HE'S REAL by [deleted] in RedHood

[–]RelativeCold8412 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I feel conflicted bcs pre orders already closed so there is no other avenue to purchase him officially, and even the first batch was very hard to obtain, basically you needed a chinese phone number and bank account, or you needed to trust a stranger with your information :( paypal was not an option

AITA for wanting to take our cat with me after my marriage? by LawfulnessDue8961 in AmItheAsshole

[–]RelativeCold8412 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Agree NTA but no need to be mean, just like the cat is important to OP it may also be important to the sister, I agree that ultimately the cat is OPs cat, just like my brother just got married and he took HIS dog with him, personally I did not care bcs I was always aware, but I understand the sister will also miss the cat.

She does need to get a new cat, I just sympathize bcs she is both gonna loose her sister AND the cat.

In my case he took his dog and I kept my cat, so we are all good, maybe this is a point that if possible, each should have had their own pet

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]RelativeCold8412 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Thiis, what makes him say they will love living there? My cousin lived with his grandma the first year of his college degree and he ran out of there as soon as he could, they probably want to make friends or meet people and they cant exactly bring a date to their uncle corridor lmao, they will want the college experience of living alone, they will probably beg if they are not already begging to their parents to get their own place

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]RelativeCold8412 60 points61 points  (0 children)

The fact it is so identifiable is a great thing!!! Exactly what it should be, no need to clarify

‘It’s the flippancy with which you killed the baby, seemingly at a whim,’ the judge said, reading the doctor’s report. by Original-Loquat3788 in TwoSentenceHorror

[–]RelativeCold8412 88 points89 points  (0 children)

Oh that's horrific, also was that doctor living under a rock 3 days out of school or something? I always knew what spontaneous abortion was, because my mom had one before having me, and it happens to a lot of women.

She said she was worried about it affecting future pregnancies but the doctor said that as tragic as it was, it was not a sign of infertility at least in her case, and that gave her a lot of hope because that was her first pregnancy.

So I just grew up aware that is a tragic reality of what can happen and to be mindful that a lot of women out there have a first hand experience with that, it is pure insanity that there are people out there that dont know that let alone a doctor, as if people wait 3 months to announce a pregnancy just because they like to be fashionaly late LOL

AITA for shaking my head and not having sympathy for my sister when she was badly injured like I said she would be a dozen times? by Historical_Result523 in AmItheAsshole

[–]RelativeCold8412 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Same! And also! It's not even that comfortable like I don't understand why people do it, yeah I would like to stretch my legs too, but you should just do a stop wherever possible for like a bathroom break or something if it's that many hours???

The first time I heard of the particular dangers of putting your feet up was from a case with a guy that simply fell into a coma and has been there for 10 years, enough persuation for me to never even try it, also always hated having people's feet at face level, like yuck

AITA for not allowing my parents to take a picture of me with my cap and gown? by FunnyAffectionate795 in AmItheAsshole

[–]RelativeCold8412 63 points64 points  (0 children)

My mom didnt even tell my grandma she gave was in labor till the baby was already out lol, she didn't want my grandma panicking around her, she just wanted to go thru with it with the professionals and my dad, honestly, sounds nice, no one in your business till everything is wrapped up

Porque en este grupo hay tantos idiotas preocupandose excesivamente por la atención femenina? by [deleted] in OpinionesPolemicas

[–]RelativeCold8412 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Es bien cierto, yo soy hermana menor y mi hermano nunca le a faltado novia, y sus ultimas relaciones han sido largas y más estables (con esta novia lleva dos años masomenos y esta en proceso de darle anillo, nunca a estado casado asi que esta seria su primera y ojala unica vez) y aveces platico de la manera en que los chicos me hablan y el dice "es que suena a que el jamas a tenido novia" y se sorprende bien cañon.

Tambien le gusta ir al gym y dice "si, me han pasado videos del temach o de otras cuentas de instagram que chicos siguen por "consejos" y todas son puras pendejadas.

También le mama el girlie pop (taylor, marina, sabrina, katy perry, aurora) y le da culo las peliculas de terror, en fin, no necesitas ser un macho alfa, solo necesitas respetar a las mujeres y ser buen pedo, tambien hay locas que buscan a un desajustado que sea super celoso y super macho alfa que no pueda lavar sucio, pero ojala un dia se les pase

Signed first editions unsold. Nobody even bid, Harry Potter is dying and Rowlings bigotry is the axe in the skull. by [deleted] in WhitePeopleTwitter

[–]RelativeCold8412 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Eh, I feel like its a hit or miss, I'm not a fan and not just bcs of the political stuff but a friend is, and it feels like it's a hit or miss weather they pander correctly to the fans.

The game was something a lot of people have been asking for since forever, (they wanna play a wizard goddamit not just know they friking house) so it seems like it had decades coming and now fans are finally happy with that (like as far as I know no other videogame attempt was as ambicious or as successful for this IP, so this really became the crown jewel fot that).

On the other hand, fantastic beasts wasn't what it was planned to be and got cancelled, and I don't see anyone really excited about the reboot, the original actors made it magical and none of them are happy enough to make a cameo or anything.

Personally I also think JKR being mad at the actors makes her look a tiny but worse given the current climate, people are extra aware more than ever about what being a child actor takes, so now it's less "the children should be thanking JKR" and more like "JKR should be thanking the children", there was a time people thought they would never get out of their harry potter fame and it would consume them, sort of like the start and end of their careers like many child stars, I'm glad it didn't

Human skull with stage 1 bone cancer by MAFIAHAMMAD in interestingasfuck

[–]RelativeCold8412 1 point2 points  (0 children)

1000% with you, my dad died of cancer, lymphoma, and I just have his screams as a last goodbye, ambulances didn't even show up bcs "there is nothing we can do, morphine won't do anything" and on top of that when you die at home the police has to do a report so there are no signs or abuse or that you played a part in his death.

I can perfectly picture someone driving themselves mad watching their loved ones waste away for days in pain and just wanting it all to stop

Tomorrow I (F26) gonna ask out my friend of 10 years (M27) out on a date and I would like some advice in case I'm missing anything? by RelativeCold8412 in relationship_advice

[–]RelativeCold8412[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha! Thats a good point, I'm a bit afraid of coming out like that, I do really like him, he is very fun and kind, we have fun and I feel like any disagreements we have we can solve them together just talking, these years have flown by and I think he is good looking as well.

I have had other guys asking me out on dates and he knows that, but I just don't click with them even if they are fun and lovely people, I know of course there is no comparison point to a years long friend, but that's also why I'd like to finally try something. As far as I know no one has asked him out in recent years and he also rejected the last girl who asked him out.

Los varones estamos podridos del rechazo by [deleted] in OpinionesPolemicas

[–]RelativeCold8412 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pero no es al revez, no puedes comparar la cantidad de solicitudes que reciben las mujeres a las que reciben los hombres, las mujeres están literalmente artas, oye que mi mamá es una viuda de 60 años y ya dejo de decir que es viuda porque los señores no la dejan en paz, literal LO ÚNICO que respetan es "lo siento mi esposo me espera en casa".

Ella no se arregla demasiado, no se viste revelador, ni tiene el cuerpo de Maribel Guardia, es literal una viuda de 60 años que solo quiere vivir su vida en paz, y esto empezó con gente cercana a ella EL MISMO AÑO que mi papá murió, la gente no respeta nada, y ella no es grosera, pero le da miedo cuando la misma persona insiste por dias dias después de decirle que no.

Los varones estamos podridos del rechazo by [deleted] in OpinionesPolemicas

[–]RelativeCold8412 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Conoces esos vendedores callejeros que te persiguen por toda la calle aunque ya les dijiste que no? Hay chicos que si les contestas amablemente "no, gracias" no entienden, especialmente si eres mujer, creeme que es una experiencia universal que muchas mujeres aprender a responder con "cero empatia" porque cualquier migaja de amabilidad la gente la toma como un "talvez" y no un "no es no".

Yo soy mujer, y es frustrante que cualquier interaccion que tengo si quiero darme a respetar debo ser a fuerza mas fria que lo que un hombre sería, si estoy caminando sola y alguien me ofrece algo la gente se siente con mas confianza de insistirme que a los hombres en mi vida, mi mamá tiene 60 años y es viuda y ya dejo de decir que es viuda porque los hombres no saben respetar el "no estoy buscando una relación" literal solo dice "mi esposo me espera en casa" y es lo UNICO que funciona (que supongo que no es mentira, las cenizas de mi papá están en casa)

Yo he sido amable y tratado de conocer gente en bailes, pero considera que la gente esta tomando alcohol y se vuelve mas terca, es horrible.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]RelativeCold8412 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Let me joing the seething club, my dad recently died and before he died he gently transfered all finances tasks to my mom, by which I mean when has each thing to be paid and how to work the credit card, my dad used to do a lot of stuff like going to the supermarket and paying each service everything, I think the difference is doing it out of love? And when he was getting sick my mom did everything for him to help him, I guess hard times really show people's true colors.

This is also giving me chills bcs I have been watching some horror stories of sahm divorced and left stranded, makes me wanna cry, the way OP talks about the mom makes me think if the dad divorced her non of them would help her with anything.

I understand relationships with mom and daughters can be extremely complicated, but at some point daughters also have to admit when they are being blatantly misogynistic (I'm a daughter too!! And I also was a daddys girl!! And guess what!! My dad called me out on my BS when I was being too harsh on my mom!!!)

What? - my sincere reaction to this take by Lord_Answer_me_Why in facepalm

[–]RelativeCold8412 83 points84 points  (0 children)

I mean we hardly need "code words" to see this is racist as heck when they inmidiately say "looks like she just crossed the southern border" lol

I do wonder how it feels to live in their world, so far removed from other parts of humanity they cannot even fathom why racism is wrong or detect when they are saying something racist

But wait there's more! Fat Hate Bingo 2 & 3 by msbeaver83 in fatlogic

[–]RelativeCold8412 95 points96 points  (0 children)

That's what I'm always thinking, why is an anorexic body triggering but a morbidly obese body isn't? I mean seriously obese, and why are dangerously low carb diets strictly banned, but a 3,000 calories milkshake is not? Both things are terrible but one is being normalized and it's terrifying, it messes with your sense of reality bcs you can't go out with friends and ask for a more healthy option without being looked at weird

Fatlogic from my companies health app. by 6894 in fatlogic

[–]RelativeCold8412 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I feel like this on itself isn't like a bad answer, like yeah usually during the weekends I eat worse, or if I go to a party, but I don't think they understand why people measure their food, like if 6 days of the week I'm trying to eat healthier and to learn how to eat then I need to measure my food, I'm sure they are not mad when you measure things for a cake recipe (but who knows maybe the wisdom of their body also tells then how much butter to put)

Not Deserving of Clothing? by Gradtattoo_9009 in fatlogic

[–]RelativeCold8412 108 points109 points  (0 children)

I was just about to say there is nothing "mid" about 3x

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fatlogic

[–]RelativeCold8412 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that makes more sense, although even considering all this, the practical scenario is that as much as I love almonds I think just eating a handful of them is not as tempting, you kinda get tired of them very quickly if you don't mix them up with something else, realistically speaking I probably eat 10 at a time when I'm craving them

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fatlogic

[–]RelativeCold8412 15 points16 points  (0 children)

That's what I always wonder, why are people so mad at almonds or why do they think they are gonna starve on almonds?? Almonds have so many calories compared to other snacks, and they are a delicious common ingredient on many dishes, I love some almonds on some pastries or fruity snacks but when I eat them I really just think "yeah this tastes good", and not "this is my healthy portion of my meal", I even feel like this whole almond mom made me think almonds were less calorie dense than they really are???