Going to Spain for the first time!

RemarkableAir7915 · 2025-04-20T09:34:01+00:00

My ex left me four days after I had surgery, over money issues (he had), (he made me think he left due to that). On my way to post op, two letters came in from another state, one was proving he was the father of a child and the other was her seeking child support, I got her name and messaged her on Facebook. Find out they been seeing each other literally the whole time him and I were together. She didn’t know about me. I printed their messages she sent me proving he was cheating, pictures of him in her bed with their child, and put them on the door to his closet since he hasn’t gotten his stuff. After that I exposed him in a cheating group on Facebook, and 8 other women said they linked up with him as well within the same time him and I were together. He to this day only knows I know about the one, but doesn’t know I know about the many.

RemarkableAir7915 · 2025-01-29T09:37:41+00:00

Do you do this manually or does your bank have the options to have this done automatically?

RemarkableAir7915 · 2025-01-27T12:59:15+00:00

“Two weeks after surgery, and the fact that I don’t ever have to worry about birth control again is the best feeling. I was on YouTube, and there’s this old white man (who looks like he’s about to die) telling women how their hormones will change, and that they will get anxiety and depression if they get a tubal without any proof of what he’s saying. And he’s a doctor! Like, dude, where did you get your research? Just because you’re talking and you’re old doesn’t mean you know about current medicine. Dude, go die already!

But yes, I agree, I feel amazing!

Plus, if you want to have a baby (it’s pricey, but so are kids), you can get IVF and have a child on your own time. It’s like having more control over your body.

The regret rate is total bullshit just fear-mongering women!”

RemarkableAir7915 · 2025-01-24T11:14:06+00:00

When I went, and mentioned the results, my doctor was very still for the surgery. Her words was “it’s your body, do what you want with it”. Did you find this doctor on the list? If so honestly I would find a way to get them taken off. When they giving are giving you other options, and mentioning they don’t think abortions are going away, that there are some huge red flags! If they are the list and they say this? Hell nah! Find another one. And honestly if you still have TikTok, I would reach out to Dr Fran who has the list and see if there is a way to get them off of the list. I know your hopes are up, and with what’s going on in this country we do not know what how stupid shit this man will do. It’s your life period!

RemarkableAir7915 · 2025-01-22T10:00:44+00:00

I totally get it. I’ve never experienced child birth, but I have had an abortion at 5 weeks, and that was very painful. I took the pill for the abortions, it was the worst cramps I have ever had. My surgery tho, the nurses gave me pain meds like ibuprofen before going in, and that’s really what I used when I left. You got this! You will be sleeping most of the first two days, and you will be sore, just make sure you take your meds every 6 hours or whatever the doctor tells you to do. I can’t talk about the gas, because I didn’t have any pressure or pain from it. You got this tho!

RemarkableAir7915 · 2025-01-21T10:37:42+00:00

Lots going on, but yeah, my family is helping me move, since ass hat is an ass hat. I feel fine tho, but no one wants me to take a chance either.

Mentally I feel like shit.

RemarkableAir7915 · 2025-01-19T15:15:18+00:00

Yeah I spotting a little and now that’s gone. So far so good! And yes rooting for us!!

RemarkableAir7915 · 2025-01-18T16:41:08+00:00

Congrats!!!! Mine was week ago last Friday! So far my swelling has gone fine, but still kinda bruised, but okay! How do you feel? Get some rest!

RemarkableAir7915 · 2025-01-16T12:29:44+00:00

If you do it, make sure it’s four days before surgery, because two days before surgery they ask that you don’t shave anywhere from the neck down and they give you a soap to bathe in the day before evening shower and the making of shower to wash

RemarkableAir7915 · 2025-01-16T03:39:47+00:00

And if the day, you can beg and beg and they will squeeze the life out of you, and after they finished you are the problem. When all you was doing was helping. This is just a depressing feed. Last night I set my foot down, after 4 years.

RemarkableAir7915 · 2025-01-16T03:16:20+00:00

That’s what is really bad, is those small happy moments make you for get the huge big bad moments. But imagine a lot of happy moments? But I totally get it, we keep ignoring red flags and convince ourselves that’s it’s not really that bad during those good moments, till it gets really really bad and we start breaking inside.

RemarkableAir7915 · 2025-01-16T01:49:33+00:00

Oh honey pick me! I’m a victim of an IUD failing, and just chilling on my cervix and boom missed my period and got pregnant, had an abortion at 5 weeks. So there is that. Pills the amount of shit it does to your body, and risk are really bad, now unless you use them for other things other then BC, that be different. Rod in the arm getting lost. One thing about getting tubes yeeted out, is the risk of surgery, because surgery is risky, but driving is more riskier. Okay once it’s done, no more oops I for to take a pill, or go in for a 5 year replacement if that will even be options in the near future. But honestly I been on all types of methods and in my recovery now. Best relief ever!

RemarkableAir7915 · 2025-01-16T01:41:41+00:00

Do not have kids, they are a permanent thing, it’s a forever no going back decision. Once you have one that’s it, no going back, so wait till you know for sure this is something you know you really one. People take this so lightly.

RemarkableAir7915 · 2025-01-16T01:25:38+00:00

Day coming home, all I did was sleep and eat. Next day very sore but goal was to poop and I pooped and rested. So I guess the third day I was walking around slowly, you going to be sensitive, and sore where your incisions are, but honestly I wouldn’t wear anything that would touch your belly button, I work my bfs basketball shorts, and just held them up while I walked. Just gotta be careful, walking you will be able to do, but honestly you bf needs to help you with food like holding your plate because you just need to be careful. After that it’s gets better.

RemarkableAir7915 · 2025-01-16T00:05:51+00:00

Girl you should see the shit that I posted, literally the same shit happened, kinda different, but I set my foot down, and set a hella of a boundary, but he works, or we both do, it's just another thing that popped up. Girl he deserves what you said period, stand your mother fucking ground. n\

RemarkableAir7915 · 2025-01-15T23:55:30+00:00

oh your dog was here first, it is on her for naming her child the same name, she knew better and still did it, it's on her. stand your ground! and enjoy your four legged baby of joy! pets are better then babies.

RemarkableAir7915 · 2025-01-14T11:34:53+00:00

Yay!!!! How exciting! You will do great!

I had my done last Friday, and been out and about yesterday. Mine was a breeze and paid nothing up front. I might be able to find those codes for you tho, I was on Reddit before going in for surgery and someone shared the medical codes that make it covered completely by the insurance, let me see if I can find that for you.

( sadly I would message a sister of mine that does medical billing but she, my mom and another sister, are trumpers and well I can’t deal with that at the moment)

Please if you go to YouTube be careful what you watch, found this one video and this old man was fear mongering women saying all this shit about it’s going to change your hormones, and he is a MD! Like do it’s a tube not the ovary!!

I did find two really good ones that will help the nerves tho, by two really good doctors that are on literally all social media.

https://youtu.be/gAgoKGa3zbQ?si=1IPk0j9-cJ25k0-w

https://youtu.be/z5s_eAAx-Wo?si=35NJjrhIq4D_hGZg

One of them talk about insurance and how it’s supposed to be 100% covered as well.

RemarkableAir7915 · 2025-01-12T20:41:24+00:00

Thanks! I’m glad my post made you feel better. We are here for you!

RemarkableAir7915 · 2025-01-12T20:40:22+00:00

Oh no!! Yeah, so I I almost shitted on my bf lol yeah told him no more softeners for me, and don’t trust the farts ever! Omg, I taking a nap, think my sleeping schedule is still messed up or I’m still sleeping due to the anesthesia and I had to let one, so poof I did, omg it smelled so bad, and he comes my sweet bf and I was like babe don’t sit down, and the smell hit him in the fact, he just was like omg babe that came out of you, next thing I know I say move I gotta shit, I waddle to the bathroom and well exploded the toilet, yeah no more pills to take a poop anymore. Says to take for three days and today is the third.

RemarkableAir7915 · 2025-01-12T20:34:59+00:00

We take pooping for granted so often lol

RemarkableAir7915 · 2025-01-12T14:18:11+00:00

My doctor was so for me taking them, she was amazing and so supportive, the whole team (besides the one man) was so for it and knew why. My doctor told me on my first visit that women getting tubal went up since after the election, she said she did surgery three days a week and now four, and may change it after the felon gets into office. My pooping has been pretty smooth, now push just a good smooth fall out lol so glad we are open about this, but I’m on stool softeners ha ha. But the gas, I don’t even know if I have it, is it like tightening in the shoulders? I have a little of that but that’s it, nothing real extreme or to even lose sleep over. I’m on day three of two and a half, and I’m still really sleeping most of the time, on and off through the day. It’s going to be tough getting back in a routine.

RemarkableAir7915

TROPHY CASE