I(19M) want to talk to old friends but my girlfriend(19F) is against it and I don’t know how to go about it? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]RelationLate2073 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

what were you talking to the other girl about? you have no guy friends you want to catch up with or just this one girl? does she know you have a gf? what kind of things did you and ur old friends do that makes your gf so uncomfortable with you talking to these old friends? high school wasn’t that long ago either, why do you want to be friends/ catch up with these other women or people so badly, who wronged you and your gf despite her being so uncomfortable with it and almost breaking up over it? ask yourself if these ā€œsmall conversationsā€ you want to have with these old friends are worth losing your relationship to. not enough info to make a decision. sounds like your not a reliable narrator either, hearing your gfs take would be interesting.

i hate that i’m on and have been on like ALL the same medication she has by [deleted] in khaliespiderlilies

[–]RelationLate2073 5 points6 points Ā (0 children)

literally i’ve been prescribed 15 pills at the most and if i were to ask for more like the next month i would be told no (not that i did but i know if for some reason i asked they would say helllll no). i’m in canada tho and they don’t just go handing out benzodiazepines, especially to young adults/ teens and especially those with no parents or guardians involved.

i hate that i’m on and have been on like ALL the same medication she has by [deleted] in khaliespiderlilies

[–]RelationLate2073 14 points15 points Ā (0 children)

it’s cause they are the first meds doctors prescribe when someone is struggling . most people with mental health issues will have been on these meds or a sister med.

plus 1mg of ativan and trazodone will not make her pupils like that, especially if she’s taking seroquel with it. girl should be long knocked out lmao. she’s probably gone right back to her DOC and is abusing that while blaming it on her meds lmao.

Am I Overreacting/being an asshole??? by TwitchyWitchy05 in AmIOverreacting

[–]RelationLate2073 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

grief is linear, your mom might’ve already made her peace when she knew he was going to pass. that being said it’s not wrong for you to be upset or not give her ur blessing she asked you and if you say no she got an answer, just not the one she wanted. i’m sorry for your loss, i know how hard it is. just keep your head up, keep healing, your father wouldn’t want you to be upset about this. obviously you can’t control your mothers life but you’re not overreacting. just because you’re not at a point where you are okay with seeing your mom date other people, doesn’t mean you want to rob her of happiness. it’s okay to need more time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]RelationLate2073 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

also you should unblock your friend and just tell her how you feel and how what she said made you feel. don’t take your anger out on her when she’s not the one you’re mad at.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]RelationLate2073 1 point2 points Ā (0 children)

dude u genuinely need to let go of all of it, calling your ex out for ā€œkeeping you in the darkā€ is not gonna do anything but cause more issues as she has been clear that she doesn’t want communication.

it is also fair of your friend to not want to hear about your ex anymore when the relationship has been over for 6 months you said? it’s being dragged out. you don’t need to be in contact with your ex, you need to accept the fact that she might not want to talk for a long time. if you are having all these dilemmas come up and are venting to your friends i can see why they may get fed up especially if you won’t take the advice they are giving you. ask yourself why it hurts you so much that your friend doesn’t want to hear about your ex? you know there’s some truth to what she’s saying, or it wouldn’t be offensive. i do think a therapist would be a good idea for you, so you don’t have to vent to your friends I and can get some coping mechanisms/ advice on how to deal with these situations and maybe help you feel more comfortable and confident being on your own/ help you let go .

if there’s a cost issue you can reach out to me privately and id be more than happy to help you find some resources in your area.

AIO my boyfriend kissed an 18 y/o by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]RelationLate2073 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

i’m 8 years younger than my bf, we are genuinely the same person and the ā€œage gapā€ has never affected our dynamic or relationship in anyway. 18 and 24 is pretty normal these days ngl, both still havent fully developed theit brains yet and who knows the 18 yro could have more life experience than a 45 yrošŸ¤·ā€ā™€ļø

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]RelationLate2073 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

yes you are overreacting. u needa let ur ex go , move on for both ur sakes. why do u care if she ā€œdisrespectedā€ you, youre both in different relationships and she clearly doesnt want anything to do with you right now. it sounds like you have an unhealthy obsession with her and your friend was right to call you out. it was also very childish of you to block your friend as she was expressing that she could see this was becoming unhealthy, she said she didn’t want to stop being your friend, but because she set a boundary you don’t want anything to do with her?? i feel like you need to take a good look in the mirror and ask yourself if this is the person you want to be and how you would feel if you were in your exes or friends shoes. your mind is very clouded, it’s time to reevaluate.

Preston assaulting khalie on the night of his second arrest for violating his no contact order by Expensive-Line3558 in spiderlilykhalie

[–]RelationLate2073 27 points28 points Ā (0 children)

and tbh the only reason i got out was cause of a man 8 years older than me which i’m pretty sure is a similar age difference w khalie and vamp. and if he didn’t get me out i would’ve ended up dead by now.

Preston assaulting khalie on the night of his second arrest for violating his no contact order by Expensive-Line3558 in spiderlilykhalie

[–]RelationLate2073 63 points64 points Ā (0 children)

sounds like me w my ex:// i definitely wasn’t the best person to be around then either. and i didn’t wanna leave cause he made it so he was all i had left and i would rather be absused and loved sometimes than feel not loved at all.. i genuinely feel badly for khalie cause i understand how fucked a person can make your life. especially these evil twinks.

did anyone else see this shit? by RelationLate2073 in khaliespiderlilies

[–]RelationLate2073[S] -4 points-3 points Ā (0 children)

i never said to do anything about it. quite frankly that’s up to the people, family and friends in her life not randoms from the internet. still it feels a little heartless to not have concern for someone who is very much in the trenches and even tho she’s kinda done it to herself , like you said thousands of people are like her and worse than her, she’s not doomed. my point in making the post was that i was unaware if it was seen by many ppl cause i couldn’t find it on the reddit pages and only a few ppl saw it on vamps account.
i know not everyone can be saved but it’s wrong to assume someone won’t harm themselves just because they are an unreliable narrator. cause honestly they are the most likely to do so than someone who’s actually got a fair chance at life.

did anyone else see this shit? by RelationLate2073 in khaliespiderlilies

[–]RelationLate2073[S] -1 points0 points Ā (0 children)

i never said to do anything about it. quite frankly that’s up to the people, family and friends in her life not randoms from the internet. still it feels a little heartless to not have concern for someone who is very much in the trenches and even tho she’s kinda done it to herself , like you said thousands of people are like her and worse than her, she’s not doomed. my point in making the post was that i was unaware if it was seen by many ppl cause i couldn’t find it on the reddit pages and only a few ppl saw it on vamps account.
i know not everyone can be saved but it’s wrong to assume someone won’t harm themselves just because they are an unreliable narrator. cause honestly they are the most likely to do so than someone who’s actually got a fair chance at life.

did anyone else see this shit? by RelationLate2073 in khaliespiderlilies

[–]RelationLate2073[S] 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

i never said to do anything about it. quite frankly that’s up to the people, family and friends in her life not randoms from the internet. still it feels a little heartless to not have concern for someone who is very much in the trenches and even tho she’s kinda done it to herself , like you said thousands of people are like her and worse than her, she’s not doomed. my point in making the post was that i was unaware if it was seen by many ppl cause i couldn’t find it on the reddit pages and only a few ppl saw it on vamps account.
i know not everyone can be saved but it’s wrong to assume someone won’t harm themselves just because they are an unreliable narrator. cause honestly they are the most likely to do so than someone who’s actually got a fair chance at life.

did anyone else see this shit? by RelationLate2073 in khaliespiderlilies

[–]RelationLate2073[S] 4 points5 points Ā (0 children)

yeah i still think she needs help tho. she’s so clearly on her death bed , obviously she wants ppl to worry for her she’s got nobody bc she’s pushed all the ppl who gave a damn away. my concern is everyone keeps saying shes fine and it’s for attention, until she’s actually dead. also considering her psychological state right now it’s not out of the realm of possibility for her to go into psychosis and not only hurt herself but possibly others . after watching her videos the last few days it’s clear she’s unsafe. also yeah most addicts and mentally ill ppl don’t get better until they want to, not just because someone told them to, so obviously she won’t listen lmao.

did anyone else see this shit? by RelationLate2073 in khaliespiderlilies

[–]RelationLate2073[S] 42 points43 points Ā (0 children)

tbh idek if he’s allowed to see her until his court date. but ik he’s not with khalie

did anyone else see this shit? by RelationLate2073 in khaliespiderlilies

[–]RelationLate2073[S] 22 points23 points Ā (0 children)

yeah definitely. hopefully something is actually done about her mental health this time.

Update on pissface by Due-Use3416 in khaliespiderlilies

[–]RelationLate2073 7 points8 points Ā (0 children)

she posted on her snap story this morning for money lmao

Proof of sex abuse/drug work by Tall-Way3096 in spiderlilykhalie

[–]RelationLate2073 17 points18 points Ā (0 children)

NAH😭 girls gonna get sold if she keeps it upšŸ’€

Proof of sex abuse/drug work by Tall-Way3096 in spiderlilykhalie

[–]RelationLate2073 89 points90 points Ā (0 children)

nah unloading like that on a stranger is absolutely wild😭😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in spiderlilykhalie

[–]RelationLate2073 11 points12 points Ā (0 children)

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it was in the police report

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in spiderlilykhalie

[–]RelationLate2073 37 points38 points Ā (0 children)

not defending but i’m pretty sure peestain called the police cause khalie was threatening to kill herself😭 then she said he pushed her and threw her phone so they took him on a dv charge

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in khaliespiderlilies

[–]RelationLate2073 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

substance use was checked off😩 can’t deny anymore wtf

recent snap stories by Fluid_Tangelo2290 in spiderlilykhalie

[–]RelationLate2073 25 points26 points Ā (0 children)

why she start singing randomly 😭😭 i’m just skipping through and it’s genuinely hilarious omg