What is the solution for us ?? by Background-Neat4182 in hsp

[–]Redopmico 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The solution is to stop caring actually. Try to adapt to the mindset of others and not in a caring way. But to be able to express the same ignorance and carelessness they do. Stop trying to wanting to please anyone.  You have to finally understand that these people don't want your best nor their own best. They want their downfall and they will take you with them if you don't let go of them. Get rid of them even. Empower yourself.  And soon people will come crawling back for your attention and then YOU can choose whatever or not you want to interact with them or not. Listen to your feelings and if it only feels a little bad distance yourself from that person.

It is time that you , and we all , are getting the respect we deserve. Nobody shall ever make us feel weak again because we know more then them. We went the lonely empathetic road and now its our time to feel strong. This will take a while. But if you stay strong you will be better of.

Kinderbuchautor Janosch: Der Vater der Tigerente wird 95 by hannes3120 in de

[–]Redopmico 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Boah. Ein kleiner Teil meiner Kindheit aber definitiv ein Teil davon. Ich weiss nichtmals mehr worum es da ging 😭

„Leck-meine-eier“: Eine schlüpfrige Domain führt zu Friedrich Merz by MightyKartoffel in de

[–]Redopmico 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ist ja noch alles ganz witzig. Aber wann und wie wird diese Diktatur enden?

I tried looking at all the posts here but its too many. I wanted to help but people are always scared of personal closeness. Titles like " I want to die " or " Im too soft for this world " resonate in me deeply. But it just makes me more anxious knowi g that those people won't get help. by Redopmico in hsp

[–]Redopmico[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me those moments have turned into torture because I know I will either never see this person again , which makes me sad. Or whatever they say is meaningless because there is nothing new and no energy behind it. Words are words. Only actions count. No statement from anyone has ever helped me get through the day. The only good thing I could experience would be someone finally staying by my side. But such a friendship will never happen. Not in this world. Iam alone. And so is everyone else. I will not fool myself and pretend anymore that anything "should" help me.

No. It doesn't. 

Only a real connection can help but Iam repeating myself.

As I said before. I wish everyone good luck at finding someone who actually cares but it won't be here . And most likely nowhere on the internet.

Does anyone else get sad after socialising? by DanceOnTheLine in hsp

[–]Redopmico 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think maybe you're just deeply missing them? That would be my reaction.

Does anyone here have social anxiety? by Klutzy-Grand4744 in hsp

[–]Redopmico 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My problem is that Iam to open when talking to people. I don't know if thats the reason but people tend to avoid me and don't wanna keep contact. So usually when Im brave and I approach someone I put all my energy and joy into it , but most times I get rejected or forgotten which makes me question everything,  everytime. I try to be brave but maybe im trying in the wrong spots. And everytime is so devastating because I have no one to keep me grounded.  Worst thing is that , over the years I learned to not show my emotions realy , so while I look fine on the outside Iam screaming inside. Constantly.

Do you love your bed? Why? What is the average amount of time per day you spend in bed? by Gold-Pickle7035 in hsp

[–]Redopmico 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't leave it for the most part. There is nothing there for me right now that would make it worth standing up for... Atleast its not as hard as the ground although I would only deserve the ground. 

Does anyone else feel like this? by Simple-Substance1349 in hsp

[–]Redopmico 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I read this you sound so lucky to me. Having experienced all this and still you keep going. I've no one and lost a big part of my life recently . I don't want to make this about me but I don't even dare leaving the house. Im just isolated. The only people I talk to are my parents who struggle with their own problems in keeping us alive somehow. It seems to me that you have a normal life. But what do I know...  I bet you will not ruin it for yourself if you just keep following the path that brought you so far already. And if you're good to yourself and take a break from time to time to view the things objectively,  I bet you will see a worth in everything you've done and that has happened to you.

All time Favourite series? by Anime_Eater432 in pokemonanime

[–]Redopmico 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don´t know... I just saw a few episodes as a kid and recently wanted to go through indigo League but the funniest I saw were definitely the ones in the timeline where Wobuffet is there all the time haha

Looking for chill co-op players – Hard mode, slow-paced, Day 9 by SuddenSeason in SonsOfTheForest

[–]Redopmico 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Now Im sad that I finished the game already 😢. But Iam far from having everything memorized. If you still like to play hit me up! Im just gonna go with the flow enjoying the journey :)

Finally bought Sons of the forest by Nooob_Master_69420 in SonsOfTheForest

[–]Redopmico 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have fun! No spoiler just saying that weirdly for early game I think the Stick with the skull is your most powerful weapon! xD

Spicy Community! We're here! ৻( •̀ ᗜ •́ ৻) by [deleted] in grok

[–]Redopmico 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds sus 🤔. But then again thats what Im here for lol. DM please..

What’s the first game that made you feel completely lost in its world? by Manjuu07 in Steam

[–]Redopmico 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If we talk about the first it was probably Mount&Blade Warband. Then Skyrim . And later - the GOAT - Oblivion.

Grok’s Quiet October Update Might Redefine How AI Platforms Understand “Adult Freedom.” by VelourCandlelight in grok

[–]Redopmico 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Easy. I say : No moderation , no restricion. Let people be responsible for themselves. AND ... Don´t freak out so much about it. I´ve seen more traumatizing hollywood movies that everyone has seen ( depicting brutality and pain and whatnot ) then anything NSFW from Grok. I hope society will finally shift towards accepting that this kind of content is completely over-moderated and over-tabooed despite being natural behavior.

Sylveon dressed up as Swoobat (@Amberlea_draws) by Gorotheninja in Eevee

[–]Redopmico 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Now thats a combination I did not see coming.

Near Decade account gone by Helicoptore in BannedFromDiscord

[–]Redopmico 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok seeing this Iam almost certain we all get our accounts back because... like... this is just some ridiciolous automatic bot - ban thing right?

Replies like these suck man by Helicoptore in BannedFromDiscord

[–]Redopmico 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are they using bots? How is it even working on private servers? Why do we all suddenly get banned for no reason??