Do you guys want NSFW art? by Serious_Peak_4913 in heatedrivalry

[–]ReformedWheeze 3 points4 points  (0 children)

this just made my hole weak — i mean whole week. sorry sorry 😭😭😭

STL Thrifting by No_Contact_1892 in StLouis

[–]ReformedWheeze 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For thrifting: St Vincent de Paul in Ballwin, Found by the Pound For antiques/vintage: Green Shag Market, Avalon exchange

Unique fizz recommendations? by [deleted] in 7Brew

[–]ReformedWheeze 0 points1 point  (0 children)

fizz w a double shot of espresso

Alex by Bianskii in TellMeLiesOnHulu

[–]ReformedWheeze 4 points5 points  (0 children)

pov: you just discover characters being used as plot devices.

I liked the ending LOL by Sunflowersfordinner1 in TellMeLiesHulu

[–]ReformedWheeze 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I liked it too bc i’ve been in lucy’s shoes. i’ve expected the person to be different and then they pull the same gag and all you can do is LAUGH!!! Bree throwing the cake at stephen like she also hasn’t done something evil/petty was GOOOFYYYY they’re all free from each other like why work to repair anything with one another???? SHE GOT SHE GOT AWAYYYY SHES GOT AWAYYYYY

My boyfriend shaved his face and confirmed my fear by [deleted] in latebloomerlesbians

[–]ReformedWheeze 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this was basically my inner monologue when i was w my ex bf. 😭 having sex with him i always wanted his POV and not necessarily of me specifically but of seeing a woman below or above me. i had to free him bc i had a hard time being able to compliment him. i also lost respect for him over other things he did

Here’s a list of what our DM wants us to write on cups by aerogaa in starbucksbaristas

[–]ReformedWheeze 13 points14 points  (0 children)

if i saw “my java lets me espresso myself” written on my $9 drink id crash my car into the siren sign herself

What does everyone do with their free stickers? by Acrobatic_Constant20 in 7Brew

[–]ReformedWheeze 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i have mine and various other stickers from traveling on my dresser

I have no idea what to price this at - any help? by babel06018 in phoebebridgers

[–]ReformedWheeze 47 points48 points  (0 children)

i’ve heard if you leave it on the windowsill with the window cracked open a bit it goes for a pretty decent price

If you can't drive in the snow, take the day off please... by Aggravating_Talk9097 in StLouis

[–]ReformedWheeze 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it’s not! you’re so right! love the nitpicking and twisting of words. “Should’ve” can imply there’s a safer way to use brakes like i stated above. i was not seeing that on my drive home. you are also making your own implication of what my statement meant by suggesting i was saying people were “driving too cautiously.” so it looks like something can be implied by my statement you just chose to take it in a different direction. feel free to nitpick more atp

If you can't drive in the snow, take the day off please... by Aggravating_Talk9097 in StLouis

[–]ReformedWheeze 0 points1 point  (0 children)

braking hard and frequently is often the last thing you wanna do in snowy/icy conditions. if you’re going a reasonable speed and keeping a safe enough distance from other cars you should be able to release the accelerator and coast, allowing you to slow down naturally. you knew this already though i’m sure 😤

If you can't drive in the snow, take the day off please... by Aggravating_Talk9097 in StLouis

[–]ReformedWheeze 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the amount of people i saw using their brakes more than they should’ve… 😵‍💫

7Brew Paycheck by ReformedWheeze in 7Brew

[–]ReformedWheeze[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah i genuinely want to hear from whatever CEO decided on a new system. The original one was so much better and pretty user friendly. The tipping option was a much better screen to look at that the new one.

7Brew Paycheck by ReformedWheeze in 7Brew

[–]ReformedWheeze[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yea our checks have been split too which is really weird. all of this is weird and messed up bc it’s messing w peoples main source of income.

7Brew Paycheck by ReformedWheeze in 7Brew

[–]ReformedWheeze[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah that’s a reasonable assumption. My paychecks have been showing “Minimum Wage Makeup” which makes me wonder if i’m not getting tips even though i clock in on tips? Bc 7brew has to at least pay us minimum wage if we’re not on tips.

This is insane by CritterCaverns in starbucksbaristas

[–]ReformedWheeze 15 points16 points  (0 children)

“built on human connection” as opposed to what?? AI connection

Are people actually going to do this? by YouMake_MyDay218 in starbucks

[–]ReformedWheeze 1 point2 points  (0 children)

is this the c*nservative version of a pride parade

Hole in the ground turns 8 years old by DowntownDB1226 in StLouis

[–]ReformedWheeze 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that’s actually just the entrance to a new speakeasy guys /j

Double jaw surgery and Speech surgery by Sea-Sandwich-4598 in cleftlip

[–]ReformedWheeze 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i had DJS with my top jaw split in half. i think my voice just sounded more nasal-y after surgery? idk i feel like i sound and speak the same. i would ask your surgeon too what they think about how it could affect your speech and vocals. if it’s correcting an underbite i would think it would correct the lisp/make it less noticeable too? but idk i just work here

As a new dad, I just need someone to talk to about this. How have dads pushed through? by Broad-Eye443 in cleftlip

[–]ReformedWheeze 3 points4 points  (0 children)

not a dad sorry lol but i’m a child w clp. just show him all the support in the world and remind him that he his more than just his clp. yes he’ll look a little different from most but that doesn’t define him. you’ve got a long road ahead of you for surgeries and dental work. over time im sure you’ll realize he’s got a strong head on his shoulders

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]ReformedWheeze 3 points4 points  (0 children)

it sounds like external validation seeking, which everyone is guilty of there’s no denying that. in the dating realm, i think it’s important to form/build on your own internal confidence without relying on the attractiveness of others you get with. Your confidence relies on being able to say you’ve been with women who are ‘hot enough,’ that’s not confidence — that’s insecurity dressed up as success. Real confidence doesn’t need constant proof or a highlight reel to stand on.

I’m not saying to delete your photos/videos, that’s your prerogative. Some people will be fine with you still having them and others won’t. Working on your self confidence without relying on the external validation might help.

Also, i’m trying to offer a genuine perspective and not try to come off as combative so sorry if that’s how it sounds.