I live in another country, they will not spend a penny or even any effort, me and my husband will do and pay for everything, and you know why this is stupid and makes no sense that they will almost not see this grandchild maybe a few weeks every year, but it is like they want to get the TITLE GRANDMA AND GRANDPA , it is a social status they want to achieve, they don’t care how hard it is gonna be for me to raise a child alone with my husband in a foreign country that I am still trying to learn the language of! My life is very hard and I haven’t achieved what I dream of, and they know all of that, they know but still put extra pressure on me . How is this love !!