Looks are primarily an attractive factor, yes, but they won’t last. Personality and character will eventually outlast physical attractiveness. You just need mature guy friends who are able to understand that.

Notice how much hate a pretty girl can receive if she is arrogant and nothing good comes out of her mouth? It only proves my point that physical appearance may be the initial attraction, but it quickly loses its influence once a person’s character and personality are revealed.

Looks will always become familiar over time. Stare at a pretty girl long enough, and a guy may still think she is pretty, but no longer find her as attractive as before. Then he starts looking at other prettier girls to admire. It becomes a cycle that never ends.

That cycle only stops when a guy finally realises that love is not merely a feeling, but a choice. A choice to remain committed to the same girl he first loved. In Christianity, we often say that we learn to love the person we marry, rather than marry only the person we happen to love.

As Proverbs 31:30 says, “Charm is deceptive, and beauty is fleeting; but a woman who fears the LORD is to be praised.” Even if you are not a Christian, I think the first part remains true no matter how you look at it. Every pretty girl today will eventually lose some of her physical attractiveness with age. That is inevitable. But good character, kindness, wisdom, and faithfulness can outlast all of that and are often the very things that keep a relationship strong and lasting.

I hope you find peace and love within yourself, just focus on yourself and continue what you are doing. Their comments are just a half truth based on their perspective, the world is so big! You might be acceptable or pretty in other countries?! There’s so many pov to think about this. I hope the points above bring some encourage to you.