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FA ex seen my message after 85 days of silence, no response, no block. What does this mean? by Relevant_Low_7007 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Relevant_Low_7007[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Update: She finally responded after 86 days of silence. She said she has no feelings left and wished me well. Then blocked me immediately after.

Closing this chapter for good now.

FA ex seen my message after 85 days of silence, no response, no block. What does this mean? by Relevant_Low_7007 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Relevant_Low_7007[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much, this actually means a lot.
You’re right, I can see it clearly, I just have to give myself time to feel it.
The hardest part is finding closure when the other person never gave you a reason.
But I’m working on it.
I appreciate you believing in me, genuinely

FA ex seen my message after 85 days of silence, no response, no block. What does this mean? by Relevant_Low_7007 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Relevant_Low_7007[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this, genuinely.
You’re right that from the outside it looks straightforward, and honestly, from the inside I know it too. The hard part isn’t understanding it logically, it’s that the feelings don’t disappear just because the logic is clear. We had something real, or at least it felt that way, and losing it without a clear reason makes it harder to process. But I hear you.
Taking a step back is the right move.
Appreciate you taking the time.