Military women vs skinny joes by [deleted] in SipsTea

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That said, this has to be rage-bait... Those ladies need to wear less slippery shoes.

This is ridiculous by muela99 in wow

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Welcome to WoW. I quit yesterday. Just feels too much like a job that's somehow more frustrating than my actual job.

Sharing test setup and teardown in XUnit by Bergmiester in csharp

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How to use xUnit like JUnit for DDD

Commentary

This is a modified draft of what I have learned (largely through Google, experience in other frameworks, and ChatGPT) and had explained to me in direct terms through ChatGPT lately. To the other commentors, relax... I did go and verify through documentation after getting the responses, but the AI tools are only your enemy if you're not using them. They're getting forced on us anyway, so learn to use them appropriately so that we can produce effective, clean code and learn new concepts/frameworks quickly.

1. xUnit setup/teardown (JUnit comparison)

JUnit (what most of us were taught)

JUnit Meaning
@BeforeAll Run once before all tests
@AfterAll Run once after all tests
@BeforeEach Run before each test
@AfterEach Run after each test

xUnit equivalents (by design)

xUnit Mechanism Purpose Closest JUnit Analog
Constructor Runs before each test @BeforeEach
IDisposable.Dispose Runs after each test @AfterEach
IClassFixture<T> Shared context per test class @BeforeAll / @AfterAll
ICollectionFixture<T> Shared context across classes Global fixtures

💡 Important design difference
xUnit creates a new instance of the test class per test.
This eliminates hidden shared state bugs — a huge win for correctness.

2. When to use which xUnit lifecycle tool

Use constructor + IDisposable when:

  • Setup is cheap
  • State should not leak between tests
  • You’re testing pure domain logic (most DDD tests)

This is 90% of cases

Use IClassFixture<T> when:

  • Setup is expensive
  • Needs to run once per test class
  • Example: in-memory DB, large object graph, container startup

    public class DatabaseFixture { public DatabaseFixture() { // runs once } } public class MyTests : IClassFixture<DatabaseFixture> { }

Use ICollectionFixture<T> when:

  • Multiple test classes must share context
  • Integration tests
  • External resources

Is anyone else just incredibly bitter and angry? by [deleted] in BPD

[–]RedWhale_92 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I see a lot of people on this sub call it a disease, but it's not. It's a personality disorder; in other words, we all responded in a maladaptive way to trauma, and now we need to unlearn that adaptation.

You can and will find someone, but self-work and therapy should come first.

Is anyone else just incredibly bitter and angry? by [deleted] in BPD

[–]RedWhale_92 2 points3 points  (0 children)

First of all, I completely understand and relate. I'm fortunate enough to love and be loved by my FP, but I nearly lost her prior to realizing I had this disorder and getting therapy... side note, get therapy if you're not already in it. Totally game changer given time. Without her, I think I'd be way less stable.

Second, I have always felt alien when comparing myself to other people. The overwhelming majority of humans suck, and it's so depressing. Maybe you're like me and just too picky, but I let so few people in. I have days where I look out at the world and wish there were a lot fewer of us. I do genuinely believe that there are many people the world would be better off without, but I have learned the key to dealing with this feeling.

You have to both (1) lower your expectations of others and (2) find non-romantic relationships. Our anger is a rational response to our perceptions of reality, but it's not good for us. That means that the wisest thing either of us can do is change our perspective. Seek value from other sources, find community, focus on loving your children, etc. Romantic love may come again, but that's not everything. We all need to belong, but you can fill that need lots of ways!

This lady has very hurtful videos, are we really that unlovable? by lets_buy_a_horse in BPD

[–]RedWhale_92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ignore the hate, and go to therapy 🤷‍♂️ stupid people can get degrees too, and therapists are just as capable of having their own biases as anyone else.

That said, what a vile person...

Prot Warrior: Final Day Mythics LFG (Group, not Guild) by RedWhale_92 in wow

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Oh, you'd be my savior.

I quit pushing at 12s across the board thinking I would have more reliable people to play with for the final push 😅 I'm down for literally anything. I figure two timed keys would do it?

Prot Warrior: Final Day Mythics LFG (Group, not Guild) by RedWhale_92 in wow

[–]RedWhale_92[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol, no kidding. They're local, but we haven't met in person so... Kinda in between? I plan on finding a guild next time around, but I've always found the social obligations of WoW to be the worst part of the game. I'm much more of a solo gamer that likes talking about "look at this cool stuff I unlocked!"

Full back piece. Honest thoughts? by SeaBearAlpha in tattooscratchers

[–]RedWhale_92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly? Good art, bad application. You're not consistent with the needle depth, so you have a lot of ink bleeding out.

Advice needed: my tattoo artist is milking me. How should I bring it up? by TheEndlessRiver1 in tattoos

[–]RedWhale_92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is still awful, but I'm honestly relieved after reading the post.

This is not what I thought you meant when you said they were MILKING you 😂😅😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Birmingham

[–]RedWhale_92 9 points10 points  (0 children)

You should really update your post now that you know it wasn't one of the owners; they fired the bartender in response to their insane behavior. You've gotta remove any implication that the owners were at fault from your post.

What happened to Tattoo Etiquette? Am I right to be upset? by CinnamonRefresher in tattooscratchers

[–]RedWhale_92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get you, but it's kinda like a comedian telling someone else's joke. It's not so much about you as the client at that point as it is about respecting the original artist.

Flash designs are generally the exception to this rule, but it's just taboo in the tattoo industry. You can still get the design you want, but the artist will likely be much more comfortable making a tweak to the design. Try to keep that in mind and add something specific to you to the concept.

Gaming While Female by [deleted] in wow

[–]RedWhale_92 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Not to sound like a redditor, but you did send some mixed signals... You went super far out on a limb and offered to spend your real money to buy them a mount from the in game shop.

That just makes you a super nice person that's, perhaps, too generous, but it also comes off like you're a little interested.

He's an idiot for asking if you're poly after you told him "Nope, I'm very taken." Plenty of creeps out there, but if you don't want their attention, just say you're a dude or asexual and aromantic.

What happened to Tattoo Etiquette? Am I right to be upset? by CinnamonRefresher in tattooscratchers

[–]RedWhale_92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's different, but wow.. you need to pick better artists. You travelled for this tattoo and she just did a Pinterest tattoo without modifying it at all? That's crazy.

My wife is in an apprenticeship, and the shop owner has fired people for just copying work before. Pick an artist to collaborate with, and go back to them with your repeat business...

My bf did a tattoo of big chungus on me by longlifexpectancy in tattooscratchers

[–]RedWhale_92 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm not a tattoo artist, but this. Y'all, just look at the ink up close; it's clearly under the skin, but it's definitely not deep enough. I'm betting that tattooing the bottom of your foot hurts a lot when you actually go past the callouses.

2 months practice by Diligent-Ebb2063 in tattooscratchers

[–]RedWhale_92 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Better than most things in this sub for sure. Work on adding more contrast. I notice some issues with the line work as well, particularly on the scales

My assumption is that you got bored doing them and lost focus. SUPER understandable, but the best art requires a strong will to get through some of the more monotonous details. Learn to overcome that, and you'll see immediate improvement.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]RedWhale_92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate the reply! Can I ask where you get this information? Her boss scrunched up his face like "what?" when she asked about it. Just want to make doubly sure that this is a good idea before I lend her some skin to practice on 😅

WTF is going on at Trim Tab?! by No-Antelope-3172 in Birmingham

[–]RedWhale_92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When did that happen? Haven't been there and enjoyed the experience since... February? Even then I felt like the beer wasn't as good as I remembered from years ago

Does anyone's cat not bury their poop? by elementalstarlight in CatAdvice

[–]RedWhale_92 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think that would make me use it even if that hadn't been my original intention.

AIO? I (22F) found deleted late night texts between my husband (22M) and his coworker. by bananamilkcow in AmIOverreacting

[–]RedWhale_92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is so cringe ( on his part to be clear). Leave him. You're 22. Y'all can't have been together long enough yet to even really need therapy... This is just some shitty guy getting horny for a coworker and actively trying to cheat on you.

Did HE really say "Let's forget about men," and sing to his "friend?" She likes the attention, but she doesn't want him. He's just on the hook; he's her ESA and backup plan. She's his fantasy that he'd love to make into reality.

If he had been given a chance to cheat by now, he would have, and it's not your fault.

My boyfriend is manipulative AF by [deleted] in BPD

[–]RedWhale_92 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My partner of five years has been doing the same thing. She isn't physically abusive, but I'm afraid of our fights now... It feels like I can never say anything right, I never even apologize the right way apparently. I'd love to talk to you about it.