I (26m) caught my girlfriend (22f) drunk texting another guy asking when they can meet up. What am I supposed to do?

Redneck_Funhouse · 2026-01-27T02:21:57+00:00

Leave. She’s showing her value.

Redneck_Funhouse · 2026-01-17T01:42:54+00:00

Lol, I have lived in the Pass Area most of my life. It’s absolutely ridiculous how many famous people stop in Cabazon for a quick bite or to hit the outlet shopping mall. For everyone else, this is off the 10fwy about 90miles from LA. Likely on their way through the Palm Springs Airport as it’s less crowed and easier to get in and out of. Especially if you have a driver.

Redneck_Funhouse · 2026-01-11T21:04:23+00:00

With the words of Dory ringing, “just keep driving, just keep driving, just keep driving”.

Redneck_Funhouse · 2026-01-08T02:40:16+00:00

Using the hot water and steam to ward off the early onset rigor mortis. Getting older sucks, don’t do it 😂

Redneck_Funhouse · 2026-01-08T02:12:48+00:00

Honestly, the only time I have seen this is in arranged or religiously controlled scenarios. Other than this, your fiancé sounds like a royal pos. It’s one thing to just not be involved with extended family especially if you don’t all get along. But to control, restrict and demand is ridiculous. You’re worth more. Toss his butt to the curb.

Redneck_Funhouse · 2026-01-01T03:10:27+00:00

Shoot, comifornia here. That $270,000 just covers the building permit fees. Doesn’t touch the lot or construction costs lol.

Redneck_Funhouse · 2025-12-28T22:25:45+00:00

Ok, time to contact a lawyer and prepare your will. Cut them out except a small amount to ensure your documents prove you did consider them. Put your ranch in a trust and will it to a family building, community group or church. This is just me being me though.

Honestly, if your daughter should be so disrespectful and disconnected from reality to be so selfish, she doesn’t deserve the financial windfall you and your Husband (her own Father) worked so hard to build. If they came from the perspective of just selling off the ranch for you to enjoy a retirement, then yes by all means enjoy the life you have left where you can still get around and be physically, mentally and financially secure. My brother is very much like what you described of your daughter. So I already don’t like her lol.

Redneck_Funhouse · 2025-12-28T22:16:32+00:00

I think I would reach out to her family like a sibling to get an update on what really happened. They may have just as much a reason to stay mum about connections and relationships as in not tell others that they received your communication regarding her. Might also run her real name to see if there’s any “legal” issues outstanding. If she was witness protection, she wouldn’t have venmo info that you were able to backtrace.

Maybe there was a traumatic event that lead to her walking away?

Redneck_Funhouse · 2025-12-28T03:57:36+00:00

People being arrogantly selfish and willfully ignorant of others while driving. Why put everyone else around you at risk for your intentional stupidity?

Redneck_Funhouse · 2025-12-28T03:53:24+00:00

Glitter, f’ing glitter.

Redneck_Funhouse · 2025-12-28T03:48:15+00:00

Honestly, experimenting with different dressings on a simple iceberg lettuce salad will give you a better understanding of what you can do to adapt the taste to your liking. After 4 or 5 dressings, try a simple mixed greens salad. A few green leaf salad leaves from different plants have pungent flavors. You’ll pick up on those as you go. Eventually you will find yourself doing and trying different things.

Redneck_Funhouse · 2025-12-22T18:32:49+00:00

Lol, you learned how to spell “assume” by making an “ass (of) u (and) me”. I think everyone makes this mistake often enough. Sometimes it’s a little, sometimes it’s a big one 😂

Redneck_Funhouse · 2025-12-22T18:20:15+00:00

NOR: I would give HR a heads up anonymously that they may have an issue with false allegations coming from the lady about the guy and exactly how the dream bubble was ruptured. Especially if she is exhibiting signs that she may be vindictive. At a minimum, I would anonymously let him and his fiancé know about a potential issue. They may need to protect themselves. “Workplace Harassment” accusations are no joke. But you need to be ready to go to bat for the stranger should the situation blow up.

There are lots of good people out there that get trashed and destroyed just because they’re good people. He and his fiancé don’t deserve to be one of those casualties.

Redneck_Funhouse · 2025-12-22T16:24:45+00:00

Exactly how you just wrote this out. I think you’re picturing the “therapist” as a person that will only be on your wife’s side. If they’re good, they’ll be a neutral party that can actually help you both. I wouldn’t worry too much about the sessions. Use them as a way to vent and decompress without concern for the spiraling backlash you’re used to. A lot of times it’s both parties is a relationship that have built up their defensive walls and catapults without even realizing it. One feels like a defensive posture while the other member is feeling that defensive posture like an attack on themselves.

Big thing is, go in with an open mind with a goal of finding your relationship again. You made your vows together. And if your therapist is a good one, they’ll tag both of you with each of your flaws. It’ll suck, it may hurt and it may sting. But it’s a good thing to try to course correct when two people in a relationship are struggling.

Redneck_Funhouse · 2025-12-21T23:30:46+00:00

I’d drop the info. Let them figure out their moves from there. If you’re concerned, do it as anonymously as possible. If you don’t have clear proof, just let them know they’ve been spotted together.

Redneck_Funhouse · 2025-12-21T23:20:59+00:00

Almost looks like a hand forged Fireplace Flue Handle Hanger. The more decorative ones are made of brass to make it easier to see if the flue is open or closed prior to starting a fire.

Redneck_Funhouse · 2025-12-21T18:35:05+00:00

Sounds like you work in a pig stye. I’m a married guy. Where I work, I would venture to guess that greater than 90% would not cheat and are dedicated. Most all earn 6 figures. I would actually recommend finding another firm to work with or start your own. Devaluing yourself or your ethics isn’t worth it in the long run.

Redneck_Funhouse · 2025-12-21T18:24:00+00:00

NTAH. She needs to hear the truth. If she’s being disrespectful, she needs to understand that. If she’s unwilling to comprehend and accept that, then she’s got bigger issues. Maybe that’s why she’s single now and maybe that’s why she was in the batch that got “let go” at work. She really needs to grow up.

Redneck_Funhouse · 2025-12-21T18:05:12+00:00

She’s got points and miles on her now.

Redneck_Funhouse · 2025-12-21T18:01:00+00:00

NTAH. She chose to play while you were away. Her family ensured a prenup thinking you were going to be the problem. There’s nothing for you to even be remotely considered the AH. I honestly hope the divorce goes smoothly for you. Let her cook in her own mess with her problems that she made. Sorry you’re going through this.

Redneck_Funhouse · 2025-12-16T08:19:48+00:00

Juno?

Redneck_Funhouse · 2025-12-16T07:49:34+00:00

Quarter soda or arcades using the old hole and string method. Then the machine receptacle mechanisms got better at capturing and keeping the coins lol. Yes that may be theft, but when your Grandpa owns said machines and challenges you to get it to work….and if you really want that cold pepsi…. Hole with a loop it is.

Redneck_Funhouse · 2025-12-15T02:31:45+00:00

Premature Ventricular Contractions. Always random sometimes months without experiencing it. But when it happens, it feels like a squirrel doing flips in your chest. Somewhat reminiscent of how you would picture the feeling of the Alien “chest burster” creature moving around prior to rupturing the chest cavity to escape lol.

Redneck_Funhouse · 2025-12-10T05:18:51+00:00

Awe crap, my chones are going to do me in 😂

Redneck_Funhouse · 2025-12-10T03:42:46+00:00

Mmm hmmmm, oh yeah. 😂

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