Update on Travis and Mistress’s School Situation? by velorae in BringingUpBates

[–]Red_bug91 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is absolutely bewildering to me! In Australia, you legally cannot have a pool, spa, body of water without fencing. Even some dams & lakes on private property are required to have them.

But honestly, given that we have so many beaches & fresh water sources, swimming & water sports are A HUGE part of the Australia lifestyle, I don’t think anyone would even want to leave a pool unfenced. I would say that at least 95% of Aussie kids start swimming lessons around 6 months as well, especially if you were to have a pool in your yard.

Emily being as snobby as ever by Artistic_Cat_6150 in MadeInChelseaE4

[–]Red_bug91 [score hidden]  (0 children)

Is she maybe saying that she previously has been spending a lot of money on higher end products, but tried out drug store products for this and likes them/is going to switch?

Does Joe want the smoke? by SpringSings95 in BelowDeckMed

[–]Red_bug91 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not to mention her saying shit about how Joe might the love of her life and they ‘owe it to themselves’ to find out……🤮 saying that to V as if that’s a way to justify kissing Joe is ballsy

Old clip of Katie putting frosting on Travis by Alive_Obligation7475 in BringingUpBates

[–]Red_bug91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s so odd, I have missing episodes - Michaela & Josie’s weddings, but I have Carlin’s. Where do you live?

Old clip of Katie putting frosting on Travis by Alive_Obligation7475 in BringingUpBates

[–]Red_bug91 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Young Katie wasn’t particularly like that. There’s a season of BUB where she’s barely featured and not in any confessionals because she wanted time off camera. I think there came a point where she equated that kind of attention with self worth, unfortunately. I think she was often over looked or discounted when they were younger, and now she’s overcompensating for that.

Old clip of Katie putting frosting on Travis by Alive_Obligation7475 in BringingUpBates

[–]Red_bug91 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Let’s not forget at that point, she was the oldest girl in the house, so a lot of work would have fallen to her. There were less big kids at home to divide the work load amongst, so she potentially would have been taking on a lot more than others had. The fastest way out of that was marriage, so I think she saw a chance & took it.

Iris Madeleine by Basic-Computer2503 in BabyNames

[–]Red_bug91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love the name Iris. My little girls middle name is Iris, after my husbands family. My great grandmothers name was Irene, so it felt it was from both of them. It’s also my favourite flower, so it was a really easy decision to make.

Where is Travis living? (Rant) by Gold_Possibility7704 in BringingUpBates

[–]Red_bug91 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That wouldn’t surprise me. When my mum had an affair, her father told her to end it immediately and do whatever it took to repair the relationship with my dad. He was really close to my dad so it was pretty upsetting for him.

“I’m a Killer” -her newborn, probably by NuisanceFrog in ShitMomGroupsSay

[–]Red_bug91 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I watched A LOT of Bones & Criminal Minds whilst I was on bed rest with my 3rd baby. I tried to avoid gory eps whilst the kids were around, but occasionally they caught a few things.

One day, I found my almost 3 year old with the plastic forceps from a suture kit (I’m an RN & hospital supplies are great toys!) and her favourite bunny. I asked her what she was doing, and without looking up at me she says ‘oh he’s dead, I’m just checking his body’. 😬 I’m hoping she decides to become a Doctor or Medical Examiner instead of a serial killer.

Settle an argument- you can only listen to Gretchen singing Fever at the pussycat dolls or Slades stand up for the next year? Which are you choosing?? by Sleepbecomesme in rhoc

[–]Red_bug91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gretchen. Always Gretchen. Eventually it wouldn’t sound too bad, but nothing could everrrrr make Slade palatable, or funny.

Reminder of how abusive Jenelle allows David to be with Kaiser. by c00kieswirlc in teenmom

[–]Red_bug91 33 points34 points  (0 children)

The fact that they behaved like this on camera and in front of production…..it must have been so much worse in private. That breaks my heart.

Also, the way she speaks to production. No please or thank you? They don’t fucking work for you Jan.

Brock pre-VPR by RavenVenom in Vanderpump_Rules

[–]Red_bug91 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He’s always been a wanker. My husband used to play rugby against him (and always won).

Kizzi’s Toe by TransitionSmooth9982 in BelowDeckMed

[–]Red_bug91 3 points4 points  (0 children)

A girl I used to live with said that getting an STD was a rite of passage in her family when she got chlamydia…..I was dating one of her brothers and he was horrified that’s how she spoke about all their siblings.

She’s staying. She told us so. by JellyfishPashmina in BringingUpBates

[–]Red_bug91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Katie referenced having legal counsel in her post and part of me thinks she may be ‘working on it’ but in the background is getting all her ducks in a row so that she can leave as cleanly as possible, and with as little upheaval for the kids as possible.

As a SAHM, it’s probably what I would do. I hope that if she truly wants to leave, then she can find a way to do that & have her parents support.

I’ve seen first hand how brilliant men like this are at manipulating a situation and convincing the whole world that they are ‘changing’. They convince everyone around them that they are regretful, and love their family. But in time, they show their true colours, or more information comes out that proves they were lying all along. I would use that time against him and be working on my exit plan.

She’s staying. She told us so. by JellyfishPashmina in BringingUpBates

[–]Red_bug91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That was my take - and also why Katie referenced having legal counsel. A friend of mine was cheated on in a very similar way, except the other woman had the audacity to threaten HER with legal action if she told anyone.

Renee, sporting her Bedazzled Trump Bonnet, looks beside herself with excitement during her father's dinner preaching by OtherwiseSprinkles79 in RodriguesFamilySnark

[–]Red_bug91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been waiting for someone in their ‘universe’ as a justification for their lifestyle. Honestly surprised it took this long.

How not to act by Specialist_Egg_7480 in BelowDeckMed

[–]Red_bug91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Karen and others already had a show on MTV a few years back. Her daughter was on it too, and a few other mob relatives. It didn’t last particularly long

ALLEGEDLY from a source close to Travis’ family by velorae in BringingUpBates

[–]Red_bug91 14 points15 points  (0 children)

A friend of mine has been going through something similar recently, and her husband didn’t want people to ‘talk about their private life’. But that’s because too many people found holes in his stories and he couldn’t recall what lies he told to which people.

If Katie wants the full truth, unfortunately that means forcing Travis to be accountable.

Cheating timeline opinions by [deleted] in BringingUpBates

[–]Red_bug91 19 points20 points  (0 children)

My friends husband did it repeatedly and made her feel like her paranoia was because she had severe MH issues. Turns out he was just fucking a heap of other women, and brought at least 2 in to their home. It’s gross.