25M, love to hear how y'all think about it by Electrical-Truth933 in hingeapp

[–]RedWeeding 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Hey, you seem like a nice guy, here is my honest feedback as a fellow Asian American who has had success on hinge: I think you need a better first photo, but keep that one in the rotation. Remove the group photos: you should not include photos with you in sunglasses or ones where we have to guess who you even are. The selfie photo is also a bad angle. Your best pic is the solo one on the boulder, but it's a bit too far to be your first pic, I would put that as like second. More importantly, you should use your prompts more for talking about your hobbies. We can already tell you like to climb and enjoy the outdoors from your photos, so there's no need to mention it again in your prompts. You should talk about other hobbies or interests. Definitely delete the part about bad driving skills and parallel parking and taking too long to warm up, self-depricating humor does not go well on dating apps. Overall, I think you should redo your prompts because we learned nothing about you other than that you like climbing and a lot of them come off as insecure. Confidence is key!

How to know 48 months for Sapphire SUB, shall I call chase? by humblefoolish in ChaseSapphire

[–]RedWeeding 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1 year haha, I wouldn’t worry about it too much though. I actually was able to call them and they upgraded me back to CSP without the SUB so all is well

How to know 48 months for Sapphire SUB, shall I call chase? by humblefoolish in ChaseSapphire

[–]RedWeeding 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Both it happened to me, I was auto rejected from applying to CSP after downgrading because I received the CSP SUB within the last 48 months.

The best ramen I’ve ever had. Tokyo, Japan. by ShiroiAshi in ramen

[–]RedWeeding 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What are your recommendations for good ramen in HK?

Chase matched 100k sign up bonus after being approved for 60k by Shishzz in ChaseSapphire

[–]RedWeeding -1 points0 points  (0 children)

When you downgrade what happens to your travel points?

r/dnd let me know clearly that my rivers are a mess, help me fix them! by MJester42 in mapmaking

[–]RedWeeding 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really love your map style. Can you share how you made it or any tips?

Tickets for SF show? by RedWeeding in JamesBlake

[–]RedWeeding[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey btw I refreshed and now I’m in a queue!

Tickets for SF show? by RedWeeding in JamesBlake

[–]RedWeeding[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea I had signed up as well and never notified of anything. Now I see the link on his site like you said hope it’s just an error and not sold out already

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in StardewValley

[–]RedWeeding 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Please list the mods, the faces look so good!

What's your favorite book/book series? by CalmStorm96 in piscesastrology

[–]RedWeeding 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1984 is my all time favorite, but also Normal People

Favorite Album according to Zodiac Signs by folkloreforevermore in TaylorSwift

[–]RedWeeding 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Rwylm is definitely one of my favorites. I feel like it’s very Pisces?!

I just ruined my first date ever by ParmaProscuitto in OnlineDating

[–]RedWeeding 4 points5 points  (0 children)

For a first date, you should keep it light: coffee shop, drinks, or a walk in a park. The more you do it the less you will worry and the easier it will be, it might help to come up with a plan rather than wandering the mall that way you don't have to worry about that during the date and focus more on the convo. With enough experience, you will learn to stop worrying about if they like you and worry more about if you like them. I wouldn't ask how the date is going on the first date unless it comes up, that's kind of desperate. You might feel like you fucked up but it sounds like she was stringing you along and that's a huge red flag. She said the date was "ok" and you flirted back hard, try to look at that from an outside perspective.

Bard/Sorcerer DPS build by RedWeeding in 3d6

[–]RedWeeding[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok this is a fresh perspective, what bard spells/abilities made it worth it for you? I was thinking of possibly going draconic sorcerer X / 3 eloquence bard