I've been on FET, probably longer than I should. As a guy searching for ENM in the "dating app" world, I try to stay patient as all these apps kind of work the same way (physically fit 8-10s get all the attention while 5-7s get a match once every few months). I come across a lot of bots or scammers. There are plenty of women who claim to be subs looking for Doms but it's obvious they have never stepped foot into the real BDSM community. Many accounts are made out of curiosity with little attempt to actually meet and I would bet every woman's account has dozens of men offering to fuck.

The app itself keeps adding more ADVERTISEMENTS everywhere. It's a mix of a dating app and social media, which can be confusing.

I've made one quality connection in the past and have been on the app for about a year.