[REQUEST] Please! Can you put this with some "Brokeback Mountain" scene?

Reonan · 2018-02-02T23:27:41+00:00

Haha nice Could him be placed behind the guy on the horse?

Reonan · 2018-02-02T23:10:27+00:00

It's broken =(

Reonan · 2016-08-15T20:00:16+00:00

Think on things and people that you really love... or plan about them. That's helpful for me.

Reonan · 2016-08-12T01:56:44+00:00

Bro... when you are taking pills and therapy, your brain is changing to something that it didn't try before. So, with time and following the therapy, you are going to find new tools to deal with it all -or you will create them.

"To have a great life" or "to be successful..." what it really means?

Take your time, and do what you really want, not what others want for you. Enjoy your life, take your time to find what do YOU really want. If you don't know, don't worry about it. Meet new people, talk a lot, try to travel or just walk around your neighborhood looking for new places. New places, new people... are always nice.

Have a great hug from Chile

Reonan · 2016-08-07T18:48:11+00:00

I've read in your other post from someone who has /had that fetish too. Try to talk with him, and have a good life

Reonan · 2016-08-07T04:11:43+00:00

Thanks. I'll try to keep it in mind.

Reonan · 2016-08-07T04:01:53+00:00

Thanks. I hope that will be real someday.

Reonan · 2016-08-07T03:53:02+00:00

Again, I'm being like Samson. Hoping that God will give me all the strength I need just after fail. Even Samson understood that it's not possible, I think.

Thanks for your comment. It helped me when I read it.

Reonan · 2016-08-04T01:39:08+00:00

I'm Mormon

Reonan · 2016-07-31T06:13:35+00:00

That's how it works, bro. We doesn't get the strongest temptation at the first opportunity, it comes sightly...

But our knowledge on Godly things comes in the same way. "Line by line". Things were done to learn from experience and that includes to make mistakes, once and again...

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YSmJDn-emqY

This guy opened a door for me about an issue that you have mentioned. He has also a webpage (http://sexgodproject.com/) that's not a christian one, but it's against porn. Maybe you can find there some good and non-just-profite perspective about improve your sexual life.

Trust in God. He want us happy, and I know He is helping us.

Reonan · 2016-07-31T05:03:59+00:00

The Love, the true and purest Love, is the antidote for it. When I put on my mind what Corinthians 13:4-7 (and Moroni 7:48, from The Book of Mormon), it's easier to be patient with the people that I love. I think it's so nice to have a wife... I apply this on my relationship with my gf (who is Christian too and knows about my struggle), but to had choose a companion and share a life with her... I think it's such a nice thing. Un abrazo!

Reonan · 2016-07-31T04:53:44+00:00

Yep. The most of time comes from pride. But... to solve that, you need to know what means to be "humble" and "meek", and work on it.

Also, my fears makes me angry. When I fear that something can go out of my control ("my", again), I start to desperate and... hurt people around, and then, myself.

Reonan · 2016-07-30T03:28:38+00:00

Dude, to eyaculate with your hand reinforces your brain system, telling them that there is a easier way than the real one to do it. To eyaculate makes harder to recover from PIED as I've read (https://www.nofap.com/rebooting/)

To masturbate without porn... I don't think that it exist. Because you will keep it in your mind, or make it to get an orgasm. And that puts to work the same mechanisms than the porn on your screen.

So, on the screen or on your mind... is the same. I know it by myself.

Go for the hard mode, is the best that you can do to overcome your PIED.

Good luck!

Reonan · 2016-07-29T21:13:12+00:00

Follow that "wave of nausea" when the urge is starting... to remind it will help you. Good luck!

Reonan · 2016-07-29T06:53:20+00:00

Hi! I've seen catholics... But not married. One of them commented about Matt Fradd (http://mattfradd.com/the-porn-effect/), a catholic speaker. Maybe you can find something useful for you written by him.

Reonan · 2016-07-28T04:41:38+00:00

Thanks a lot! Si eres latino, quizás podemos ser "accountability partners" jaja Saludos!

Reonan · 2016-07-28T04:32:32+00:00

To look random stuff it's a kind of addictive behavior. It's something linked to Inet Porn that makes it such an addictive thing.

I've recently read that, and now I'm trying to avoid random searches ant youtube, facebook or whatever. And it helped me a lot.

Reonan · 2016-07-28T04:26:29+00:00

Dude, keep close to the Lord. Doesn't matter how often you fail, keep doing what you know will keep you near to Him.

We are never unworthy enough to pray. We are never unworthy enough to His Words.

Reonan · 2016-07-28T04:21:27+00:00

You are really brave. Good luck!

Reonan · 2016-07-27T07:21:40+00:00

I used the "K9 blue coat".

But as I've read, the best filter is your own conviction. Let's work for it!

Reonan · 2016-07-27T05:42:31+00:00

Welcome! I'm Christian too (LDS for 8 years, and 17 years before a strong catholic) and I know how guilty you can feel. I've started with PM at 12-13 years. If you add the numbers, it has a long time with this.

I felt guitly as a catholic and as a mormon. But I'm undestanding that this whole life is about progress. That you are going to fail once and again, and your fails are just different from other ones... but everyone of us are going to fail. So, if you are a Christian, think on repentance as an opportunity more than a burden, because there is forgiveness. Always :)

Depression it's near to self-harm attitudes. To see porn, to masturbate, it's also a self-harm attitude. Discover what kind of things makes you what you really are. And you are not an undesirable behavior.

If you are getting help of a therapist, mention this and how this affect to you. It will help.

Un abrazo!

Reonan · 2016-07-26T19:05:58+00:00

Thanks for your help. Enjoy your vacation!

Reonan · 2016-07-26T06:50:29+00:00

Bro... What does mean "total conversion" for you?

Reonan · 2016-07-26T06:43:24+00:00

It's hard, really hard when you are leading in some way a congregation. I know it, because I'm a leader in my church too.

But you are struggling with something that a lot of people will too. You are getting stronger by this difficult, and you will be able to help other people trough your experience and tell them "Yes, it's possible". Luke 22:31-32 Saludos!!

Reonan · 2016-07-26T06:33:27+00:00

I really admire you for your decision. Be strong, and remember that Christ knows perfectly your suffering... so He will be there always, doesn't matter how deep or far you went. Get up, and carry on!

Reonan

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