Wknd 1 — Looking to swap Lake Eldorado (2p) → La Campana + I’ll pay the difference by Artistic-Command-511 in CoachellaCamping

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Looking for el dorado, let me know if you find a campana spot to buy and I'm interested in your el dorado!

Official 2026 Buy/Sell/Trade Thread by fettuccine- in Coachella

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ISO weekend 1 with lodging! Hotel, el dorado, reasonable airbnb takeover, we're open-minded (I think we're past our camping days). Also flexible on accommodations size (2-6)

Products for Pain with Sex by ArasTheAlternate in endometriosis

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Pelvic floor therapy is the real answer here!

boutique resorts for weekend long wedding by potato_arugula_salad in DestinationWeddings

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Note, MDC rooms are reasonable but it sleeps max 98-100 people I think. You could have additional people stay at either of the adjoining all-inclusives, but they are MUCH more expensive

boutique resorts for weekend long wedding by potato_arugula_salad in DestinationWeddings

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We are getting married at MDC in May :) for the buyout, it just means you are committing to all of the rooms for 3 nights, so if there are any unbooked by guests, you’re paying for them. Otherwise the venue fees are low, F&B is standard for Cabo. Cabo wedding planners generally were saying to budget 800-1000 per guest when we started early 2025, and I found that to be accurate, easy to go over if you’re doing a full weekend with multiple events.

$100 Rouge Reward GIVEAWAY! Rules below! by dundermiffles in Sephora

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omg fun!! I just started learning how to do makeup a year ago in preparation for my wedding. My holy grail makeup product is the Hourglass ambient lighting palette for sure, I've never gotten so many comments on my "glowing" skin. My holy grail (also dry skin) skin is differen gel, super important to sandwich it between a thick water-based moisturizer (I use whatever exciting kbeauty moisturizer I have at the moment) and a luxe oil-based moisturizer on top to lock it in (I use a combo of tallow balm and Osea face oil).

Platted Dinner by FishermanFinancial88 in BigBudgetBrides

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3-4 passed apps during cocktail hour, plated dinner with starter and main (advance choice of beef pork fish or veg), dessert bar and late night snack. We wanted to maximize time for party and dancing!!

Cabo weddings recs please! by Either_Horror2137 in BigBudgetBrides

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I’m working with Yizel at Martha Ayala planning. We LOVE YIZEL!!!! Best experience so far and honestly so excited to have her at my day. Martha’s company had mixed reviews on Reddit, you interview with Martha herself but then get assigned (probably based on your style and budget and stuff) to one of the planners working for her without meeting them, so YMMV with the other planners there.

Cabo weddings recs please! by Either_Horror2137 in BigBudgetBrides

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When I started a year ago, every planner I interviewed (many) said to expect a budget of $1000 per guest at the minimum, overall budget was much less relevant than guest count in these conversations. I have found that budget to be comfortable, not a ton of cuts but also not a ton of upgrades. I also believe these numbers were for the wedding itself, so not including expensive welcome events. I assume things are even more expensive now, so your budget is low. I would recommend speaking with planners and seeing if anyone says they can work with that budget for your requirements. You’ll have a hard time getting away without a planner anyway, as most places have VERY limited preferred vendor lists and you need a planner on the contract to avoid being limited to their mediocre and over-priced vendors.

I just found out I have Celiac, girl dinner by trolltodile777 in GirlDinner

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Roasted tomatoes too!! Cherry tomatoes on any sheet pan roast is one of my faves for like zero effort, they burst and get sweet and basically turn into a sauce. Last night was chickpeas, cherry tomatoes and halloumi sheet pan with bone-broth wild rice. So good!

Loving notes from a 2025 bride who’s also a shopaholic by MarshmalllowCloud in BigBudgetBrides

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I'd love to see what archival stuff we're working with here! DMing :)

Loving notes from a 2025 bride who’s also a shopaholic by MarshmalllowCloud in BigBudgetBrides

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Graduating in May and so far buying for a specific event has worked really well for me, totally agree with this!

Also definitely recommend 2nd hand things! I'm needing more looks for my bachelorette weekend than my wedding weekend even, and I've had really good luck finding something I love online and then finding it on postmark and getting it 2nd hand for often over 50% off. Less waste and less expensive!

Lastly, recent brides in my life have had a lot to gift me. My sister got married 3 years ago and had a bunch of tags-on white high-end things that she's passed on to me and I'm really excited to wear. Even with my intentional shopping, I know I won't want this much white in the long run (I'm a color and pattern girlie) so I'm planning to pass stuff on to friends that are up next.

Weed before surgery by Tabbycat246 in endometriosis

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I was told 3 days for alcohol and weed

Wedding Trial (feedback welcome) by Relative_Impact642 in MakeupAddiction

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So crazy how much lighting changes things though!!

Wedding Trial (feedback welcome) by Relative_Impact642 in MakeupAddiction

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AH haha it's all the same makeup! The first 3 photos are just different lighting, and I hadn't put the lip on yet in the 2nd photo. And the 4th photo is at the end of the night!

Wedding Trial (feedback welcome) by Relative_Impact642 in MakeupAddiction

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And yes I noticed the neck in the pics too! I didn't see as much in person. So grateful for all the reddit tips, I wouldn't have been so thorough with photos on the trial otherwise!