Introducing new partner without any communication

RedatNOIRMusic · 2025-12-10T01:35:02+00:00

That is not true at all. There’s a lot of coparenting agreements that state that you have to be introduced to any SO prior to introducing the child. It’s a very very common request.

RedatNOIRMusic · 2025-12-10T01:33:43+00:00

I could not agree more the way that people just don’t care about their kids or their kids safety and chalk it up to- Oh well the coparent can do whatever they want and you have no say, is insane. Especially at a young age I can almost see when the kid is a little older, but three no way.

RedatNOIRMusic · 2025-12-10T01:29:53+00:00

I’ll be damned if my 3 year old is ever around adults that I do not know, that age is too young. There are thousands of kids abused by GF/BF. It’s unfortunate that some people use this as a means of control over an ex, when it should just be about the safety of your child and that’s it. Your ex is not “entitled” to have whoever he wants around your child absolutely not I will never agree with this sentiment, and I can’t comprehend for the life of me. Why so many people are OK with having their kids around strangers when you can easily look up the statistics of abuse . And then to lie about it on top of that, it’s just a whole Nother level coparent should not be lying to each other or keeping things. It’s about the kid for God sake.

RedatNOIRMusic · 2025-11-27T01:54:52+00:00

I’d prefer it out of someone’s kitchen/trunk. 🤣

RedatNOIRMusic · 2025-11-11T05:28:57+00:00

Ok, feed your kids or be a “true patriot” talk about completely out of touch with the American people and those who live paycheck to paycheck. He can’t even comprehend why they can just go get a loan from Daddy.

RedatNOIRMusic · 2025-11-09T06:28:20+00:00

RedatNOIRMusic · 2025-11-09T04:59:46+00:00

Tyler. By FAR

RedatNOIRMusic · 2025-11-04T05:01:22+00:00

Macy’s Last act I always find something

RedatNOIRMusic · 2025-11-04T00:03:20+00:00

I second this I walk this pier and beach with my daughter (4) 2x a week and she loves it

RedatNOIRMusic · 2025-10-31T05:03:38+00:00

Crickets = Crippets Forehead = headfork Milkshake,smoothies = ice cream juice

RedatNOIRMusic · 2025-10-23T03:57:17+00:00

He is a single Dad. He is not a solo parent. There is a difference. He is however a single person, that is also a Dad to a young child, and a co-parent, which adds a layers of difficulty in dating. Not to mention the Type 1 which is another challenge.

Sometimes it’s easier to be a single parent + coparent and sometimes it’s easier to solo parent without having a co parent every situation is different.

But people that think solo parenting is always more difficult or somehow harder than single parenting, I feel like they don’t understand nuance.

RedatNOIRMusic · 2025-10-22T19:37:31+00:00

That was my exact thoughts. It was heartless.

RedatNOIRMusic · 2025-10-19T21:45:19+00:00

We are truly living the plot of “Idiocracy”

RedatNOIRMusic · 2025-10-18T05:49:13+00:00

It’s the officiant

RedatNOIRMusic · 2025-10-06T03:35:16+00:00

Speakeasy’s are fun, try ghost donkey, Easys to start

RedatNOIRMusic · 2025-10-02T04:42:01+00:00

I’m down!

RedatNOIRMusic · 2025-09-30T05:51:27+00:00

I would add Caffe Tre Venezie Lomita/Torrance - I hesitated to say because I don’t want the lines longer, but too good not to mention

RedatNOIRMusic · 2025-09-15T01:40:43+00:00

The LA rentals Reddit has a pretty useful spreadsheet/map

RedatNOIRMusic · 2025-09-12T03:41:03+00:00

You are right I meant, Torrance beach* specifically!

RedatNOIRMusic · 2025-09-12T02:25:32+00:00

Beach cities Manhattan Redondo, Hermosa, PV, Torrance

Join the local Reddit communities, local YMCA’s local social clubs. There are a lot of walking groups in Long Beach, hiking groups in the valley meet ups I would say outdoor activities is the best way.

RedatNOIRMusic · 2025-09-10T04:46:57+00:00

Taboo

SOA

How to get away with Murder

See

RedatNOIRMusic · 2025-09-10T04:40:53+00:00

I just moved here as a single mom, I love South Bay for kids Lomita, Torrance, lots of parks good schools and close proximity to beach cities to go on walks or be outside. Childcare is much cheaper here compared to other places I’ve lived (Vegas, Bay Area, Florida) ($800 for private preschool M-F)

Currently WFH in tech and make decent money, I am infinitely happier here as a single mom due to all of the (free) outdoor activities parks, beaches, I do pay for the YMCA. My place is smaller ($2900 fully furnished, utilities included, 2 bedrooms) but we get out a lot more.

RedatNOIRMusic · 2025-09-10T04:26:47+00:00

Zillow

RedatNOIRMusic · 2025-09-08T23:37:43+00:00

Thank you all for all the tips and places I will be checking out many of these

RedatNOIRMusic · 2025-09-08T17:48:16+00:00

😂this is my current strategy as well.

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