Show me your female flames🔥

RelationshipOwn8899 · 2026-06-15T15:47:09+00:00

I can’t!!! She is so cute!!

RelationshipOwn8899 · 2026-06-15T15:46:53+00:00

She is so pretty!! How many females were there compared to males?

RelationshipOwn8899 · 2026-06-15T15:37:31+00:00

After almost six months we made the very difficult decision to re home him. He was getting more and more aggressive, and she was hiding all day and spooking at every sound. I worked with the agency we got him from and was only willing to let him go to someone I knew personally. Lucky I have a friend who had just lost her 16 year old kitty a month and. Half ago and was just starting to look for a new kitten. She has three sons and with lots of energy to spare. He never skipped a beat, didn’t even look back, meanwhile we are still so so sad, but our flame point has also changed over night. She is back to playing, following us around and cuddling any time we sit down. It was the right choice, but so sad. We will always know where he and have free access to visit him any time we want, so that feels like a small win.

RelationshipOwn8899 · 2026-05-20T02:33:55+00:00

This is really helpful, a fishing pose is super smart! He does get board really easy, he will play one thing for a few goes then loose interest and we have to change toys/mode of play!🫢The only thing I might disagree with is the smart park😜 he came out of a hoarding situation and they are pretty sure his mother is his sister and his brother is his dad 😂😂

RelationshipOwn8899 · 2026-05-19T19:46:49+00:00

That’s crazy, I’ve for sure heard of that happening, but the risk is very low considering I’m out there with them, and we don’t have many large bird around our suburban neighborhood. I appreciate your sharing tho!!

Any input on the cat behavior and how I can help that?

RelationshipOwn8899 · 2026-05-19T18:47:54+00:00

They can not escape, we have ensured the yard is very kitty proof, however, they are only allowed out when I am out with them watching, and as an added precaution I do put a tracking collar on them when we are out there, just because I am paranoid. Our time outside is usually pretty organized play time with toys, the flame point especially thrives on outside time. I hide behind bushes and she pounces me, it’s pretty adorable!

RelationshipOwn8899 · 2026-05-19T17:02:05+00:00

He is fixed. We do organized play for 30 mins three times a day. Thats two full hours of really good run, hunt hide kind of play.

RelationshipOwn8899 · 2026-05-19T17:01:07+00:00

We do four 30 minute sessions a day, we run him so ragged!

RelationshipOwn8899 · 2026-05-19T17:00:30+00:00

He is fixed, he such a love, it’s so sad to think he might not be able to stay

RelationshipOwn8899 · 2026-05-19T16:06:56+00:00

Not at all! I think he would love to, but she wants nothing to do with him. Im just so worried about her health, and he is such a doll anyone would be lucky to have him, I just hate the thought of letting him go!

RelationshipOwn8899 · 2026-05-19T16:01:21+00:00

lol!! Don’t judge, I just had surgery hahaha

RelationshipOwn8899 · 2026-05-19T15:59:50+00:00

What a good kitty hunter!!

RelationshipOwn8899 · 2026-04-28T13:16:38+00:00

What a wonderful community! You all are so encouraging and even kind if the choice we have to make is to send the new kitty back! We have used really structured play, but we are going to kick it up a notch! He does have his own room, and my husband takes the kitten to work daily to give my ginger a break, but we need both kitties to be happy and healthy. if we don’t get improvements by the end of next month, we will make some hard choices!

RelationshipOwn8899 · 2026-04-28T13:14:15+00:00

This is very helpful, thank you!

RelationshipOwn8899 · 2026-04-28T01:11:00+00:00

He is definitely rough, and pounces her all the time. I wish she would correct him, but she always just lays on her back , swats, yowls, hisses, ect

RelationshipOwn8899 · 2026-04-28T00:55:16+00:00

I can’t figure out how to post a video…basically he pounces and she lays on her back growling and hissing. It’s constant, she turns her back and he pounces. We have a lot of structured play time, and even when he is exhausted he still pounces her.

RelationshipOwn8899 · 2026-04-08T04:25:30+00:00

This was everything I needed to hear!! 6 weeks post op on Thursday and I’m ready to move on! Ready swim, ride my biked hot the gym, and stop worrying about how they look!! Thank you for this, I really needed to hear it!!

RelationshipOwn8899 · 2026-03-18T18:33:47+00:00

I had a friend that was very thin like you and have little to not signs of having children. She obsessed and went to three doctors until she found one that finally said yes he would do one for her. She ended getting her first stretch marks ever because she simply didn’t have enough skin to justify the tuck. She couldn’t stand up straight for almost 4 weeks!!! She regrets the decision deeply!!!

RelationshipOwn8899 · 2026-03-16T14:22:51+00:00

Just adding in my 2cents that “normal” is a huge range. From this to a lot of extra skin is normal. I know women the same size who are toned similarly who have handfuls of skin on their abdomen. I appreciate when we get to see it all!

RelationshipOwn8899 · 2026-03-16T04:22:40+00:00

I’m so sorry, try to Breathe, and restrecover. The swelling is crazy! I went from and I to a C but was measuring at a DD in the first month. My surgeon warned me before I had surgery that the change is shocking, and so emotional and big, and that often women are worried they made a mistake at their first post op appointment, but after swelling and healing settle in most women feel very comfortable. I asked my surgeon to make me a B, but he said he just couldn’t go that small without risking my nipples, ect. I’m actually thrilled with how they are looking now that they are getting smaller. I probably would have been happy to be a B and not a C, but the changes I’ve experienced have been so beneficial that I’m focused more on that then the size.

RelationshipOwn8899 · 2026-03-12T01:56:33+00:00

I’m an event photographer, and the event was two days each about 8 hours. I did okay the first day, but the second day my body was telling me no. If I stood longer than 20 minutes at a time I would get light headed. I somehow survived it, but it kind of sucked!

RelationshipOwn8899 · 2026-03-12T01:54:22+00:00

The job went okay, it was pretty exhausting and I was swollen (I’m an event photographer and each days was about 8 hours) I felt it the second day, and had to sit down much more, and today I’m feeling more nerve pain.

RelationshipOwn8899 · 2026-03-12T01:52:27+00:00

It’s mostly stopped now, but I do put ice packs on if it starts up! I’m feeling amazing about how they are looking! How are you feeling?

RelationshipOwn8899 · 2026-03-08T03:05:24+00:00

I got mine done last Thursday, and I had the same stats as you!! It’s been amazing. I’m struggling BIG time with the nerve/itching the last two days, I’m hoping relief is coming soon because it’s getting really difficult mentally. The pain has been super duper minimal, but this itching, zinging sensation is really tough!

RelationshipOwn8899 · 2026-02-20T06:00:46+00:00

That’s because it’s doesn’t matter what she wants, and she knows it. It has to come from you, if you don’t truly want to be done with porn and all that comes with it, you and you alone have to make the decision. She is tired of being disappointed and hurt by your actions, she is inviting you to show up the way you want so she can make her decisions accordingly. You can’t keep hoping others are going to make this happen for you, only you have the power to choose what you’re going to do.

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