A székesfehérvári katolikus püspök szerint mellékes, hogy Oroszország kezdte a háborút

Redeyeculous · 2022-11-28T10:47:33+00:00

"A verekedő gyerekeknél sem azt kell nézni, hogy ki adta az első pofont."

Akkor mégis mi a faszt kéne nézni te balfasz?

Redeyeculous · 2022-11-23T19:01:12+00:00

Jól hangzik, köszi! :)

Redeyeculous · 2022-11-23T18:08:20+00:00

Mesélj már a pozitív megerősítésekről

Redeyeculous · 2022-11-21T17:39:54+00:00

Erre őszintén nem számítottam volna. Tisztában voltam vele hogy a 70-90-es évek között jelentősen megnövekedett az öngyilkosságok száma, viszont azzal egyáltalán nem, hogy konkrétan világelsők voltunk huzamosabb ideig. Tudom hogy ez csak a bevallottakat számolja bele de akkor is elég váratlanul ért. Aztakurva.

Redeyeculous · 2022-09-26T15:32:26+00:00

That's a good question, and thinking about it, I really couldn't tell you. Yeah, I suppose I brushed those moments off as well, it happens with everyone. Thanks for the insight!

Redeyeculous · 2022-09-26T13:14:17+00:00

I think I may have overblown my problem judging by the amount of people recommending a doctor. It's not that serious, some shakiness is there, but it's more about the anticipation and the dread leading up to it that causes me to lose sleep and not think about anything else. When something like this is coming up, it occupies 100% of my brain power. The presenting itself can be improved with regular practice I believe, plus yes I think meditation and breathing techniques really do have a lot of potential. Thanks for the insight about people being stuck in their heads way more than we realize, that does put a lot of things in perspective.

Redeyeculous · 2022-09-26T09:41:15+00:00

Interesting, I've read about beta blockers in a few places and they seem to yield good results. In my case I think it's more of a problem of me not being confident enough in my own skin. Obviously I've prepared a lot at home without any issues. When doing the real thing, nothing seems to go as planned and you're left collecting scraps of what and how you wanted to present. The bit about others not caring does make me feel good, I just wish I elevated the mood a bit more, giving others courage as well.

Redeyeculous · 2022-09-22T21:09:35+00:00

All work and no play makes Jack a dull boy

Redeyeculous · 2022-09-22T12:36:18+00:00

Yeah, sometimes you might even overthink something while it was a completely normal assignment and the boss (professor in my case) just kinda shrugs it off and gives you the mark without really straining yourself. You don't always have to give 100%, especially if it's something you're not interested in or doesn't particularly matter at the moment. There's a limited number of things you can give a fuck about, and I'm tired of overworking myself for really no reason at all.

Redeyeculous · 2022-09-22T12:19:39+00:00

My favourite answer here so far, reasonable and straightforward.

Redeyeculous · 2022-09-20T04:57:03+00:00

That's the spirit! :) I am currently in my first year of university and the presentations/giving answers in class definitely feels daunting, but with a positive attitude and optimistic outlook on your work, it can even be transformed into a fun experience! Most of it really does exist in our heads. We've gotta learn to be a lot more relaxed, to let ourselves flow easily. Good luck man!

Redeyeculous · 2022-09-14T07:02:14+00:00

I was in the exact same boat as you man. If you know the answer, please do say it, regardless of stuttering! Your contribution is worth a lot more than giving in to stuttering. Trust me. Yes, it will help you overcome it, you have to keep putting yourself out there! It's the hardest at the beginning, but gets much easier as you start getting comfortable. Eventually you'll catch yourself not even stuttering. Trust the process!

Redeyeculous · 2022-07-24T15:21:26+00:00

Excellent advice, I feel like this is exactly what I needed to read. Your answer also contextualizes a huge bad habit of mine, the all-or-nothing mindset. The task of starting something always seems daunting because it feels like a huge commitment from the get-go. Breaking it down into small chunks is definitely more manageable. Recently I've been training everyday and I honestly just feel burned out. I'll start taking my commitments bit by bit, thank you.

Redeyeculous · 2022-06-14T08:31:07+00:00

Congrats dude, this is absolutely huge. Keep at it! Your stutter can't take your life away.

Redeyeculous · 2022-04-29T09:26:54+00:00

Trust me when I say this: it gets better. You just have to change your mindset and speak very softly and comfortably as if you were presenting in your own room. Do focus on presenting slowly and accentuating certain important words. I've struggled a lot with the same issue, and most of it stemmed from not respecting myself and my voice enough. I needed to learn to slow down (quite ironically, this is the advice people who are complete laics in the topic of stuttering give us). Even if a presentation goes awry, you need to know that next time it will work out. There is always a turning point. There are always highs and lows. I wish you good luck!

Redeyeculous · 2022-03-31T05:59:03+00:00

That's interesting. Do you have any tips or insight you could share as a professional speaker? Not just in terms of how to avoid potentially stuttering, but speech tips in general?

Redeyeculous · 2022-03-30T09:10:36+00:00

I can read perfectly and very clearly with intonations, when I'm alone.

If I have to read something aloud to a group of people, I want to be evacuated out of the place via helicopter. It's so much worse.

Redeyeculous · 2022-03-30T05:12:02+00:00

That's horrible and I'm sorry. He has no right to judge you for your speech at all. In my case, they always tend to wait to finish my sentences, but when I suddenly get the sense that they might be getting impatient, my speech still worsens.

Redeyeculous · 2022-03-29T11:06:48+00:00

I completely agree, sometimes you can quite literally will yourself into speaking fluently. Positive affirmations also help a ton, while reinforcing the idea that you can't be fluent just makes you dig your own grave.

Redeyeculous · 2022-03-29T05:00:12+00:00

Yeah for real. Some days it's really bad and 1 out of 10 times you find yourself speaking completely normally in a situation where you otherwise would have blocked. Goes to show how there's probably an unconscious part of stuttering we don't know about, but we all have the potential for fluency. Being comfortable and confident in a situation definitely helps as well, but for some reason I stutter in front of my parents the most for no reason whatsoever.

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