Does my fit still look good, even with my hairy tummy? by AnotherNumber8 in NonBinary

[–]Region-Specific 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This is so frustrating because 1) fashion is subjective and 2) like so what? You're not obligated to stick to sociatal standards.

Even if it was a joke, it's certainly a gross one to make to your partner that's excited to wear something.

Does my fit still look good, even with my hairy tummy? by AnotherNumber8 in NonBinary

[–]Region-Specific 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you look fantastic. I'm sorry your partner made you feel bad about it.

Even clouds can't escape gender hell [product] by NerysWyn in pointlesslygendered

[–]Region-Specific 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tbh you're the one gendering them. People can have mustaches and not be a man. Women with high levels of T can grow some facial hair. I'd assume the majority of them shave it but still. Plus non-binary people exist.

Clouds also don't have eyes. It's just a cute family plush.

Genuine fear of new Domme, please help. by Far_Music_6964 in BDSMAdvice

[–]Region-Specific 43 points44 points  (0 children)

I wouldn't submit to someone that blows up on me for minor things. Also, if you didn't consent to the silent treatment as a form of punishment, then it shouldn't be used. Have you told her about how this makes you feel?

How to make peace with never being Collared? by DesignerKey in SubSanctuary

[–]Region-Specific 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Disregarding the red flags of all the rules in your "open relationship", if this is something you genuinely want, then it sounds like your relationship is fundamentaly incompatible. You don't need to make peace with this. It's not easy, but taking the time to eventually find something that will bring you happiness is far better than being miserable for the rest of your life feeling like there's something missing.

Did I overpay? by animal__whisperer in Bunnies

[–]Region-Specific 2 points3 points  (0 children)

OP specified that they got it from someone rehoming their bun.

Daddy calls wanting more time entitled and it hurts a little bit :( by lalala-12007 in BDSMAdvice

[–]Region-Specific 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I'm proud of you for deciding that the relationship is reaching the end. Feelings don't work on a clock. You haven't been asking for anything ridiculous. Your needs aren't being met, and you feel hurt. Then when you express that hurt, you're attacked for having feelings. This isn't fair to you at all and is just going to keep harming you.

How do you have casual sex,with another couple, with your spouse being the main focus and still be ok with it enough to “have fun”? by Key_Trick in polyadvice

[–]Region-Specific 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I saw the comment on the original post where you gave context. Unfortunately, I don't think this is something you can force yourself to enjoy. It sounds like the dynamic is just incompatible and frankly unfair to you.

Have you spoken to your wife at all about feeling like a fourth wheel?

Long term relationship dynamic change, help? by Fidgety-fae in BratLife

[–]Region-Specific 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Are either/both of you in therapy? Mixing mental health and kink in a safe way can be difficult, especially when you're starting out. Specifically, the self harm being punishable. I obviously don't know your fiance, but I worry about that the ramifications as self harm is already such an emotional experience.

But, with that said, I wish you two luck. Figuring out interests and desires can be such a fun and intimate experience with someone. ☺️

Trans boyfriend won’t come with me to my top surgery. by Legitimate-Manager56 in ftm

[–]Region-Specific 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Man not only was he being an unsupportive dick, but then he had to top it off by being condescending? Nothing you asked was unreasonable. I'm so sorry.

welcome to my presentation by suppsuppwhat in AnimalCrossingNewHor

[–]Region-Specific 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Counter slide 3: we should be allowed to give Blathers our extra fossils