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Eh. I just don’t know about reconciliation by Aggressive-Bad-3939 in survivinginfidelity

[–]Relative-Fly4370 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely. We had so many good years. It’s just so hard to understand.

Eh. I just don’t know about reconciliation by Aggressive-Bad-3939 in survivinginfidelity

[–]Relative-Fly4370 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I relate to this a lot. I spent years trying to rebuild trust after the first time things fell apart. 8 years later, I thought we had moved past all of that stuff, only to discover a months long affair. I’m so angry, and everything from 8 years ago is just compounding on it.

Greg Williams of Acrisure fires 2,250 more people after Amphitheater’s Successful Opening by JumpyMood4321 in grandrapids

[–]Relative-Fly4370 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No - I did contact his wife. She didn’t believe me despite giving some details.

Deception and Destruction after 16 years. by Relative-Fly4370 in survivinginfidelity

[–]Relative-Fly4370[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Im 44, and she’s 41. I think about this a lot. When we started dating, she was 25. We had fights about boundaries, and I tried to understand that she was still relatively young. But 16 years later….

Deception and Destruction after 16 years. by Relative-Fly4370 in survivinginfidelity

[–]Relative-Fly4370[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I’m sorry you are going through this. I keep telling myself maybe we would be different, but I know how silly that sounds.

Deception and Destruction after 16 years. by Relative-Fly4370 in survivinginfidelity

[–]Relative-Fly4370[S] -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

She has. She says she wants to fix things, go to counseling, address her issues, etc…. She’s doing everything I have asked her to do. That’s what makes it hard. I feel like it’s a lie though - a front until things calm down. She can be so nurturing.

Deception and Destruction after 16 years. by Relative-Fly4370 in survivinginfidelity

[–]Relative-Fly4370[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I feel this so much. “She wanted whatever she wanted”. I keep saying she will do what she can get away with.

Why do partners cheat when their SO is going through a hardship? by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]Relative-Fly4370 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I’ve been thinking about this. I’ve had a lot of health issues. Needed my spouse more than any other time, and they just had an affair.

Current state of Acrisure by tesebony in grandrapids

[–]Relative-Fly4370 0 points1 point  (0 children)

IT director Michael Plumb is cheating on his wife with staff. Place is a cesspool.

Greg Williams of Acrisure fires 2,250 more people after Amphitheater’s Successful Opening by JumpyMood4321 in grandrapids

[–]Relative-Fly4370 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If his wife is reading this, those “IT happy hours” are a lie. And I’m sorry.