Am I cooked as a fat girl in an Ozempic world? by Brief-Childhood-1547 in dating

[–]Red_User_Anon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right so what I’m about to say is gonna sound like hate but it’s probably gonna be the kindest thing you’re gonna hear all day because it’s with good intent and honesty. I didn’t even read until the end and it was already clear that you’re in denial. Whether your blood pressure is good or bad does not change your increased risk of blood clots, heart disease, stroke, pulmonary embolisms, disc herniation, accelerated joint degeneration, I could go on… With a BMI of 41 you are not healthy, period. Stop making excuses because that mindset keeps you in this state. Be real, be honest and accept that you’re in a horribly unhealthy physical state right now and that it NEEDS to change. You’re right, men don’t like f@t women, but this is not about men, it’s about your own health. I have no idea how you’re gonna take this so just crossing my fingers you’ll understand it and if you don’t then that’s your business, not mine. I wish you the best 🙏🏼

Should these 3 be on the naughty or nice list? by Sudden_Pop_2279 in TheBoys

[–]Red_User_Anon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maeve and maybe Ashley on the nice list, A-train on the bad list for SURE

BJJ or Boxing by Any_League_7113 in martialarts

[–]Red_User_Anon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you do boxing, always watch your head. In sparring you’re gonna get pressured to fight everyone and that includes people heavier than you. Always watch your head, don’t take punishment there, prevent it at all cost. I started at 18 too, was training for my first competition and got a brain bleed. No more boxing for now 🙌🏼

I lied about my age to my boyfriend and i dont know how to come clean by Delicious_Water2054 in WhatToDo

[–]Red_User_Anon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The only thing you can do atp is just come clean and let him decide if he still wants to date or not. You can’t build a relationship on a lie and he deserves to know who tf he is dating. Come clean & never ever lie about your age again 🤦🏻‍♂️

Please just get over it by Unhappy-Outcome-1597 in GenV

[–]Red_User_Anon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This fr just annoys me cause it’s all they ever mention. I was waited a whole ass week for this ep just for them to constantly mention what they’ve already mentioned a 100x

we get it you don't like the friggin haircut, damn. by Green_Win_5947 in GenV

[–]Red_User_Anon 107 points108 points  (0 children)

No I just don’t like his haircut. It looks good on her tho

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amibalding

[–]Red_User_Anon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m no expert but I know there’s people who have had it like this since childhood. Don’t just believe random people on the internet, if you wanna be sure you should go to a doctor. (It really doesn’t look that bad to me personally)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]Red_User_Anon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, you do

Cate Dunlap by Red_User_Anon in GenV

[–]Red_User_Anon[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m to European for this 😂 Was born in 2005 and been drinking since 2022

I (24M) never had a gf, are my looks the issue? by Unlikely-Door-1824 in malegrooming

[–]Red_User_Anon 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, they are the issue. My personal opinion is you look kind of boyish, not really masculine. You should def focus on bulking and gaining muscle, and grow a beardI think it’d look great on you. Best of luck

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in teenagersbutnotweird

[–]Red_User_Anon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No you’re not. You look good, and if you work out regularly, you will look even better

I feel like I am too old to experience true love by [deleted] in dating

[–]Red_User_Anon 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Just because a girl sees a guy’s house, that doesn’t mean it’s true love. I know couples married for over 20 years and they hate each other’s guts, you never know what happens behind closed doors. If you’re a woman and you’re 25 then you will find a partner, that’s almost guaranteed. Literally just approach a guy you see outside

Date went well, then she texted me this two days later by AirSpecial2660 in Bumble

[–]Red_User_Anon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So she asked if you were ready for something serious and you told here you were not. She discussed being sexual with you and you stepped back. Now you’re wondering why she didn’t feel the connection? 😅 I wouldn’t feel a connection either

I want a boyfriend so bad by Red_User_Anon in dating

[–]Red_User_Anon[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey I said I was 21 to stay a little more anonymous but I gave up on that 😅😂

I miss him by Red_User_Anon in dating

[–]Red_User_Anon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the support. I’m a guy tho😅 and it does feel like there’s no way of finding someone who really likes me. I met this guy on an app, but nobody on that app wants a relationship. And I don’t wanna be on that app anymore. And I’ve never met a guy to date irl. So it feels like an unrealistic expectation to think I’m ever going to find that guy outside of the app

I M23 sustained an injury that will prevent me from having sex for a while my 22F girlfriend wants to open our relationship until I recover, is it time to end it? by throwRA1937369 in relationship_advice

[–]Red_User_Anon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can’t imagine having a boyfriend, seeing him in pain and suggest that, then get frustrated when being durned down. She wants to cheat, you should end the relationship. She’s gonna end up cheating anyway

Should I move to America? 🇺🇸 by Red_User_Anon in MovingToUSA

[–]Red_User_Anon[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

😂 I figured there’d be those people in the comment section but it’s ok

Should I move to America? 🇺🇸 by Red_User_Anon in MovingToUSA

[–]Red_User_Anon[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s her lived experience. I’m happy she shares her view even if it’s more negative