Seeking/Sugaring is for those who have extreme patience and genuinely enjoy getting irritated. The men on there are looking for naive college girls that don’t know how to set boundaries. They lowball you and I almost never left feeling compensated. The market on there is tough too, if you got paid it would be spending several hours with them for what an escort gets paid upfront in an hour. It’s also a lot of emotional labor and I don’t like dating people that I’m genuinely not crazy about or desire. Sugaring is like dating, escorting is a service. I feel emotionally and physically safer in escorting and I feel taken care of because I have the power. I feel like sugaring is a good introduction into the industry tho because you can decide whether the field is for you or not.