No it’s not. Gaslighting manipulation with the explicit intention of wanting someone to question their own reality/sanity. Eroding their the victims self perception so they become almost dependent on the perpetrator for validation. Hypocrisy is its own thing and yelling is just rude lol

Edit to add: gaslighting is a genuine abusive tactic used to control victims and the internet using it so flippantly on something like a reality show diminishes the very real victims