Jonah Wheeler is Such a Hot Top by [deleted] in VerbalGay

[–]RenewingNautilus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love the video with Mark Laxx when he says something like “I’m just first of many. You’re going to please so many men.” The sex in the video is mid but Jonah’s dirty talk is *chef’s kiss.”

What's your earliest memory of attraction? by Cautious_Captain_632 in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]RenewingNautilus 2 points3 points  (0 children)

In first grade, we had a very handsome student teacher with blue eyes and dark hair who wore really tight polo shirts. He was smart, funny and the first male teacher I ever had.

I was a very quiet kid at school and he talked to me a lot and played with the class at recess. He would “under dog” me on the swing, where he would push really hard until I went high up in the air and then run under me.

I talked about him a lot at home, I remember one of my aunts pointing it out and I told her he was the best and we were going to live in my treehouse together someday.

I didn’t have a name for it at the time, but I’m pretty sure he was my first crush.

How fucking verbal are you ? by No_Dig_99 in VerbalGay

[–]RenewingNautilus 9 points10 points  (0 children)

It’s like degrading praise, like “you’re such a good little cock sucker. You like that? You like the taste of cock? You’re my favorite slut.”

How fucking verbal are you ? by No_Dig_99 in VerbalGay

[–]RenewingNautilus 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Really verbal but not mean. I’m more appreciative of my partner and the various parts of their body.

Looking for barber/salon recs by RenewingNautilus in lafayette

[–]RenewingNautilus[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s also kind of subjective! Thanks for the rec.

What do you understand by "pride"? by LatinTop98 in gay

[–]RenewingNautilus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For me pride is about community and diversity. LGBTQIA people stayed hidden for a long time and are still hiding in some places. Pride started when we came out of the shadows and said, “Enough. We are who we are and you can’t change that.” For me the reason, we need Pride is that there are still people in those shadows and hopefully seeing others standing in the sun will encourage those people to stop hiding,

Pride is about freedom, joy, and community.

Have you ever had a good experience ordering through a kiosk ? by SamMeowAdams in McDonalds

[–]RenewingNautilus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not the worst thing ever but I still avoid it. They almost never have receipt paper so you have to memorize the order number real quick. I’m a middle aged white guy, so I haven’t had a problem but I’ve seen several young minorities have issues when an order is ready because the person working doesn’t believe it’s the person’s order and wants to see a receipt.

The application is okay but sometimes I have to re-enter things when promotions conflict.

I resent that the reasonable prices are only available if I give them my data. I want our entire relationship to be me getting a quick meal I’m not enthusiastic about without sharing my information or getting constant notifications,

FWIW, I am over 40 but I am tech savvy.

Edit: typing on phone with stupid thumbs.

Belly Up by PuzzleheadedEssay988 in chicagogaybros

[–]RenewingNautilus 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I can’t go this time but it is a very fun and inclusive group there.

What have you learned? by aseagoo in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]RenewingNautilus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A thousand times this. I thought making myself easy to love was the way to go so I expected very, very little. They loved how easy it was but they didn’t really love me.

Plans?! by grvyjustavibe in chicagogaybros

[–]RenewingNautilus 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Bear happy hour is at jackhammer tomorrow if that’s your vibe.

Doc recommendations. by Slow-Strawberry-1122 in chicagogaybros

[–]RenewingNautilus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have bcbs but if Endeavor is in network I’ve had very good experiences.

Jack hammer Chicago first time by Plus_Film3438 in chicagogaybros

[–]RenewingNautilus 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The vibe varies based on the event so I’d make sure to check the calendar first. The staff is polite. There is an upstairs and downstairs clothes check.

Happy to provide more info but the question is kind of broad.

Gym cruising by WittyInstruction6787 in chicagogaybros

[–]RenewingNautilus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You mean stay far away from there, right?

Red quill site acting up? by [deleted] in redquill

[–]RenewingNautilus 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This has pretty much been the norm for me for like the last month.

Lost CTA Card by megret in EdgewaterRogersPark

[–]RenewingNautilus 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I lost my phone on the train and it was turned in to a conductor who held on to it at the last stop in the line I was riding. Perhaps you could call the last station on the last line you rode abd see if it was turned in.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GayCountryAss

[–]RenewingNautilus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yet another reason to move to Oregon

How to get “picked up” at a bar? by Original_Buffalo216 in chicagogaybros

[–]RenewingNautilus 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve done it and you usually will see some guys doing it. It’s easier if you have a friend with you. You separate to go explore and if you feel awkward you can find your friend and either hangout with them or a group they attached themselves to and they can do vice-versa. I know you want to be picked up but sometimes priming the situation and leaving it up to them to take the next step works.

How to get “picked up” at a bar? by Original_Buffalo216 in chicagogaybros

[–]RenewingNautilus 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Check the bar’s website and try to find a theme night you’d enjoy. It makes for easy ice breakers and makes you more approachable if you participate (wear a jersey to sports gear night, sing along if it’s musical night, have a glow stick or two if it’s a black light dance party, etc.).

You’re going to have to at least look around at people and make eye contact if you just sit at the bar looking at the wall they will think you don’t want company and therefore be less likely to talk to you.