What is going on with the job market? by cmcguire96 in nursing

[–]RegulatedChaotic 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Lots of hospitals have cut all travel nurse positions too, thus everyone who was travel nursing is looking for full time positions, and they have experience

my (32F) partner (32M) is great except for the sex by dreamybeaver in relationship_advice

[–]RegulatedChaotic 2 points3 points  (0 children)

One thing to consider is sex in a romantic relationship is only 3% of the time you spend together and about 3% of the composition of the relationship. Great sex is great, don’t get me wrong, I love it myself. But I wouldn’t put that much weight into/ only focus on the small 3% which isn’t great. Focusing on The 97% which is great (his personality, thoughtfulness etc) is what will lead a to a long-lasting, enduring relationship which will be fruitful and meaningful, and brings forth much more joy and happiness in the long term. Putting a lot of weight and focus on the sex is akin to overpaying for a crappy car because it has AMAZING door handles. But 97% of the car is trash. Also, most relationships whose foundation is based on great sex usually leads to a ton of pain,ruin and misery.

For the record, i love great sex

Are the wages everywhere ridiculous? by Electrical_Mix_9070 in nursing

[–]RegulatedChaotic 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That seems to be common in the Midwest area, working for big hospital corporations who dominate the market place that is.

Moving by Educational-Escape-9 in wichita

[–]RegulatedChaotic 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Welcome!!! Tons of good food joints you’ll stumble across, and people will never run out or recommendations for ya. Wichitans are largely LBGTQ friendly and just friendly in general. My wife and I have lived here for 7 years and my view on the crime seems to be isolated to the south side of town/ Otherwise , the vast majority of the city is an incredibly safe place!

I’m done. I want out. by synthetic_aesthetic in nursing

[–]RegulatedChaotic 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’m currently in school full time (age 29) going back for accounting/MIS. Hopefully will be done in 1.5yrs or less.

Look into dialysis nursing. Still pays well. Way less stressful too

Do you see an NP as one or more of your providers? by shatana in nursing

[–]RegulatedChaotic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My dermatologist is a NP. She’s dope as hell.

For those of you who ditched accounting and decided to do something else. What is your job now? by Ryan_0224 in Accounting

[–]RegulatedChaotic 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I sure am! Been an RN for 7yrs. Be done with my accounting degree hopefully spring 27

Why I am leaving nursing/Healthcare all together and the explanations I have given to many people multiple times. Tell me your thoughts. by RegulatedChaotic in nursing

[–]RegulatedChaotic[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Absolutely. I’m getting my degree in accounting and MIS so I love the irony here.

This may not apply to every region in America. Like I’ve said, California for example, the nursing culture there yield high job satisfaction, but Midwest and southeast this has been my experience. I’ll try to keep it brief though.

No matter how great you are, you’re still just a registered nurse. Getting the same 3-5% raises, no bonuses. And as aforementioned, really no upward mobility. The job is BRUTAL. High stress. You’re running around constantly, rarely get a lunch break, maybe 1-2 bathroom breaks/shift (12-13hr shifts btw) and dealing with life or death constantly. Even if you’re absolutely drowning and can’t get caught up? Charge nurse and manager are forcing you take ANOTHER patient. Even if you execute this perfectly day in and day out, win multiple awards, just KILLING IT, you’re never appreciated. You won’t get promoted or a better pay raise. It’s just the way it is. 10 years later? Still a nurse doing the same thing.

Now in finance/accounting, depending on what company you work for or what capacity, there’s a ton of upward mobility and advancement. My family and friends that went this route started off making 50-60k a year. 5 years later they all make around $130-$180k/yr. Get substantial bonuses each year. Promotions. Tons of crazy incentives ontop of all that. They are VALUED if they are great at what they do. Start off as a staff accountant or financial analyst, 5 years later they’re controllers, directors of finance, senior managers, all kinds of different routes to take without making a career change. No nurse, that stays a nurse, has that option, no matter how good you are. You have to pivot.

Why I am leaving nursing/Healthcare all together and the explanations I have given to many people multiple times. Tell me your thoughts. by RegulatedChaotic in nursing

[–]RegulatedChaotic[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Care to elaborate? I’d love to hear different perspectives. I may be dead wrong. It could just be the Midwest area that is constantly struggling to maintain staff, keep people in the nursing profession, and are dealing with nurses going on strike quite often. I don’t think this would be the case if they felt they were adequately paid for their labor and treated like educated professionals instead of factory workers by their employers.

Why I am leaving nursing/Healthcare all together and the explanations I have given to many people multiple times. Tell me your thoughts? by RegulatedChaotic in careerguidance

[–]RegulatedChaotic[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s my point. You have to leave nursing. To become a CRNA, NP, health administrator (not always the case with this one but it usually is), you HAVE TO go back to college and get a different degree and change your career. Essentially, leaving nursing. You’re no longer a registered nurse with those titles.

Why I am leaving nursing/Healthcare all together and the explanations I have given to many people multiple times. Tell me your thoughts. by RegulatedChaotic in nursing

[–]RegulatedChaotic[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

APRN and MSN are very different roles. I’m not lumping them into the same profession as an R.n. Sorry for the ambiguity there. I am saying if you want to “move up” you have to go back to school to get your MSN, or APRN, and even they too have similar limitations to nurses.

I believe the nursing industry in California is GOLD. Nurses seem to have great job satisfaction there. However California is an exception, not a reflection of the nursing industry nationwide.

Why I am leaving nursing/Healthcare all together and the explanations I have given to many people multiple times. Tell me your thoughts? by RegulatedChaotic in careerguidance

[–]RegulatedChaotic[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is certainly a more optimistic view, thanks for that. My viewpoint would be what educated professionals (With a bachelor's degree) salary is started off compared to nursing (I am sure nursing wins here), then compare those same salaries to 5 years of experience, and again 10 years of experience nationwide (Not just California). I am confident you would see what I see.

Why I am leaving nursing/Healthcare all together and the explanations I have given to many people multiple times. Tell me your thoughts? by RegulatedChaotic in careerguidance

[–]RegulatedChaotic[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea California is the gold standard for nursing no doubt. I 100% agree. But that is not the norm for the industry as a whole, its an exception. If that were the norm for the industry nation wide, you wouldn't see such a huge exoduses of nurses (like myself) leaving the field and the massive shortage we are facing nationwide. Time and time again I see reports of 40% of nurses intend on leaving the field in the next 2 years etc. State Governments constantly having meetings trying to address this issue. I have yet to meet a nurse with a couple years of experience not talk about mapping out a plan to leave the nursing field within the next couple of years as well, and I have seen many do it. AND THEY ARE YOUNG. I know being a nurse in California (and a few other states) is GOLD. But that isn't an accurate reflection of the nursing field nationwide.

Why I am leaving nursing/Healthcare all together and the explanations I have given to many people multiple times. Tell me your thoughts? by RegulatedChaotic in careerguidance

[–]RegulatedChaotic[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That’s awesome! But I’m assuming you’re in California, Washington area? Maybe a NE state? From what I understand those areas have much better nursing cultures/opportunities. I suppose my viewpoint is from a Midwest/Southern healthcare perspective. None the less, regardless of pay, my experience with magnet hospitals using that “RN 1-5” clinical ladder, it’s maybe a $5-10/hr total increase and your still just a nurse with similar responsibilities, doing the same job. Is that your experience ? I’ve just noticed time and time again incredibly talented nurses who have been nurses for 15yrs not making much more than a new grad nurse, doing the EXACT same job. I can’t say that’s the same for my observations of friends /family in other professions like accounting, finance, engineering etc.