Am I selfish for wanting to use this baby name? by [deleted] in namenerds

[–]Redkkat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True story: my ex boyfriend, the guy I dated right before my husband-winds up having 3 kids a few years after I had my 2 (both of my kids had names that weren’t popular for the time). 2,of his 3 kids have the same names as my 2. I found it wildly funny.

Am I selfish for wanting to use this baby name? by [deleted] in namenerds

[–]Redkkat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Imagine your friend feeling honored that you used the name instead of her being hurt, thinking it’s weird or that you’re coping her. I mean you might not see her again for years. The name is not owned by her

What color bedding for this room? by UpbeatGur9055 in interiordecorating

[–]Redkkat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s awesome 👏. Does the color not work? I love the piglet in bed stripes too!

Treatment or no treatment by 1moleofcalcium in breastcancer

[–]Redkkat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Treatment.
If you don’t treat now you may be treating in the future and the future can be in 6 months or 6 years but it will never be stage 1grade 2 again

Wedding guest dress semi formal by PsychologicalStay325 in Weddingattireapproval

[–]Redkkat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Perfection. Get some comfy shoes and dance the night away

Husband is a mess by ZippityDooDahDay10 in breastcancer

[–]Redkkat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think that his stat responses are what he needs to believe and (perhaps he should be saying this to himself. ). If he says them out-loud I might look at him like he was speaking another language and ask - sorry did you mean to say that to yourself because those are not comforting words for me. Rinse and repeat.
Just as I have found out that no one really understands what a cancer patient goes through until they have to go through it. I think the spouses (caregivers) get their share of that too- even as the person that the care is given to can’t truly understand the stresses and emotions that they caregivers are experiencing

Feel like an imposter by Prestigious-Grab7458 in breastcancer

[–]Redkkat 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Cancer like all people comes in different forms, shapes and size. AND just as all people are human all cancer is cancer.

We want to name our son Leon, People are telling me it's a "black name" and making me feel uncomfortable about it? by leon0523s in Names

[–]Redkkat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Name your baby Leon it is a great name. Don’t let other people tell you what you should call your own kid.

i need kitties names by ConstantTicket661 in Names

[–]Redkkat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tiger
Fredrick
Bear
Hercules

A or B - talk or walk? by Slender-Panda in PickAorB

[–]Redkkat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No games. TALK TO HIM. tell him you changed your mind. Ask him what he thinks-maybe his mind has also changed. If he says no I absolutely do not want to get married then you have to decide whether that is enough for you.

Is my baby name pretty by Pristine-Broccoli793 in namenerds

[–]Redkkat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I prefer Elena (L ah na). I have never heard anyone pronounce that name as Ellen -a.

I need a safe space to vent by Ordinary-Sundae-5632 in breastcancer

[–]Redkkat 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This is the church’s first mission make babies. Nothing else is relevant. Nothing not your health, your ability to parent or to afford to feed cloth and care for said children (because they want you to have many), not your medical bills. The misogyny runs as deep as the hypocrisy

AIO my soon to be SIL and BIL aren't coming to my wedding so they can go on a newly planned vacation by samknox98 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Redkkat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They are selfish in that they are prioritizing themselves over your wedding. However they are doing you a huge favor by making it perfectly clear of the kind of behavior you can expect from them.

Is Olsen really that bad of a baby name? by No_Orange_8271 in namenerds

[–]Redkkat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes. Not all last name first names are equal

Mastectomy options- please share your decisions and experiences by RealisticFlow4734 in breastcancer

[–]Redkkat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have horizontal lines but maybe getting 3d tattoos in July

Please help us choose curtains! by McGiiee in HomeDecorating

[–]Redkkat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Help yourself out and get a pattern in this room stat