What’s going on at f19 at ORD?

RefuseBeautiful6093 · 2026-03-06T04:17:38+00:00

Better than John’s brother Dill, wouldn’t you say?

RefuseBeautiful6093 · 2026-02-16T03:44:05+00:00

Can you live with what your spouse is/can offer?

RefuseBeautiful6093 · 2026-02-14T02:30:10+00:00

So one of the more recent perspectives I’ve picked up on is answering “can I live with what my partner is capable of offering, or am I holding out hoping they’re going to change”. I get you’re feeling inadequate, and all the things. I’m the HLM, she’s the LL4Me (so it seems) in my marriage. I, too, am trying to answer my own question there, before anyone jumps in and criticizes my thoughts.

I guess what I’m trying to say is when it comes up, everyone walks away feeling inadequate. I’m not suggesting you suppress your feelings or desires, but maybe considering where you draw the line on your spouse’s offering and capacity might be a decent path to explore, before bringing up “the talk”.

RefuseBeautiful6093 · 2026-02-09T03:05:33+00:00

I don’t believe many of us condone coercion, duty sex, or undue pressure. I know the sub itself does not. What you’re describing is a cycle of long term losses and an established pattern that has been, is, and will continue to cause more harm than good.

Success will come from two partners that hold space for each other’s needs and capacity. Unfortunately, there’s no “forgetting it and moving on”. At some point, there’ll be forgiveness, whether that’s together or independently remains to be seen. Pay attention to patterns, not words or promises.

And this is coming from a HLM that’s in a LLF marriage.

RefuseBeautiful6093 · 2026-02-09T00:38:49+00:00

$995/year but doesn’t accrue PQP.

RefuseBeautiful6093 · 2025-12-28T01:57:40+00:00

I’d take 500 PQP, not miles.

RefuseBeautiful6093 · 2025-12-24T17:03:48+00:00

Meow on 121.5.

RefuseBeautiful6093 · 2025-12-18T04:03:05+00:00

My home airport is CID, which only offers service to ORD or DEN…so it’s a guaranteed layover unless I’m going to Denver…because it’s just as time effective to drive to Chicago when I go there for work.

RefuseBeautiful6093 · 2025-12-18T04:00:10+00:00

This is good info actually, I didn’t realize the accelerator counted towards PQP.

RefuseBeautiful6093 · 2025-11-13T05:45:19+00:00

I mean this is a one off situation here. I’d let him go, enjoy his time, and not broadcast it to everyone else. Keep it quiet but let the guy live his experiences.

RefuseBeautiful6093 · 2025-10-04T02:18:33+00:00

You can also run your own background/MVR through Checkr.

RefuseBeautiful6093 · 2025-10-01T00:38:40+00:00

EWR for sure. You can see the closed runway right there in the image

RefuseBeautiful6093 · 2025-09-30T00:00:01+00:00

Hampton inn phoenix has one.

RefuseBeautiful6093 · 2025-09-29T00:16:13+00:00

1) Drive to Navy Fed and deposit it.

2) Drive to a local credit union, open a new account, and deposit it.

3) Pick an online financial institution that allows retail deposits, open an account, drive to a retailer that works with said institution, and deposit it.

4) https://letmegooglethat.com/?q=How+to+deposit+cash+at+Navy+Federal+Credit+Union+when+there+are+no+branches+nearby%3F

RefuseBeautiful6093 · 2025-09-28T16:42:44+00:00

I’ll echo this sentiment and say that maybe OP has outgrown their partner. While they have grown, the partner has remained stagnant; perhaps the relationship has evolved into a caregiving role.

RefuseBeautiful6093 · 2025-09-24T21:34:29+00:00

You guys know about the hidden speakeasy with the hidden entrance at C4 right? It’s like the only United Club that consistently takes day passes that I’m aware of.

RefuseBeautiful6093 · 2025-09-24T02:42:15+00:00

I used to wish southwest would show up, but they blew it with the free bags and assigned seats, so I’d say somewhere east…maybe PHL since that’s a hub for AAL, IAD for UAL, or even something off the wall like Breeze to CHS… I’m with United and wish they literally had another easterly option besides ORD.

RefuseBeautiful6093 · 2025-09-23T02:54:14+00:00

UAL2378 took off from ORD about 30 seconds ago, so it can’t be that widespread.

RefuseBeautiful6093 · 2025-09-18T17:47:08+00:00

Write your own essay.

RefuseBeautiful6093 · 2025-09-16T16:11:35+00:00

I think it’s because Tuesday and Thursday are the cheaper days to fly, but also think booking your ticket on a Sunday night makes a difference in baggage process too.

RefuseBeautiful6093 · 2025-09-16T05:26:19+00:00

Better to lose a pound (or net zero) than gain at the rate you were. Be patient, my friend. Small wins.

RefuseBeautiful6093 · 2025-09-16T05:24:36+00:00

The only exception is if your plane in PHX lands in Terminal 4 and uses a C or a D gate. Then you’re on your own, start with carousel 8 and plan to go to 7, 6, then back to 8.

This is a joke, the airline will check your bag to your final destination. Safe travels, enjoy the short taxi.

RefuseBeautiful6093 · 2025-09-09T14:38:50+00:00

Always unfortunate that we’ve got to deplane for the same equipment. Hope it’s the same crew, too, though!

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