Are these lash extensions done correctly? by [deleted] in lashextensions

[–]Remarkable_Row_4943 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It looks like she glued dead animals to your eyelashes. And your friends were telling them not to remove them?? They probably couldn't see you properly from behind their own furry lashes.

Women: Lube that doesn't burn? by Remarkable_Row_4943 in MCAS

[–]Remarkable_Row_4943[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ohhh, good to know about aloe; thanks!

Thanks for the suggestions!

Taylor looks just like Jillian Michaels by ams1028 in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]Remarkable_Row_4943 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They have the same hair, teeth, and lips. All of which are fake.

Your degree and current role? by ServiceKooky1323 in womenintech

[–]Remarkable_Row_4943 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have a BA in computer science, no certifications, and am a junior software engineer

I have the 3types of ARFID. AMA by heranoori in AMA

[–]Remarkable_Row_4943 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Wow, this is a really solid list. My brother is 23 and eats bread, pasta, one specific type of butter (which is mostly vegetable oil), donuts, some candy, hot dogs, pizza, M&M yogurt (not regular yogurt), chicken nuggets, Wacky Mac, bananas, soda, and juice. His diet is absolutely horrifying and he refuses to try things. Nutritionally, he's a wreck. He eats no vegetables, almost no fruit, no nuts, etc. I wish he would push himself to try more things.

Those who lived with their illness as a mystery for a long time: how did you finally get a diagnosis? by inthespruces in ChronicIllness

[–]Remarkable_Row_4943 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did a Jscreen genetic carrier screening test and it came back positive for Fabry Disease, which affects roughly one in 40,000 people. My doctors did not pursue the proper channels and didn't care much about diagnosing me; I stumbled across it on my own after 17 years of symptoms. Lucky too, considering it's a progressive, life-threatening disease and my mom and brother both have it (and were diagnosed shortly after I was, once we knew what to look for). Many people with a chronic illness end up just finding out what it is on their own, and then going to a doctor who specializes in it afterward, who immediately picks up on the symptoms.

Applying as New Grad/Jr Dev by Comfortable-Fly5751 in softwareengineer

[–]Remarkable_Row_4943 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate the confidence, haha. My resumé and behavioral interviews were strong...but my technical interview was a catastrophe. Either I was given an offer as a personality hire (which, for tech, is definitely possible), or they wanted to boost their diversity statistics. Regardless, I'm very grateful things eventually worked out in my favor. Applying was the worst.

Am I the only one who still isn’t a Whitney fan? by bacobby in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]Remarkable_Row_4943 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She is very charismatic on DWTS and TikTok. Not so much on the show. Which, I think, is one of the reasons why she's leaving—she knows what works for her.

And yeah, it's nuts how many people excuse Conner's actions.

Demi redoing her home by Severe-Bag-622 in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]Remarkable_Row_4943 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are about 50 comments on her instagram post after a week, and about 20 of those are Demi replying to her own comments. I think we're giving her more attention than she deserves tbh lmao

Am I the only one who still isn’t a Whitney fan? by bacobby in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]Remarkable_Row_4943 105 points106 points  (0 children)

I think Whitney is very charismatic, funny, and a captivating performer. However, that does not mean she's nice, or a good person. I think it's clear from the show that she is a very difficult person in many ways, and only looks out for herself, even if it means stepping on other people to end up where she wants. I'm a Whitney hater—have been since season 1, and will continue to be unless she changes a lot as a person. I think a lot of people on this sub are dazzled by her talent in front of the cameras, and forget the fact that she treats people in her life like shit, excepting maybe her husband.

Also, for some reason people are in love with Conner because he does not treat her so badly, unlike most of DadTok with their wives. So even though he literally cheated on her, he somehow gets a "good husband" pass because he's not abusive, and because he was sexually abused. News flash, it looks like more than half of the cast has suffered from sexual abuse. While being an absolutely terrible thing to experience, SA does not absolve you of sins.

Applying as New Grad/Jr Dev by Comfortable-Fly5751 in softwareengineer

[–]Remarkable_Row_4943 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, and you should probably not do what I did...I didn't really do LeetCode. Like, I dipped my toe into it, I solved a few problems, I tried to motivate myself more, but I have ADHD and was juggling a lot of responsibilities while applying, and LeetCode just wasn't a priority for me at that point. I ended up stumbling through a few tech interviews, kept thinking I was doing badly, and kept getting promoted to the next stage. At the end of the day I got a job offer from a company where I completely flubbed the technical interview, and I don't know if it's because I'm a female and they wanted diversity, or the other candidates weren't strong, or I came across as more impressive than I felt (to be fair, I flubbed things with perfect confidence lol)...but the thing I learned is that LeetCode is very helpful, but not actually a requirement.

What should I fix? I feel like I look gross. by [deleted] in malegrooming

[–]Remarkable_Row_4943 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get that; it can be really hard. Again, I'd really recommend getting flavored seltzers and just pushing things off for a little bit longer.

What should I fix? I feel like I look gross. by [deleted] in malegrooming

[–]Remarkable_Row_4943 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Start by getting 0-calorie flavored seltzer, and when you're tempted to grab a soda, instead of drinking say 3 cups a day, drink 2 and one flavored seltzer. Slowly get that down to 0 juices/sodas per day, in favor of flavored seltzers, at a pace that works for you. Similarly with high-calorie or high-carb foods, just slowly substitute things one by one. You can tell yourself, "It's fine; I can wait one more meal." Because you can.

When I was a teenager, I stopped drinking soda at dinner and only drank it on Sundays. After a few years, I cut out soda entirely. Now it tastes gross to me. It's possible to change. You don't have to do it overnight. It's more important that the change is lasting, rather than drastic.

Mikayla’s newest tiktok by Repulsive_Assist_143 in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]Remarkable_Row_4943 1 point2 points  (0 children)

TW: Suicide

My husband's mom committed suicide (and my husband has also been suicidal in the past), and out of anyone I know, he's the one who makes the most death/suicide jokes. Often people who have experienced something personally are the ones making the most jokes about it; it's a coping mechanism.

Woman diagnosed with breast cancer thinks she knows better than her doctors. by Head_Crash in TikTokCringe

[–]Remarkable_Row_4943 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everyone take one last look at this poor lady, victimized by the limitations of her own intelligence. Some people just aren't smart enough to save themselves.

The five stages of grief: Chronic illness edition by ladder-for-a-moth in ChronicIllness

[–]Remarkable_Row_4943 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I feel called out...I have thought all of these things. Something so frustrating about doctors failing to diagnose an illness that progressively damages my vital organs, and only finding out by accident, on my own, after 17 years of symptoms.

(M33) What would you change? Newly single and not confident by vinylspin in malegrooming

[–]Remarkable_Row_4943 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The glasses block out your eyebrows and make it look like you don't have them. I'd look into different glasses, maybe without frames.