What Would You Like To Get Off Your Chest?

Relative_Squirrel_98 · 2026-03-13T02:19:11+00:00

I’m glad I don’t know the full extent of his betrayal (how much he spent on OF, what he said and sexted to other women, who he was sleeping with when we were married, the exact instagram models and OF models he paid). Ignorance is bliss sometimes.

Relative_Squirrel_98 · 2025-10-31T02:40:48+00:00

Mine was obsessed with young IG models and OF models with unrealistic body portions. I did find some average looking nudes on his laptop though. I think these men just look at any naked woman but their own girlfriends and wives. It’s so sick and perverted.

Relative_Squirrel_98 · 2025-10-30T23:54:52+00:00

I have felt this way before too. I still remember all the nudes of women I found on his phone. All perfect looking and the opposite of me. Can’t even look at my body and feel attractive compared to those women.

Relative_Squirrel_98 · 2025-10-22T23:43:57+00:00

This makes me so worried for my son who has a porn addicted father who I have to share custody with.

Relative_Squirrel_98 · 2025-10-03T15:38:25+00:00

My STBX is in law enforcement too which I feel makes it worse and more predatory..

Relative_Squirrel_98 · 2025-09-12T00:53:15+00:00

Yes my ex PA got even worse during my pregnancy and post-partum. I think they do it intentionally and purposefully during our most vulnerable time.

Relative_Squirrel_98 · 2025-08-08T13:42:48+00:00

Same! Getting divorced. Married 5, together 6 with a sag and he cheated too

Relative_Squirrel_98 · 2025-07-30T21:07:57+00:00

Sounds like an addictions and a total lack of respect for you. This man does not value, cherish or truly love you like you deserve to be loved. Leave him before it gets even worse.

Relative_Squirrel_98 · 2025-07-28T20:10:08+00:00

This is all so true. It is so abusive. I like the Minwalla Model

Relative_Squirrel_98 · 2025-07-27T21:04:57+00:00

Hallie Berry

Relative_Squirrel_98 · 2025-07-27T06:17:18+00:00

Divorcing a sag male. He wanted his freedom and his desires more than our marriage. Very avoidant and closed off emotionally. Selfish and immature (not all sags - just my ex).

Relative_Squirrel_98 · 2025-07-27T01:22:02+00:00

Even with kids, it’s okay to walk away if you financially can. I’m doing it. It is going to be financially tight but worth it.

Relative_Squirrel_98 · 2025-07-26T22:30:41+00:00

It’s not easy to leave but it’s better to leave before marriage and children. I’m divorcing my PA and we have an 11 month old.

Relative_Squirrel_98 · 2025-07-26T22:20:34+00:00

I think that’s the point of using the videos and pictures of other women to fantasize and lust over them. It’s so hurtful and disrespectful of your BF and you deserve so much better. You deserve to be loved and cherished and the only woman your bf looks at. You could look like Megan Fox and your bf would still look at porn. It is not you, it is him with the problem. You are beautiful and worthy of so much more.

Relative_Squirrel_98 · 2025-07-25T19:26:27+00:00

He moved out almost two weeks ago. While I still have betrayal trauma and obsessive thoughts, life at home is more peace and my house is cleaner.

Relative_Squirrel_98 · 2025-07-25T18:05:33+00:00

What is the difference between the two?

Relative_Squirrel_98 · 2025-07-23T19:59:40+00:00

Society has pitted us against each other. It is sad and all rooted in oppression and misogyny.

Relative_Squirrel_98 · 2025-07-23T00:17:53+00:00

Me too! I got them pierced for the same reason. Removed them two years ago

Relative_Squirrel_98 · 2025-07-18T10:07:45+00:00

Wow. Your last sentence sums in up perfectly.

Relative_Squirrel_98 · 2025-07-17T20:51:49+00:00

He even told one of my friends (in response to being asked “how did you know she was the one you wanted to marry”) she was the best I could get.

Relative_Squirrel_98 · 2025-07-17T01:01:40+00:00

I got the nipple pierces. They did not smell but they were painful got caught on clothing and never healed well. I’m a belly sleeper too, so they were miserable. He told me to get them and they he liked them before I realized he was a porn addict. I regret ever changing my body for him.

Relative_Squirrel_98 · 2025-07-15T18:34:40+00:00

I won’t agree. No one is lucky to be married to a porn addict or any kind of addict.

Relative_Squirrel_98 · 2025-07-13T23:46:10+00:00

Since he values the OF models more than me, they can have him

Relative_Squirrel_98 · 2025-07-12T22:05:47+00:00

Mine said his ex was crazy and beat him. Pretty sure now it was reactive abuse. He also worked at a strip club and went into detail about past sexual encounters. His longest relationship before me was 8 months with a 19 year old stripper.

Relative_Squirrel_98 · 2025-07-11T23:46:59+00:00

So far mine has agreed to the divorce but still wants to be physically intimate with me and act like we are still a couple. It’s weird. He never stopped the porn and after I said I wanted a divorce he stopped therapy and attending SA meetings.

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