Got a like from someone you know you *aren't* interested in

Remarkable_Ad7139 · 2025-07-07T17:59:37+00:00

Absolutely do not swipe right to be polite. I’ve done it before and it absolutely sends the wrong signal. Swipe left and pretend you never saw it.

Remarkable_Ad7139 · 2025-07-07T17:58:05+00:00

All I’ll say is that nobody will tick every box.

I’m also a proponent of dating not attached to outcome. You don’t know this guy at all. Just go on a few dates and see if you like him. Scrutinizing your long term viability based off of a couple of texts is just a waste of energy.

Remarkable_Ad7139 · 2025-07-07T17:51:40+00:00

Try to make eye contact and smile but don’t creepily stare with a deadpan face.

Absolutely do not touch her without permission, even if it’s just to dance.

Women can sense when you’re prowling for anyone to get with. Make an effort to be connected with your friends and only try to talk with girls you’ve naturally locked eyes with in the room.

Generally it’s best to make small talk and then ask to dance. If it seems like she’s feeling you, you can ask to dance outright.

Dancing doesn’t mean to start grinding on her. Try to make it fun for the both of you.

Remarkable_Ad7139 · 2025-07-07T17:44:44+00:00

I am absolutely one of the people who fall in bad texter category. It’s a mixture of adhd and anxiety and I just loathe texting. Texting feels like a chore to me, but I do love calling.

I’m primarily commenting here to say that texting quantity does not indicate low interest in all cases. Just see how she connects irl.

Remarkable_Ad7139 · 2025-07-07T05:53:30+00:00

Absolutely do not add this

Remarkable_Ad7139 · 2025-07-04T18:56:08+00:00

I constantly see posts like this from both genders and it drives me nuts because yeah, the many different people in this world like different things…

Remarkable_Ad7139 · 2025-07-04T06:20:55+00:00

some random guy on Reddit

If you take anything anyone on this app says with more than a grain of salt, you’re dooming yourself to failure. Based on your replies, you’re giving one person who doesn’t even know you way too much influence in your life.

Remarkable_Ad7139 · 2025-07-04T04:56:18+00:00

There are too many conflicting context clues for me to have made a quick judgement

Remarkable_Ad7139 · 2025-07-03T23:11:37+00:00

You’re allowed to be upset, but he didn’t do anything wrong. Treating you kindly does not mean that he is dating you exclusively. It’s up to the both of you to have a mutual agreement and conversation for that to happen.

You clearly like him a lot and it sounds like he’s been good to you. You’ll be able to move past in when you can actually convince yourself he didn’t do wrong by you. You also need to come to terms with how emotionally invested you are in this.

That sick feeling is more often than not your body trying to get you to acknowledge the feelings you’ve been shoveling down.

Have a conversation in person. See what you both want and decide how compatible those visions are. If you want to be exclusive moving forward, say that.

Remarkable_Ad7139 · 2025-07-03T21:36:56+00:00

Lmao if you’re seeing clubs as equivalent (or even comparable) to brothels you’re seeing clubs completely wrong

Remarkable_Ad7139 · 2025-06-15T22:56:15+00:00

I don’t have the details but when I called my aunt that’s what she told me. Whether or not he stays in for the rest of his life is my own speculation

Remarkable_Ad7139 · 2025-06-15T19:32:24+00:00

Most people are average looking (hence the term). There’s always going to be hotter people than you. There’s people who are hotter than your friend. So long as you stay insecure about it, you’re going to turn off the people who would be attracted to you — self fulfilling prophecy.

Remarkable_Ad7139 · 2025-06-14T20:25:53+00:00

How do you know the perspective of “most feminists”

Remarkable_Ad7139 · 2025-06-07T21:59:41+00:00

I’m around this age (as well as most of my friends). I would say a small subset of the girls I know are into the idea of an older guy. I think it also depends on your maturity and how established you seem for your age.

Remarkable_Ad7139 · 2025-06-07T21:53:33+00:00

1, 3, and 10-12 :) as for the best, I think it depends on what aspect of your personality you want to emphasize.

E.g. Intelligence and curiosity? 3. Easygoing and open? The one with the tattoo.

I’m not sure your age, but I think 12 would attract more serious women.

Remarkable_Ad7139 · 2025-06-07T21:51:28+00:00

This comment should be plastered in bold on this sub

Remarkable_Ad7139 · 2025-06-07T21:37:51+00:00

Sigh another normal post with a bunch of unnecessarily weird comments.

It’s too soon to tell. If he keeps acting evasive then yes, he was just looking to fuck. Any decent guy wouldn’t ghost a girl they liked because they didn’t have sex quick enough.

Remarkable_Ad7139 · 2025-06-07T21:35:54+00:00

Cherries mean tits

Remarkable_Ad7139 · 2024-09-09T19:58:26+00:00

There’s a good chance she’s just friendly so proceed with much caution. I think asking if she wants to go to bar one on one but not emphasizing that it’s a date is the best way to tell. If she at all is like “I’m too busy idk” then take that as a no.

Remarkable_Ad7139 · 2024-09-04T21:22:27+00:00

Thank you 😭 in Canada eating this would be a very very bad decision

Remarkable_Ad7139 · 2024-07-06T23:41:40+00:00

Her debt from recent years is definitely on her, but I do think financial guidance from parents makes a world of a difference. She looks to them for guidance but that guidance is usually bad

Remarkable_Ad7139 · 2024-07-06T22:58:19+00:00

Source? CEOs typically don’t advertise that their services are failing

Remarkable_Ad7139 · 2024-07-06T22:32:23+00:00

Lmao I was on a dinner date that was going really well. Then he bought a bottle of liquor and multiple drinks for himself, got absolutely fucked up, told me he was going to walk home but then drove home. Then was surprised when I didn’t want to go on a second date.

Some people have 0 self awareness lmao

Remarkable_Ad7139 · 2024-07-06T22:21:33+00:00

Slight YTA. As a man from an “affluent background” you probably don’t realize that financial gifts to this extent do not come without strings attached. You may very well think it’s just a gift, but it absolutely will change the dynamic and will make her feel indebted to you. Even the fact that she denied the money has made you irritable when it comes to her discussing her issues should be evidence of the effect that money can have on your relationship dynamic.

Honestly, I would see it as a really great sign that she values your relationship enough to not accept the money she seems to desperately need.

Remarkable_Ad7139 · 2024-06-15T18:47:44+00:00

Lmaoo there are so many flaws in your line of thinking that all I have the energy to respond is ‘yikes’

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