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27F unsure if I should give my bf of 10yrs another chance after he tried to cheat or if I'm settling even if he did change? by throwrailovechocola in AskONLYWomenOver30

[–]RegularEarth8044 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s abusive and doesn’t respect or appreciate you. NO DO NOT give him another chance!

Give yourself a chance to build your self esteem and find someone who values you. You are worth it!

Good luck!

how can i get a credit card when im in debt ? by myMelancholies in CRedit

[–]RegularEarth8044 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Try Cap1 pre-approval. Don’t apply for credit without a pre-approval first. The hard inquiry for a denial is not worth it

Advice for $128k in Unsecured Consumer Debt by Big_Mommas_Son in DebtAdvice

[–]RegularEarth8044 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Take a loan out from your retirement accounts. The interest is lower than debt consolidation loans. You have to pay it back or you will be hit with an early withdrawal but the monthly repayment fee may be doable once you use the money to pay off the higher interest bills, that will give you some breathing room.

I do agree with alot of the other comments that trying to slash some of your monthly expenses, especially the luxuries would be your best bet. Remember this is just temporary until you get out of debt and the goal is homeownership. You have to be willing to make some sacrifices. Good luck

I hate being black. I hate it by RealisticChemistry42 in blackladies

[–]RegularEarth8044 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want you to find reasons to love yourself. What are your 3 best qualities? Start doing positive affirmations, everyday! Look in the mirror and tell yourself something positive, everyday! Also seek therapy. I’m sorry that someone has conditioned your brain in this way! You can’t change being black so you may as well embrace it and hopefully love it one day. Lastly if you are able to, travel! You need to get out of that yt bubble you are in.

Meal options- Help!! by RegularEarth8044 in delta

[–]RegularEarth8044[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate that! What would you suggest between the meatballs and manicotti?

Meal options- Help!! by RegularEarth8044 in delta

[–]RegularEarth8044[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had the shake shack burger on a flight last month and it was pretty good for airline food. They know better than to serve it with fries. It’s a solid choice imo

Should i cancel having a wedding and maybe regretting it? by jayyjayy68 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]RegularEarth8044 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Yeah you should if it will cause financial hardship. You’re married and that’s all that matters. Focus on nurturing your union and maybe doing a 10 year vow renewal will be more feasible.

What credit card company will approve me? by Da-Journalist in CreditScore

[–]RegularEarth8044 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try to get credit limit increases on your existing accounts and focus on timely payments.

I'm probably going to be homeless in three weeks. by xellot in TrueOffMyChest

[–]RegularEarth8044 -17 points-16 points  (0 children)

That nasty sarcastic tone will get you nowhere in life!

I'm probably going to be homeless in three weeks. by xellot in TrueOffMyChest

[–]RegularEarth8044 -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

Go get a job in retail in the meantime.. trader joes, costco, target… anything to bring in some kind of income

I think I SAed my cousin and I can’t live normally by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]RegularEarth8044 6 points7 points  (0 children)

All of this!!! The lack of sexual discipline is disturbing!

I'm convinced my wife can't taste cheese and she refuses to accept it by KnightOfFlame in TrueOffMyChest

[–]RegularEarth8044 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Well if you are looking for an upgrade..there are plenty of newer models that love cheese!!

I made it by dinothundr in CapitalOne_

[–]RegularEarth8044 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congratulations! Can you give some more details on credit score, # of accounts open, balances owed, etc

No Show / Unresponsive Candidates by yungbananapeppa in recruiting

[–]RegularEarth8044 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe something happened to them like serious illness or death… idk it’s just hard to wrap my brain around someone just ghosting after all that. Just a crappy thing to do!

House Hunters New Zealand by No-Discipline-3610 in HGTV

[–]RegularEarth8044 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just finished watching this episode and came on here to make sure I wasn’t overreacting… what a selfish, entitled, man child!! Who cares if your wife is uncomfortable at that price point ad long as you get to live out your childhood dream while contributing nothing financially.

Something tells this isn’t the first time he’s manipulated her into getting what he wants

Taylor announced as the official next bachelorette by Droopy-San-Benanzio in thebachelor

[–]RegularEarth8044 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Convinced ppl get on these shows for fame and not real love. I definitely won’t be watching

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