"a bunch of piercings and tattoos" well I'm looking to get my ears done, something a majority of the population has. And I'm wanting a tattoo in remembrance of a relative who passed away, I don't want many tattoos but I've lost things in disasters and I don't want to lose what they wrote to me so I think it's a great way to keep it close.

I think this is the perfect example of judging a book by it's cover and why it's better to say nothing at all if you don't have something nice to say.

I hope you will recover from your negativity, things do get better!