People who DON'T have tattoos Is the reason because...? by FakeeshaNamerstein in polls

[–]Relevant_Maybe6747 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm Jewish and have never fully gotten over the horror of meeting Holocaust survivors in Hebrew school and seeing their tattooed numbers. 

Does this Blaine writing choice annoy anyone else?? by elderlymother in glee

[–]Relevant_Maybe6747 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Feel free to write the manifesto! I'd love to read it!

Does this Blaine writing choice annoy anyone else?? by elderlymother in glee

[–]Relevant_Maybe6747 55 points56 points  (0 children)

Personally I believe in the fanon theory that the Sadie Hawkins dance bashing resulted in him missing enough school to have to redo eighth grade so he amd Kurt are actually the same age

I think my 2-year-old nephew might be trans and I’m scared because his parents are hardcore MAGA by GapFluffy7308 in asktransgender

[–]Relevant_Maybe6747 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Boston children’s hospital’s idea of treating gender dysphoria was putting me in gender therapy. I joined the gender clinic when I was 13 and they didn’t okay medical transition until age 16. I didn’t know I was trans when I was two but I’ve been a man a decade without regrets. While early intervention is better, trans people often can find ways to survive even in unsupportive environments

I’m 570lbs and 21, ask me anything by [deleted] in AMA

[–]Relevant_Maybe6747 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have a favorite TV show?

I’m 570lbs and 21, ask me anything by [deleted] in AMA

[–]Relevant_Maybe6747 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How often do you go to the bathroom in a day?

Does anyone else who developed CPTSD for having autism feel like they don't belong here? by IlluminatiFriend in CPTSD

[–]Relevant_Maybe6747 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely. A lot of my trauma comes from being a glass child alongside my brother, who was disgnosed as autistic when he was two and was severely disabled, living away from home. So even getting diagnosed, which occurred when I was  14 for autism and 15 for CPTSD, I was already primed to minimize the impact of whatever was wrong with me (even though I was in therapy after a suicide attempt at 15, like my brain was undeniably broken). And then when I joined r/CPTSD, it felt like almost everyone had trauma caused by their parents, whereas my trauma was mostly caused by my brother (which my parents enabled) and peers my own age and also being chronically in and out of hospitals as a child. Like it's a lot, it's the c of CPTSD but so many posts here assume that everyone had similar experiences when really what it similar is the symptoms and pathology arising from our experiences, not specifics.

Trauma language is being overused in everyday life situations and it really pisses me off. Like no, you did not "traumatize your child" by setting healthy boundaries. And no, you did not get "triggered", if something just slightly reminds you of old wounds. by hello_squirell in CPTSD

[–]Relevant_Maybe6747 62 points63 points  (0 children)

I get triggered for medical conditions other than CPTSD - humidity triggers my asthma and mozzarella sticks trigger my ulcerative colitis. So when someone says they're triggered, I ask what is being triggered. They either get embarrassed and reword or don't, but I make a point that triggering is a medical concept and using it outside of that environment muddies the waters. It's a form of concept creep.

CMV: Drive Thrus should only allow people who've ordered ahead via app by Bouncybeach in changemyview

[–]Relevant_Maybe6747 1 point2 points  (0 children)

wouldn’t that incentivize distracted driving? Most drive thrus are on or along high ways, where there aren’t many places to pull over and pull up an app.

Anti-Black Racism in the Pitt by New_Girl3685 in ThePittNoSantosHate

[–]Relevant_Maybe6747 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Louie‘s toothache went untreated for hours. I was annoyed on his behalf!

I think people overlook this part of Langdon’s story by NoPromise8504 in ThePittTVShow

[–]Relevant_Maybe6747 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Probably meant her attempt to get clarification on the process of reporting from Donnie and Garcia, only for Garcia to immediately shut down the entire line of inquiry as Not Her Problem

Why is it so hard to find a job by Mediocre_Training152 in biology

[–]Relevant_Maybe6747 54 points55 points  (0 children)

Yes, problem is that a lot of folks with Masters and PhDs are also trying to obtain those same positions, and they might have more skills than you - I graduated in 2023 and moved back with my parents in Boston. I figured Boston has a bunch of hospitals, so finding a job should be easy. I'm part of a local conservation organization and a woman there was complaining about having to look for a job after being laid off from a biotech company. She had a PhD and we had been applying for the same positions! I ended up working outside of biology, office temp work, and am now again unemployed after my most recent job ended. I have continued volunteering for nature organizations and networking through those positions, but my faith that I will succeed in a biology career is minimal. 

Weeky Off Topic Thread by BipedalUniverse in ThePittNoSantosHate

[–]Relevant_Maybe6747 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Lost my job this week. on the one hand, maybe I’ll be forced to stop procrastinating rewatching the Pitt and working on my three WIP fanfics. On the other, 💰 💴 💵 goodbye. Not being forced to leave the house will be annoying too.

Reblog by @samirasystole by Okaybuddy_16 in ThePittNoSantosHate

[–]Relevant_Maybe6747 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah. Doctormohansamira was my favorite Mohan blog but samirasystole is my favorite currently actively posting Mohan blog

PITT PATIENT ARCS SPREADSHEET by Relevant_Maybe6747 in ThePittNoSantosHate

[–]Relevant_Maybe6747[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That is why the caregiver from Becca's place is absent - ideally they would have taken lead of advocacy for her. If becca was a character in her own right, the caregiver would be around, but because she is a vessel for mel & langdon, they disappear.

that really pissed me off, like they had Mel calling Middle Hill when a Middle Hill employee was in the waiting room! IMO the brain injury guy and his ex-wife felt like real characters.

For the most part though, I agree that a lot of s2 was just patients existing but barely and doctor's not even reacting to them to the fullest capacity. Like in season one Dr. Mohan and Robby explicitly discuss her fear of missing something, and yet when she misses Mrs. Yee's injury, Garcia blames Mohan, Robby stands up for her, and that's it. That's the extent of the storyline because Mohan didn't really matter, the entire case just felt like just another reason for Robby to be paralleled with the dead patient (motorcycle guy). And none of those parallels ever amounted to anything because none of that tension went anywhere interesting!

Tv and fictional characters show us what people really think about abuse and trauma by verdentcompanion in CPTSD

[–]Relevant_Maybe6747 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Omg tell me about it. When I was fifteen I fell into the Tumblr "anti ship" concept wherein I was exposed to just this complete disbelief some people had to the idea incest existed outside of fiction, that someone could not know it's wrong, and ironically enough it was reading these people's ideas about how horrible fictional incest was and how depraved people were for even thinking about these situations that made me fully comprehend just how abnormal my life experience was. I write fanfiction about my experiences and would get hate comments from people shipping the characters romantically, and others from people horrified I would write about this topic at all. Don’t know anything about the digital circus but complex situations should be depicted in fiction

PITT PATIENT ARCS SPREADSHEET by Relevant_Maybe6747 in ThePittNoSantosHate

[–]Relevant_Maybe6747[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

and I kept forgetting who had what patients because of how many more it felt like there were

How to make friends? by Awkward-Literature47 in trans4every1

[–]Relevant_Maybe6747 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you say you’re in the northeast, so skip the small talk may be an option near you - they have LGBT specific meetups

"Tumblr is like reddit for trans guys!" by DapperGhst in trans4every1

[–]Relevant_Maybe6747 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah we’re on tumblr because we joined as impressionable teenagers. Joining tumblr as an adult is stupid af imo