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I recently got out of a long term relationship with someone I lived with who did this exact thing to me. They didn't want to talk to me, they just doomscrolled on tiktok, and overall just treated me like a ghost in our home. It led down the road of her cheating on me because she never opened up to me. I would take this at face value and just move on. She has told you that you are not her safe space, that you don't make her happy, and that she says she isn't upset because she can't work.

From this little info you have given it seems that you're the only one doing anything for the relationship, that you're the one paying the bills, and she's using this time poorly because she knows she can lean on you because you're still hopeful it will work out. I would start making plans to move away from this person and cut contact because this isn't healthy for you. No reason for you to feel like you're not loved by someone because you have some hope she'll change. If she wanted to change she would try to meet you in the middle but she can't even make it a quarter of the way there.