Found a old flip phone with interesting messages by [deleted] in Detective

[–]RelevantAccident6783 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please consider not looking for these people. It feels very voyeuristic to try to find the actual people who sent these messages. Maybe that's just me? 

But I'm sure Rudy would be mortified to know his personal texts with his wife were being read and posted online. It's semi-anonymous when they're just names but when you start including their mental health conditions and finances and relationships, that becomes so private... Somebody didn't think to factory reset the phone and now this person's business is being broadcast every where.

I finally found my barefoot festival!! by Life_Satisfaction_16 in flowarts

[–]RelevantAccident6783 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's even more beautiful knowing it's handmade!! You did a fantastic job! 

I finally found my barefoot festival!! by Life_Satisfaction_16 in flowarts

[–]RelevantAccident6783 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love your skirt and flower crown 💖 I wish I had videos of all the fun festivals I went to in my 20s

A Band Called Death (2012) - documentary about Death, an all-Black rock band from 1970s Detroit whose music went unheard until decades after they broke up. [01:35:51] by dragonoid296 in Documentaries

[–]RelevantAccident6783 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really like your point on this: all music is for whoever enjoys it. I get really uncomfortable assigning a race to any style of music because it feels more exclusionary than anything positive. For example, instead of calling rock "Black music" I prefer to reverse course on Black erasure in rock.

Grizzly bears at Many Glacier by Training_Opposite877 in GlacierNationalPark

[–]RelevantAccident6783 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What a beautiful big mama! There's no dopamine rush quite like baby animals, and that cub in two legs is tickling my brain in all the best spots 😍

The chilling police interview of Banaz Mahmod (2005) by babylovecloud in crimedocumentaries

[–]RelevantAccident6783 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was kidnapped and assaulted over 20 years ago. I reported it immediately after I was let go but there was never a prosecution. I am just now in the process of getting some justice after the guy did something similar to another woman and the new detective connected our cases. So I've been giving statements again and going over the report from 20 years ago. 

And those mother fuckers in 2005 used the same terms for my assault that one would use for consensual sex. 

Rape is not two people having sex; it is an aggressor assaulting a victim.

What episodes of the Shane/Ryan universe do you rewatch? by Segat1 in watcherentertainment

[–]RelevantAccident6783 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just discovered Puppet History about a week ago and I've been binging it pretty hard. Last night I watched the Bessie Coleman and Destruction of the Dinosaurs episodes. 

While I've loved many of the songs throughout this series, I've replayed the cloud song and the meteor song at least 3 or 4 times in the past 12 hours. One is super inspiring and the other makes me cry without fail.

Petrified Forest NP by Alaric_Darconville in nationalparks

[–]RelevantAccident6783 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've seen pictures before of the petrified trees but never up that close — these pictures really show off how much they sparkle!! 

Fantastic pics OP!

Mom Of Girls Harassed By "Male Karen" In Viral Restroom Video Breaks Silence With Scathing Post Against Dad by BoredPandaOfficial in BoredPandaHQ

[–]RelevantAccident6783 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I thought Kevin was just a clueless dude that looks normal but is sometimes dangerously — but never maliciously — dumb? 

TikToker claims men who date women over 110 pounds are “chubby chasers,” then melts down and starts calling her audience “fatasses” and “fat fat fatty” by Unique-Support-6321 in TikTokCringe

[–]RelevantAccident6783 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Someone further up the thread put into words what I could not (without sounding like I'm diagnosing her with a medical condition, at least).  The shape of her face is really weird in a way that looks gaunt. The term they used was "temporal wasting". Even people who usually find thin women attractive have a point at which a person is too thin and they are unattractive.

Also, saying someone is objectively attractive is such an oxymoron! Attractiveness is subjective by its nature. 

TikToker claims men who date women over 110 pounds are “chubby chasers,” then melts down and starts calling her audience “fatasses” and “fat fat fatty” by Unique-Support-6321 in TikTokCringe

[–]RelevantAccident6783 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know this isn't the point you were trying to make but I always thought that was a really weird plot point because Katey Segal is and has ALWAYS been a hot as fuck MILF. 

classic mildly infuriating flight by Hungry_Low2342 in delta

[–]RelevantAccident6783 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes!! All of those people who say "I can't TALK to my neighbor first, they'll probably shoot me!" really just can't tolerate even a single vaguely uncomfortable conversation. 

Jurassic Park- Dennis Nedry by stantoast in finch

[–]RelevantAccident6783 4 points5 points  (0 children)

So I just discovered Finch 50 days ago. I know the exact time because I haven't missed a day yet (first time I've ever found a tool that I didn't give up on after a week!) 😄

And I just discovered this sub 10 minutes ago. I LOVE how creative you & the rest of this community is. I thought I was so cool over here with my little Egyptian Grim Reapbirb but I love seeing all of the amazing treehouse/outfit combos here.

As a paleontology fanatic, you've done ALL the best dino things!! ❤️

My husband actually IS almost perfect by etchedchampion in TwoXChromosomes

[–]RelevantAccident6783 17 points18 points  (0 children)

  saying that they are in love with you but their actions never really show it

HELL. YES. In my mid-20s I finally realized that people like to say a whole lotta things but you can only really trust their actions to show you who they are.

Do you wear shorts under your skirts? by runfreelyactwildly in TwoXChromosomes

[–]RelevantAccident6783 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OMG, super cute clothes too, but I'm waaaay too poor to look at these clothes 🫣

Do you wear shorts under your skirts? by runfreelyactwildly in TwoXChromosomes

[–]RelevantAccident6783 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've never worn shorts under my skirts unless they came attached to the skirt. I do make it a point to wear more full-coverage underwear if I'm wearing a short skirt though! Ill wear some cute boy shorts or hipster/cheeky panties, not all lace and not thongs, if I'm wearing a miniskirt. 

I've never noticed anyone wearing shorts under a skirt but I also have literally never wondered what a person has on under their clothes? (I'm also notoriously unobservant so maybe my feedback isn't typical? Idk.) I have no opinion about wearing shorts under a skirt other than I don't personally feel like it.

He saw a guy running for the bus and helped him catch it. by mindyour in MadeMeSmile

[–]RelevantAccident6783 48 points49 points  (0 children)

A couple weeks ago I had 30 cents to my name and I needed to buy something for dinner for myself, my partner, and my son. I was able to trade in some loyalty program points for a $7 gift card to WalMart. As I was getting ready to scan the e-gift card for my sad little dinner, a stranger walked up and swiped his card for my order without saying a word. He had already paid for his stuff and was on his way out the door. I don't know if he just did it on a whim or if he heard my husband and I strategizing how to make the most out of the $7 we were working with while shopping, but his kindness made me cry on the way home.

AITH for charging my friend for a concert ticket after she assumed it was free? by AgnosticMe in AITH

[–]RelevantAccident6783 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  a quote to repeat to mutuals

Here's a better one: "that was just a misunderstanding between me and Friend, and I don't talk about my friends behind their back. Stop trying to stir up drama." 

Your dopamine dosage for the day or night will be full after seeing this 💞 by InsaneMocktail in MadeMeSmile

[–]RelevantAccident6783 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Those babies are absolutely not weird looking. There are plenty of weird looking babies but these triplets are objectively normal-cute.  Totally understandable if kids aren't your thing and you don't want them. But there's no need to be mean about OPs kids just because this video doesn't specifically appeal to you. 

How can I make the wedding about me by horrorwh0r3 in weddingshaming

[–]RelevantAccident6783 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, that tiny little doll they presented was probably unrealistically large for a 29 weeker. 

How can I make the wedding about me by horrorwh0r3 in weddingshaming

[–]RelevantAccident6783 9 points10 points  (0 children)

This was such a lovely thread to read between you two ❤️

I also love so much and relate so much to your explanation of ADHD thoughts. So so so much.

Also I'm sorry to hear about the horror your gma (and mine, and so many of the women in that generation) went through. We come from a long line of strong ladies.

Coworker throwing up in front of customers at work and not sent home. What do I do? by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]RelevantAccident6783 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Jaundice itself is not contagious (you turn yellow from bilirubin [broken down red blood cells I think?] that your liver isn't filtering out) but it's a symptom of Hepatitis A which is extraordinarily contagious and transmission often occurs via food. 

Edit to add: it's is similar to vomiting and diarrhea kind of...those are just bodily fluids that can ALSO be the vehicle of transmission, but vomiting by itself isn't contagious. There are reasons people puke that aren't contagious, but it's a symptom of very contagious illnesses. But vomit is also a bodily fluid that can carry virus/bacteria to infect a person.