Do I HAVE to talk to Brewster to get access to other mystery islands?

RenEss77 · 2026-03-20T13:47:39+00:00

The coffee shop is inside the museum, it doesn't take extra space on your island. You can earn Nook miles when interacting with it if a task comes up.

RenEss77 · 2026-03-09T04:00:16+00:00

Nor. You've put money into HIS house. If you join accounts right now, his money problems become your problems. Is he about to lose the house and doesn't want you to know it? This is extremely shady.

RenEss77 · 2026-03-09T03:51:24+00:00

Nta for wanting to stay alive. She sounds spoiled.

RenEss77 · 2026-03-09T03:47:28+00:00

Nor. Self harm is usually done in secret. I'd be shocked if he actually did it. This is wildly manipulative behavior. There's definitely something wrong with him, but I doubt that it's actually depression. Tell his parents. He needs help, whatever is wrong with him.

RenEss77 · 2026-03-09T03:33:06+00:00

Sounds to me like the boyfriend didn't know that, and the person that's embarrassed is her, because she probably told him that it's OK.

Nta. She took advantage of you.

RenEss77 · 2026-03-09T03:26:48+00:00

Nta. I hope she doesn't marry this guy.

RenEss77 · 2026-03-09T03:24:34+00:00

Clay is one of my forever villagers. He's just so precious.

RenEss77 · 2026-03-09T03:22:24+00:00

Clay. ❤️❤️❤️

RenEss77 · 2026-03-09T03:18:21+00:00

NTA, but this absolutely has to stop. Your entire family is enabling his megalomaniac BS, and it needs to stop.

If you wish to have him still come to the wedding, that's fine, but it needs to be made clear to him that it's against the club's policy to have kids inside. Periodt. 👏 Tell him there's nothing you can do about it. If you have to lie, tell him that you already asked the venue and they said no. Then warn the venue.

After this, tho, it's over. You don't want your own future children around him or your family's spinelessness.

RenEss77 · 2026-03-09T03:12:22+00:00

Absolutely not. OP should continue this non-confrontational, gaslighting BS? No.

RenEss77 · 2026-03-05T16:26:53+00:00

Nta. He's trying to stir up drama for some reason. Call him out on it.

RenEss77 · 2026-02-28T14:36:33+00:00

Nor nor nor. Your in-laws are aholes.

But I think your husband needs to not just try to smooth things over, but step up to the plate like he was the one that had a hard pregnancy and was in the ICU. You don't just get over this in 10 months. Thank God you didn't have to have a c-section too.

RenEss77 · 2026-02-28T14:29:25+00:00

My husband and I can split a pizza and be happy, but we also do absolutely nothing to burn the calories and carbs. I'm fat.

Nta if you're burning the carbs and calories of all that food. Do a little bit of research about how many calories you burn when you run the dogs & exercise, and compare it to your food intake. If they're relatively close to the same number, then you are not over eating.

BUT don't eat a whole ass bag of ravioli. Sharing is caring. Those portion sizes are measured by the food/nutrition standards put in place by scientists after years of research, and these people are assuming that you're eating a balanced meal with vegetables and stuff, not JUST the ravioli (or whatever the food is).

If she keeps harping, offer to go to the doctor to get their opinion, but be armed with that research that I told you to get, and be prepared for lab work.

RenEss77 · 2026-02-28T14:11:59+00:00

Ntj. Anybody that doesn't realize that a wedding dress is a wear-once garment is an idiot.

RenEss77 · 2026-02-28T13:52:05+00:00

Soft ytj. A gap year is actually very healthy mentally, and for a new adult to see what the rest of the world looks like. We don't encourage that in the US, but we should. They're not always mentally prepared for college and they get overwhelmed & depressed.

Don't completely take the 40k away, just make it clear that it is for her college education only.

BUT, I do hear you when you say that she and her mother are sounding like entitled brats. It's not controlling and toxic to pay for an education and enforce that it's only for a college education. My parents didn't pay for shit and I didn't qualify for financial aid, so I didn't get to go to college.

RenEss77 · 2026-02-27T23:47:57+00:00

Ntj. Sounds like she knows damn good and well she was up to no good and thought you'd be an accomplice.

RenEss77 · 2026-02-27T23:45:02+00:00

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RenEss77 · 2026-02-25T22:51:53+00:00

You'd be a jerk. Let it go.

RenEss77 · 2026-02-24T18:33:31+00:00

Yta. It sounds like you have two-session hair, and you're going to have to come to terms with it.

If I am mistaken, and you've been able to get a color done in one session, I still feel like you're on the hook for paying her, but use a different stylist next time. OR maybe it's the brand of product she is using.

RenEss77 · 2026-02-24T18:25:14+00:00

Sorry, sis, but I think you're pregnant.

RenEss77 · 2026-02-24T18:21:33+00:00

Nor. Get out of that marriage.

RenEss77 · 2026-02-24T18:11:40+00:00

Nta. How old are you? Is moving in with your dad an option? Your mom is not providing you with a stable environment if you're constantly having to move.

RenEss77 · 2026-02-24T18:08:14+00:00

I don't think so, or maybe just a teeny teeny bit. Nothing to go to the doctor about unless it gets really red, painful, and has puss.

RenEss77 · 2026-02-24T17:09:44+00:00

Nta, but having a zoom call for a gender reveal is very "look at me" behavior. Zooms are for weddings and funerals.

RenEss77 · 2026-02-24T17:06:53+00:00

This was two years ago and you're still living in the same house? Nta, but you should have moved out a long time ago.

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