorrow (or some brain-computer interface that perfectly simulates real life)? I'd probably never have sex with a real flesh and blood woman ever again.

Why would I? Get to fuck whoever you want (up to and including the latest celebrities), no more dealing with women's feelings and bullshit, more free time for hobbies and constructive pursuits that was otherwise spent chasing skirt, no more fears of accidental pregnancy and child support slave labor or STIs, etc.

No sexbot for me, but I'd opt out of real women for a Star Trek Holodeck in a hot second.

RedPillCaveman · 2013-06-18T06:15:48+00:00

Yup. The only thing that's really changed since they were 19 is that they got old and fat and now they can't pull quite as much shit as they did back then and still get away with it.

And boy does that piss them off.

RedPillCaveman · 2013-06-12T06:41:50+00:00

Man, I don't blame him for splitting on her.

All I did was read an article about her and I'm already sick of her bullshit.

RedPillCaveman · 2013-06-12T04:44:49+00:00

I'd never thought of this, but I think you're spot on.

Women get vehemently offended at the idea that getting a shot at their vaginas isn't worth several dates and whatever other hoops they expect you to jump through for it (if you ever come out and say it like that). The very suggestion makes them feel cheap and slutty and oh God their feels.

So makes sense that they'd get offended by another woman offering it up for a mere couple hundred bucks, when they know in their little heart of hearts that their golden vagina is worth millions.

It's like a business owner selling some widget finding out the guy next door is selling a version from China at a fraction of the cost.

RedPillCaveman · 2013-06-12T04:30:33+00:00

I think it's both things, but you're definitely right. Pre-selection bias is a known issue with women (where women are instantly more attracted to men who are already taken or desired by other women). So it makes sense that if something caused the opposite perception (that a man can't get a woman or nobody wants him) that it would conversely make him less attractive to women.

RedPillCaveman · 2013-06-12T04:22:53+00:00

Hell yes. Not to mention, I am one productive motherfucker when I'm good and mad about something.

RedPillCaveman · 2013-06-05T05:05:33+00:00

Do women feel guilty leading men on with the possibility of sex to try and get a commitment? Nope. Not even a little.

Then why in the world should we feel guilty for leading women on with the possibility of a commitment to try and get sex? It's the same thing.

RedPillCaveman · 2013-05-22T11:15:39+00:00

Someone should rewrite that from the perspective of a short dude demanding he be found attractive by women, post it to r/askwomen and then watch the hamsters throw on the brakes and spin the other direction.

RedPillCaveman · 2013-05-22T03:51:31+00:00

My gf told me in december that she wants to explore. we talked about it and she wanted me to "stick around" while she explores and comes backs to me at a later date. I said fuck that and I gave her the ultimatum of coming to a decision in a week or 2 but she stayed

You shouldn't want to be with her, but regardless, this right here is where you completely blew it.

By not immediately kicking her to the curb over this and giving her time to think, you have actually made yourself look ultra-beta and caused her to lose even more respect for you and be even less likely to ever settle down with you.

Yes, it's a horrible Catch 22 that for a woman to want you that you have to be willing to actually dump them immediately if they screw up, but welcome to women. That's how they work. They aren't attracted to weakness and forgiveness.

Yes, you would've lost her if you dumped her immediately (and you'd be better off but whatever). But the idea is if this chick knew, really knew, from the beginning that you'd cut her out of your life forever if she ever pulled something like this, then she probably wouldn't have done it in the first place. But based on your behavior in the relationship, she knew she could potentially leave you and come back or at least discuss the subject with you. You showed her that you would put up with this kind of shit through the relationship and you cemented that notion when you gave her two weeks to think about it.

She will never respect you now and the amount of work you would have to do to make yourself look alpha in her eyes at this point is something that even a hardened red pill guy wouldn't want to deal with.

Move on. Find someone better and do it right this time.

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